Which members have extended to 8.5 or 9 inches?

[DennyA]

I never realized it but I guess no matter how well lubed they are they still get sore, I wanted to have sex today and my wife said she is to sore from yesturday morning. I dont understand why it was slipping in and out fine best I coould tell?

Yeah, my wife will complain of soreness sometimes the next day even when it seems like there was no issue. It must be micro tears that she feels later.

[cm79]

Most women's reactions to a 9 inch penis are

"Wow...........I will give it a try"

But 2 days later it's:

"why did I do that - I'm not seeing him again"

[Thenewguy2]

Most women's reactions to a 9 inch penis are

"Wow...........I will give it a try"

But 2 days later it's:

"why did I do that - I'm not seeing him again"

It depends on how he use it.

[cm79]

It depends on how he use it.

It probably depends on how good looking, charming, funny you are.

I think if a girl's wavering on you, and not sure, the ridiculous penis will probably make her decision for her

[seanyboy]

Yes, seriously.

I have no idea why anyone wants anything over 8 inches. Unless they just want to have less sex!

Most women will probably try and 8-9 inch penis. But I doubt they want to live with one for the rest of their lives!?

You basically answered the question in your middle line with your last line. If a guy is in a fixed relationship, then a huge penis is pretty pointless and probably undesirable for his partner. But if he's a player -- or what is termed the "male slut" -- and engages in a number of one night stands, then it's pretty much all about aesthetics and reputation of his sexual prowess. Even if a lot of women can't handle a big dick, most will be curious if they've never experienced a big dick, especially younger females.

[Thenewguy2]

cm79 I find what you are saying offensive on behalf of the big members. There are still some people who are 8.5"+ on this forum who's working for a bigger one, let them do their stuff.... You don't have to come here and tell them that they will hurt women 100% of the time, they can't pleasure women and that women will leave them after their first sexual encounter. You're telling that you don't think a woman will live with a man who has a 8"+ dick for their rest of their lives. Your way of thinking is just wrong, I'm sorry.

[cm79]

You basically answered the question in your middle line with your last line. If a guy is in a fixed relationship, then a huge penis is pretty pointless and probably undesirable for his partner. But if he's a player -- or what is termed the "male slut" -- and engages in a number of one night stands, then it's pretty much all about aesthetics and reputation of his sexual prowess. Even if a lot of women can't handle a big dick, most will be curious if they've never experienced a big dick, especially younger females.

Yeah, I'm not sure I agree. Girls tend to tell men whatever they need to hear, in the bedroom. They don't use words, as they don't want to hurt people's feelings. They use actions instead - ie not seeing you again.

If you have a normal dick she'll tell you it's great. If you have a big dick it's great.............

Let's be honest

[seanyboy]

Yeah, I'm not sure I agree. Girls tend to tell men whatever they need to hear, in the bedroom. They don't use words, as they don't want to hurt people's feelings. They use actions instead - ie not seeing you again.

If you have a normal dick she'll tell you it's great. If you have a big dick it's great.............

Let's be honest

Thing is, as male slut, you want a reputation of having a big dick, whether it has negative connotations or not (of course, you want to be a good lover in general, but that is less of an importance for reputation in that situation). A girl that has a one night stand with a guy that has a big dick will either: a) brag about it (and that has a lot to do with how good the sex was and how the guy performs overall), or b) just not talk about it if it was a bad experience. But even in case of the latter, if the girl is a wild partier and sleeps around, she'll still feign like it was great if her girlfriends inquire her about the experience. Reputation here is all that matters. It's almost completely different if you're seeking a monogamous relationship.

[cm79]

cm79 I find what you are saying offensive on behalf of the big members. There are still some people who are 8.5"+ on this forum who's working for a bigger one, let them do their stuff.... You don't have to come here and tell them that they will hurt women 100% of the time, they can't pleasure women and that women will leave them after their first sexual encounter. You're telling that you don't think a woman will live with a man who has a 8"+ dick for their rest of their lives. Your way of thinking is just wrong, I'm sorry.

Anyone whose 8.5 inches+, and wants more, is doing it for their own vanity. Not a sexual reason. It's just the truth

There's no functional use for a penis that size.

[DennyA]

This whole discussion is an oversimplification of "size" being too big. CM is basing solely on length as the determining factor. Girth, shape, hardness, skill all play an important role. If he is 6 inches long but has a girth that won't fit in is that not too big? What if he's 9 inches long and 5 inch girth and she's used to a fatter dick however it's the longest she's had...what does she call that?