Which members have extended to 8.5 or 9 inches?

**cm79** · 12-20-2013

Originally Posted by seanyboy

Thing is, as male slut, you want a reputation of having a big dick, whether it has negative connotations or not (of course, you want to be a good lover in general, but that is less of an importance for reputation in that situation). A girl that has a one night stand with a guy that has a big dick will either: a) brag about it (and that has a lot to do with how good the sex was and how the guy performs overall), or b) just not talk about it if it was a bad experience. But even in case of the latter, if the girl is a wild partier and sleeps around, she'll still feign like it was great if her girlfriends inquire her about the experience. Reputation here is all that matters. It's almost completely different if you're seeking a monogamous relationship.

I think this is a male perspective about how women talk. It doesn't happen like this.

If a girl tells another girl that she's just slept with a guy with a 9 inch dick, it's not:

"wow, I want to sleep with him as well"

It's more:

"wow, did you go through with it?"

Go on some female message boards and watch them talk about penises. They're much more functional than men on the subject

Men fantasize. Women just talk dynamics - my vagina is 5 inches deep so I need a 5 inch penis. It's why they truly don't care

**cm79** · 12-20-2013

Originally Posted by seanyboy

Thing is, as male slut, you want a reputation of having a big dick, whether it has negative connotations or not (of course, you want to be a good lover in general, but that is less of an importance for reputation in that situation). A girl that has a one night stand with a guy that has a big dick will either: a) brag about it (and that has a lot to do with how good the sex was and how the guy performs overall), or b) just not talk about it if it was a bad experience. But even in case of the latter, if the girl is a wild partier and sleeps around, she'll still feign like it was great if her girlfriends inquire her about the experience. Reputation here is all that matters. It's almost completely different if you're seeking a monogamous relationship.

Men want porn star penises because:

1: They watch porn. And see the actresses loving them.
2: They watch porn. And see the actresses loving them.

**seanyboy** · 12-20-2013

Originally Posted by cm79

I think this is a male perspective about how women talk. It doesn't happen like this.

If a girl tells another girl that she's just slept with a guy with a 9 inch dick, it's not:

"wow, I want to sleep with him as well"

It's more:

"wow, did you go through with it?"

Go on some female message boards and watch them talk about penises. They're much more functional than men on the subject

Men fantasize. Women just talk dynamics - my vagina is 5 inches deep so I need a 5 inch penis. It's why they truly don't care

Internet discussions, where the person is anonymous, is not a good gauge of how females interact with each in person. You can be much more honest and candid in that instance.

If girls are talking about how a particular guy performs in bed, his large dick size will almost always come up in the conservation. If he was good, then his big dick will be highlighted in a positive way. If he was bad, then the girl will probably not say anything about how he was at all unless the other girls inquire her about it. She might say he was big but he sucked, but the fact that he is now known for being big is all that matters even if it's in a negative light.

**Pegasus** · 12-20-2013

Ok guys I would like to relate my experience . I was 7.75" by 5.5" for a long time and many partners . The length could be an issue but could be got around with skill. With sufficient foreplay girth wasn't an issue. As I found mainstream pe and started to grow larger my then wife said whatever is making your dick larger stop it. So I did , upon breaking up however I restarted and was sexully active . I started finding not all women were into my dick, some raved about it and some were leary of it. Some really struggled . One full on size queen regarded it as "average" lol.. I am not into anal btw. My present partner loved it, especially the length. As I reached 8.25" by 6,25" she complained that she could not cope with the girth REGARDLESS OF FOREPLAY.
I now maintain at 8 by 6.
The conclusion I have come to ,is that women vary greatly in their ability to cope with a large dick, let alone their interest in it. Certainly length can be an issue when you get up around 8" and certainly girth can be also at 6" plus.
So if you want to be able to partner a wide range of women, then you have to consider what your goals should be.
On the other hand if your only partner can take a massive as in g4's case then no problem.

**cm79** · 12-20-2013

Originally Posted by seanyboy

Internet discussions, where the person is anonymous, is not a good gauge of how females interact with each in person. You can be much more honest and candid in that instance.

If girls are talking about how a particular guy performs in bed, his large dick size will almost always come up in the conservation. If he was good, then his big dick will be highlighted in a positive way. If he was bad, then the girl will probably not say anything about how he was at all unless the other girls inquire her about it. She might say he was big but he sucked, but the fact that he is now known for being big is all that matters even if it's in a negative light.

Sorry, having spoken to plenty of female friends about this stuff (as in being part of these conversations) I'd say this is bull...........

It's the male fantasy of how women talk. Not real life.

One girl telling another girl the guy was 9 x 6.5 has no positive elements whatsoever. I've heard the conversation.

If this was some sort of female fantasy, fisting would be a lot more popular!

**Happyone80** · 12-20-2013

I have female friends that are on both sides of the size spectrum. They all did agree on one thing though they would rather the guy have to much than not enough. And wanting a 8 1/2 inch+ member doesn't mean your vane, how many times have you wanted more to make a position easier or to be able to perform a position at all. My wife supports me 100% with PE knowing my goal will make me larger than she can take, but as i stated earlier about positions she has no objections to the 10+ new ones we will be able to perform. Take a look through the Kama Sutra and tell me that with an average size member you will be able to perform a good chunk of the positions most would classify as circus sex, especially if your like me and you like your women to be full figured not be stick figured.

**icedemon** · 12-20-2013

I to am starting with 7 inches and my goal is to get to 8.5.

**seanyboy** · 12-20-2013

Originally Posted by cm79

Sorry, having spoken to plenty of female friends about this stuff (as in being part of these conversations) I'd say this is bull...........

It's the male fantasy of how women talk. Not real life.

One girl telling another girl the guy was 9 x 6.5 has no positive elements whatsoever. I've heard the conversation.

If this was some sort of female fantasy, fisting would be a lot more popular!

With all due respect, any guy that is a nightlife socialite has sat in these conversations with other females, especially drunk females, so that isn't anything exclusive or anything to one-up anyone about in a discussion.

**icedemon** · 12-20-2013

Depends on the girl, but size does matter. Probably not as much as men think but it does. Even if our penises are big enough to get the job done, doesn't mean bigger wouldn't be better. Most women I know agree that the smaller a guy is the more "work" he has to put into it.