Size Goals: Why?

[Koh]

Don't really have a number in mind. I just want rock hard boners. I have a lot of space to fill.

[Vulture]

Because if a girl or a size queen calls 8 inches NBPEL small, I'm gonna cockslap her real hard...

And I want to end the possibility of my future girlfriend leaving me for a bigger guy..She can leave me for a nicer guy but not for a bigger dick, nono ...

[MrB8]

Do we have to speak of the past well, my goal is EQ and a healthy unit

I do believe that setting moderate goals may be a good motivation for some.

As for numbers, they set them to either reach their supposed "perfect" size or a certain category, according to each individual.

[HammerTime89]

I'm 7 nbpel now but I would like to be 8.25 nbpel. I would like to be able to say with confidence I have a legit 8 in. Cock if the conversation ever came up. As far as girth goes I'm 5 meg now and would like to be around 5.8 meg range. I don't want to lose out on anal or oral, but still considered thick. I feel both these goals are realistic with hard work and dedication.

[Falconer1]

I don't have a goal. I enjoy PE and I want to be as sexually healthy as I can be for my benefit and for the lady.

[Koh]

Because if a girl or a size queen calls 8 inches NBPEL small, I'm gonna cockslap her real hard...

And I want to end the possibility of my future girlfriend leaving me for a bigger guy..She can leave me for a nicer guy but not for a bigger dick, nono ...

There's always going to be someone bigger or better. In general.

[Steneo]

Because if a girl or a size queen calls 8 inches NBPEL small, I'm gonna cockslap her real hard...

And I want to end the possibility of my future girlfriend leaving me for a bigger guy..She can leave me for a nicer guy but not for a bigger dick, nono ...

I'm 7 nbpel now but I would like to be 8.25 nbpel. I would like to be able to say with confidence I have a legit 8 in. Cock if the conversation ever came up. As far as girth goes I'm 5 meg now and would like to be around 5.8 meg range. I don't want to lose out on anal or oral, but still considered thick. I feel both these goals are realistic with hard work and dedication.

Wow! If you guys get to those goal lengths there is no doubt you will be HUGE! Especially since they are NBP...

[MrB8]

Because if a girl or a size queen calls 8 inches NBPEL small, I'm gonna cockslap her real hard...

And I want to end the possibility of my future girlfriend leaving me for a bigger guy..She can leave me for a nicer guy but not for a bigger dick, nono ...

I really am NOT picking on you, but you just brought up a point which I would like to address if you don't mind

Wanting a bigger penis is not inherently good nor bad, its the motive behind it that matter, you mentioned on another thread that you hate PE (no problem here) and still you want to enlarge your penis (also fine).

Just thinking that a lady won't leave you for a bigger penis is not right from different points of view:

1. Not that many ladies prefer larger penises per say (I know I sound like a broken record but its the truth )
2. You seem to base most of your "assets" on your penis size.
3. Being a decent human will win you more than just a relationship, you'll win a lady's heart if you open up yours and she won't leave for anything.
4. Believe it or not, they may actually leave for a smaller size, and by your logic that would feel worse.

And again, I would really like to talk you to a different mind set, not lecture you nor show faults with your thinking.

[Vulture]

MrB8, first off, Congratulations on being this month's Member of the Month.

I wasn't trying to be logical bro so I won't feel nearly as bad if her reason for leaving me was me being bigger, instead I might get a huge ego boost.. But I know exactly what you mean in your post. I just wrote it how I truly felt about my goal. And no not based on my asset, it's just a huge insecurity to me, that if I have my goal length I will feel much more secure ...

And to be honest I don't have much of a quality, a normal guy with many flaws but this size thing has been in my head for longer than I remember and I need this gone...

[MrB8]

MrB8, first off, Congratulations on being this month's Member of the Month.

I wasn't trying to be logical bro so I won't feel nearly as bad if her reason for leaving me was me being bigger, instead I might get a huge ego boost.. But I know exactly what you mean in your post. I just wrote it how I truly felt about my goal. And no not based on my asset, it's just a huge insecurity to me, that if I have my goal length I will feel much more secure ...

And to be honest I don't have much of a quality, a normal guy with many flaws but this size thing has been in my head for longer than I remember and I need this gone...

Thank you Vulture.

Naturally It would be an ego booster for many, just don't make it your primary source of pride, or you will still feel insecure about everything else, we are human beings not just body parts.

The operative word in what you said is normal, we all have flaws and make mistakes, we learn form them and grow. No one is perfect, find the good in you and improve upon it as much as you can, personally, mentally, physically and sexually, learn new stuff, perfect what you already know, workout (including your penis ) go out and interact with different people, you'll grow bigger with the experience, in more than one way.

All that is great and encourage-able, if you start to believe in yourself, and the good in you, all the negative thoughts and direction will evaporate to thin air, just start.