Size Goals: Why?

[Steneo Senior MemberPEGym Hero Member of the Month Dec 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close Steneo]

So I was looking around here today and I was reading some old threads and it occurred to me that so many of you have specific size goals and I don't really. I guess I'm weird (er than we all already know I am ). So I'm wondering, why did you set the goal that you did? So, if your goal is 8 x 6, and many are, why did you choose those specific numbers?

Note that I'm not trying to pass judgement or start a war over who has the best goal or what the best size is! That's been done and it's a pointless argument anyway. No, I just want to know out of friendly curiosity, how you arrived at that goal number.

I'd also like to hear from our esteemed senior PE practitioners who achieved their goal size. Why did you set the goal that you did and are you happy with your result? If you had to start over again with the knowledge you now have, would you still try for the same goal size?

I'll get the ball rolling - As I mentioned I don't currently have a goal size. When I first came here it was looking for reviews of an extender that I had already purchased. I started at 5.75 inches NBPEL in September 2012, which was the measurement I cared about at the time, and I thought to myself that if I could just get to 6 inches NBPEL I would be totally happy. I achieved that goal long ago and just never made a new one. Ironically, I was never aware that my girth was on the small side until I came here so I never had a girth goal. My wife, the only woman I've ever been with, does not feel loose at all even with my modest girth (4.375 inches for those who care and don't already know)...in fact if I got really big I bet I'd get divorce papers LOL! I guess at this point I just like doing it and I enjoy the fact that I can make it bigger and will keep going until the gains stop or I'm told to stop.

[getinbig Senior Member Member of the Month March 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close getinbig]

Steneo, good thread to begin! Your question is a good one.
To be honest, I kind of did my measurements when I arrived at PEGYM and then came up with short term and long term goals that seemed achievable.
But you are right in wondering whether size goals are or should be what PE is all about. I have seen posts by Looking4more and MrsLooking4more about the impact of PE on EQ. That's perhaps my main goal now...to really achieve incredible EQ. My size at the start was small...a little better now after some incredible and unexpected newbie gains. In fact, if I measure my BPEL to the right of my ligament as suggested by some, by BPEL is 5.7...almost getting to an average length!
To be honest, I'd like to get to 6.5inches BPEL...
Why? I think that will enable me to "fill" my wife a bit more and hopefully give her greater pleasure.
That is the single most important goal I have here at PEGYM...to give my wife the most pleasure I possibly can. In line with that and what you posted about girth...I have seen an amazing increase in girth in the past 6 weeks since I began PE...my goal would be to get to the size that feels best to my wife. She is the most important person in my life, and the love of my life. I will see how she reacts to my increasing girth and stop if that ever became an issue for her.
The other great resources here at PEGYM go way beyond our "Size Goals"...this morning I discovered the amazing thread "Pussy Slapping" which has the potential of opening up so much more pleasure-filled avenues for me to explore with my wife. I feel my body belongs to her...and want her to completely enjoy it...just as I want to completely enjoy hers. It's such a privilege to be able to love her!

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Yes, good question Steneo. At first, I had a hard time coming up with a goal, because I just wanted to see if it works. My goal was growth, and that was the extent of it.

I quickly ran into a bunch of posts citing the 8x6 as a good size. So I thought, sure, why not. Just as quickly, I learned that the ideal doesn't exist, it is simply a case by case preference. (Just my opinion)

So now, I'm the same, I do it because I can, and will move to maintenance when she tells me "no more". She was already satisfied, so any growth is just a bonus (to a limit of course).

My new ultimate goal is her maximum pleasure without discomfort or loss of sexual variety (positions, oral, etc.), with better health and strong EQ.

I should also say the the short term goals I have set are based off realistic expectations of growth, from my own experiences. Just to give me something to work towards, and keep me motivated.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Hmm my initial growth was accidental due to prolonged edging ,so I was 7.75" by 5.5" when I got to mainstream pe.
My initial goal was 8.5" by 6.5" but I quickly discovered that many girls have trouble handling anything over 8 by 6 so I have been maintaining that.

[Mr. TeenieWeenie Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Mr. TeenieWeenie]

To be honest, I think like most men who come on this site or search penis enlargement on google are trying to find the average size or are trying to see where they stand in relation to other men. I always thought I was small but since joining PE gym I realize I am the definition of average or at least I was when I got here(5.75x4.75). I have always dreamed of having a large penis like in porn(I know this isn't healthy thinking). It would be nice to have even as just a novelty item, plus it would be fun to play with. Ideally I would probably want something along the lines between 8-9BPEL and 6-6.5 EG. My sig says 9x7, I figure if you shoot for the stars you might land on the moon.

[Knoblin Banned, Troll Find all posts View Profile Close Knoblin]

So I was looking around here today and I was reading some old threads and it occurred to me that so many of you have specific size goals and I don't really. I guess I'm weird (er than we all already know I am ). So I'm wondering, why did you set the goal that you did? So, if your goal is 8 x 6, and many are, why did you choose those specific numbers?

Note that I'm not trying to pass judgement or start a war over who has the best goal or what the best size is! That's been done and it's a pointless argument anyway. No, I just want to know out of friendly curiosity, how you arrived at that goal number.

I'd also like to hear from our esteemed senior PE practitioners who achieved their goal size. Why did you set the goal that you did and are you happy with your result? If you had to start over again with the knowledge you now have, would you still try for the same goal size?

I'll get the ball rolling - As I mentioned I don't currently have a goal size. When I first came here it was looking for reviews of an extender that I had already purchased. I started at 5.75 inches NBPEL in September 2012, which was the measurement I cared about at the time, and I thought to myself that if I could just get to 6 inches NBPEL I would be totally happy. I made that goal long ago and just never made a new one. Ironically, I was never aware that my girth was on the small side until I came here so I never had a girth goal. My wife, the only woman I've ever been with, does not feel loose at all even with my modest girth (4.375 inches for those who care and don't already know)...in fact if I got really big I bet I'd get divorce papers LOL! I guess at this point I just like doing it and I enjoy the fact that I can make it bigger and will keep going until the gains stop or I'm told to stop.

i just added an inch to my unit for length and girth for my goal.i never had a goal til yesterday cause i didnt measure b4.plus i just followed other members stats layout(how they put current ,and goal, etc)

[CLOSEDDennyA Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close CLOSEDDennyA]

When I started PE back in the dinosaur era, I remember thinking it would be cool if my penis could easily measure over 7 inches erect and never even thought about girth. Then with each little incremental success I began thinking bigger and bigger. Now it is just fun for me and just want to see if I can get a little more.

[Joint-Expansion Senior Member Member of the Month August 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close Joint-Expansion]

Hard for me to say really. I guess I have always been into being able to mold, and transform my body (having lifted weights since my teens), and this just seemed like another way to transform another area of my body that I REALLY enjoy using, and that I know my partners derived pleasure from.

For many years I have just focused on becoming a better lover overall, and this seemed to just add to that overall package for me, as I have grown in proportions.

[DaddyDick Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close DaddyDick]

So I was looking around here today and I was reading some old threads and it occurred to me that so many of you have specific size goals and I don't really. I guess I'm weird (er than we all already know I am ). So I'm wondering, why did you set the goal that you did? So, if your goal is 8 x 6, and many are, why did you choose those specific numbers?

Note that I'm not trying to pass judgement or start a war over who has the best goal or what the best size is! That's been done and it's a pointless argument anyway. No, I just want to know out of friendly curiosity, how you arrived at that goal number.

I'd also like to hear from our esteemed senior PE practitioners who achieved their goal size. Why did you set the goal that you did and are you happy with your result? If you had to start over again with the knowledge you now have, would you still try for the same goal size?

I set my initial goal of 7 1/2 by 5 1/2 quickly and recently have recently changed my goal to be as large as reasonably possible (9 x 7). The first goal was so that I had something to strive for, because without a goal I lack direction and motivation.

I started September of last year with regimented PE, so I do not consider myself a vet even though I have realized my original goal. I had to stop because my wife said that it was too much. Anyhow, she adjusted and now I am working on length again.

If I were to do things differently I would have used an extender before hanging with a bib. I am not upset about my decision because my EQ was in the dirt most of the time and I was desperate. Besides, hanging and clamping have changed my life and at the end of the day, I have a large penis.

[Steneo Senior MemberPEGym Hero Member of the Month Dec 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close Steneo]

This is all fascinating and a bit unexpected. So far it sounds like there is a crowd who is weird like me and has no number in mind (love you guys!), a group that sets achievable goals to stay motivated, a group that chose arbitrarily, a group all about EQ, and some who just want to be HUGE!

I know it's not PC around here but anybody influenced to a huge size by porn (I know one of you already mentioned porn - thanks for the honesty) or by "the chart"?!? I remember seeing the chart before I came here and actually believing it before being led to the light by the gym. Again, no judgement!

Hey Pegasus and Denny, thanks to you esteemed vets who have responded. May I ask, if you had to start over would you still try for the same size or go for something different?

[Koh Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Koh]

Don't really have a number in mind. I just want rock hard boners. I have a lot of space to fill.

[Vulture Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Vulture]

Because if a girl or a size queen calls 8 inches NBPEL small, I'm gonna cockslap her real hard...

And I want to end the possibility of my future girlfriend leaving me for a bigger guy..She can leave me for a nicer guy but not for a bigger dick, nono ...

[MrB8 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close MrB8]

Do we have to speak of the past well, my goal is EQ and a healthy unit

I do believe that setting moderate goals may be a good motivation for some.

As for numbers, they set them to either reach their supposed "perfect" size or a certain category, according to each individual.

[HammerTime89 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close HammerTime89]

I'm 7 nbpel now but I would like to be 8.25 nbpel. I would like to be able to say with confidence I have a legit 8 in. Cock if the conversation ever came up. As far as girth goes I'm 5 meg now and would like to be around 5.8 meg range. I don't want to lose out on anal or oral, but still considered thick. I feel both these goals are realistic with hard work and dedication.

[Falconer1 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Falconer1]

I don't have a goal. I enjoy PE and I want to be as sexually healthy as I can be for my benefit and for the lady.