Confused about sizing GIRLFRIEND THINKS IM SMALL

**BTBrian** · 02-19-2014

Originally Posted by trepan

Dude says she's jerking him to make him feel bad...

She is sick of him trying to get her to tell him every detail of her past. I would be disgusted if a girl tried to get me to talk about what my past girlfriends vaginas were like.

Originally Posted by aBone2pick

Absolutely. I wouldn't even consider dating someone seriously unless every part of their past was an open book for me.

That is frightening

**Dick Whammy** · 02-19-2014

Originally Posted by camoman

shes 19 been with 3 guys she was married for about a year she is mature for her age. two of them were serious relationships and the 3rd was just a hook up which she shes she regrets but the sex was amazin bc of his dick.... we have been together since November not too long... the only reason i asked about the sausages was bc of the hot dog comment and a few other things she just joked aboutt that made me think she had a mandingo at some point

I wanna put this nicely. Okay, you've probably heard this from your Mom,,,,,but at 19, even though that person may feel very mature or grown up,,,,it's far from being grown up. I got married at 18 and thought I knew all there was to know about life, etc. Bull-Oh-Knee! I look back and realize I knew very little. I did grow up fast and learn alot, but still.........

She sounds very immature to me. That is basically an answer that describes the whole shooting match. I'm not trying to put you OR her down,,,,,but I'm laying it on the line. It's like putting a 5 year old behind the wheel of a car and asking him to drive you to work.

So take it with a grain of salt,,,,,,,and may the good Lord bless you!! ;-)

**trepan** · 02-19-2014

Camoman - Let this be a lesson learned... don't go asking questions you might not be able to handle the answers to. You'll figure it all out eventually bro... experience is (sometimes) the best teacher.

**MySword** · 02-19-2014

Originally Posted by DennyA

I'm sorry but i just don't understand these stories where the current girlfriend thinks it's fine to describe amazing sex with past partners with huge dongs (even with size aside)...it just doesn't sound real and borders on the fetish of small penis humiliation. What girl in her right mind who values a relationship would think this is beneficial somehow and not hurtful?

Just doesn't sound real...however, back to the sausage, how much was it per pound?

I agree Denny. I have had to ask most of my past partners about how I ranked (i shouldn't have but I used to be really insecure) and they never wanted to go into details. To them it wasn't important..... and all but one had never had one bigger (one had one like 0.5 longer and it took lots of drunken ruler use to work that out....) . I thought they woukdnt tell me caus they had had a huge one and were being polite.....one even said 'i swear on my grandmas grave you have a bloody big dick....' In exasperation at what she called a stupid size obsession men have.

This girl doesn't seem very nice all around imho. Either she is a liar (nfw she took 7.5 girth....) or is deliberately playing on ur insecurities.

to give u an idea my gf called my dick ridiculous when I first asked her if I was big enough and compared well with her past lovers (this was very early in the relationship). I got quite concerned with what she meant and she had to quickly reassure me that it was ridiculously big not ridiculously small! She still feels bad about that now some 2.5 yrs later! Bit different to this girl no?

**billywilliams** · 02-19-2014

I don't think you are small and even if you were this not the issue. I think the problem stems from her. If someone cares about you they don't make comments about your body.
If you were to say to her I am not small but you are very loose. I don't think she would be very happy. This comment would be very humiliating for her.
Maybe she is bitter. As you said she has been married and has had 3 other relationships. It is quite obvious she has issues.
My advice is don't waste any more time with this person. This is not going to get any better with her. You could be a foot long and she still would have comments.
I hope this helps .

**camoman** · 02-19-2014

Originally Posted by billywilliams

I don't think you are small and even if you were this not the issue. I think the problem stems from her. If someone cares about you they don't make comments about your body.
If you were to say to her I am not small but you are very loose. I don't think she would be very happy. This comment would be very humiliating for her.
Maybe she is bitter. As you said she has been married and has had 3 other relationships. It is quite obvious she has issues.
My advice is don't waste any more time with this person. This is not going to get any better with her. You could be a foot long and she still would have comments.
I hope this helps .

i think i am going to stick it out and ignore this and play the game right back if it gets worse ill find another girlfriend i feel like i can learn from this and be a stronger person. many of you have said im not small on the penis end.. however, i am going to continue PE as some of you have said make sure your not doing it for anyone else. im gonna do it for me i already work out all the time im a college athlete so its just another day of training and my penomet comes tomorrow. i dont really care at this point if i get gains and she likes them. im just gonna hope she wisens up a bit in the next year if not i mean i have options ... this option just sucks at the moment

**camoman** · 02-19-2014

another thing i wanted to note is she is very insecure about herself maybe some of yuou are right and she is trying to bring me down to her level.. without realizing it... we are both sarcastic and joke a lot but this took it too far... if i get to 6 inches girth and a girl isnt happy with that that is not my penis's problem ..

**trepan** · 02-19-2014

Camoman, read this:

http://cdn.returnofkings.com/misc/The_Book_Of_Pook.pdf

**Growlballs** · 02-19-2014

I would trade my 6.9x5.8 for your 7.5x5.4 any day, if yours is NBPEL that is.

**MrB8** · 02-19-2014

Originally Posted by Growlballs

I would trade my 6.9x5.8 for your 7.5x5.4 any day, if yours is NBPEL that is.

Why trade, why compare, you have a huge penis, and so does he, but even if you didn't, you should still love yourselves and your bodies the same, and PE for your penile health, EQ, and the size gains bonus, but most importantly, be happy with yourselves, and enjoy, its not mechanics, nor numbers that matter when it comes to intimacy and relationships, its has a lot more to do with confidence and being comfortable in your own skin.

Don't focus on size, don't ask about it, because it doesn't matter, focus on becoming the best you that you could possibly be, your penis is a part of you, you are not a part of your penis, so figure out what your priorities should be.