obessive compulsive disorder with penis enlargement.

[Pucko]

Why if someone is at the upper end of large do they feel they need to be bigger. I have noticed some new posts of guys who are 8 + looking to enlarge. If you are in this range can you justify your motivation. What do you think your benefit is going to be. I would think that as long as you can get hard that should be sufficient.
What else do you have going on in your life besides pe.
Please provide feedback.

Now i'm not in that range, but im 7by5.7 which according to studies still should be big.
I have this irrational need to be the biggest guy my future partners have ever had, i have no idea where its coming from and i have no idea how to make it stop.
Objectively i know that 6x5 should be the average at most, but i still have this irrational voice in the back of my mind telling me it's not true..

Overall my penis is great, i've always had nice stamina, nice EQ, high libido etc, its just the size thing that bothers me, i would never have had these insecurities if i had gotten laid in these past few years instead of watching porn everyday.

I'm doing PE to hopefully gain some and make these insane insecurities go away. If size still bothers me when im at 8x6, i do truly have major psychological issues.

[billywilliams]

My question is why do men need to be obsessively big ie 8+. I don't think no matter what your size is you will never be happy. And the second thing is consideration for your partner. It could be extremely uncomfortable for them be it heterosexual or homosexual.
The best way I can explain is someone who is anorexic .They get thin until you can see all the bones and yet they still feel fat. You can put them in front of a mirror and show them.And yet they see something that is not based on reality.
I think the obsession of getting large is a symtom of low self worth. People will not judge you based on your size . Most normal people base it on you as a whole person.
I think those who start off large to begin with ,really need to examine their motivation. They need to think where is this drive coming from. If you know you are large ,why I need to get larger. Why can't I be happy and content with what I have.
Saying pe is a hobby is just an excuse if you are already excessively large.

[Pucko]

My question is why do men need to be obsessively big ie 8+. I don't think no matter what your size is you will never be happy. And the second thing is consideration for your partner. It could be extremely uncomfortable for them be it heterosexual or homosexual.
The best way I can explain is someone who is anorexic .They get thin until you can see all the bones and yet they still feel fat. You can put them in front of a mirror and show them.And yet they see something that is not based on reality.
I think the obsession of getting large is a symtom of low self worth. People will not judge you based on your size . Most normal people base it on you as a whole person.
I think those who start off large to begin with ,really need to examine their motivation. They need to think where is this drive coming from. If you know you are large ,why I need to get larger. Why can't I be happy and content with what I have.
Saying pe is a hobby is just an excuse if you are already excessively large.

Well, a bigger dick equals more self esteem, a nice physique, a nice job etcetc does too.

The only reason i am doing PE is because i've been brainwashed by porn, i really do believe that most chicks dont give a f*ck about size aslong as you're neither too small nor too big, but there's still that little insecure voice in my head saying "no bro, all chicks want is a big dick, you see how chicks in porn react to big dicks.. Even if you get the girl of your dreams, she'll jump in bed with whoever has a bigger dick than you."

No matter how irrational these thoughts are, I cant seem to stop it.

[kickinthemebs]

Making blanket statements that everyone who does PE who is above 8 inches in unhappy with themselves is both extremely condescending and rude. I seriously doubt have any psychiatric qualifications by your simplified terminology on psychology, so maybe you should refrain from categorising individuals as you see fit in your own little world.

PE is not just about enlargement, it is about improving erection quality, penis health, and is just another part of our body which some individuals feel uncomfortable about, while others just want to remain healthy or for self-improvement.

People who have big penises have just as much a right to PE as someone with a small or average penis. There are a whole host of reasons they may want a bigger penis, or a healthier penis, or a penis with better erection quality.

Why do they have to be unhappy with themselves? Please explain yourself. So if someone was born healthy, then there is something wrong with themselves or they are unhappy with themselves if they want to maintain this health or improve upon it?

My question is why do men need to be obsessively big ie 8+. I don't think no matter what your size is you will never be happy. And the second thing is consideration for your partner. It could be extremely uncomfortable for them be it heterosexual or homosexual.
The best way I can explain is someone who is anorexic .They get thin until you can see all the bones and yet they still feel fat. You can put them in front of a mirror and show them.And yet they see something that is not based on reality.
I think the obsession of getting large is a symtom of low self worth. People will not judge you based on your size . Most normal people base it on you as a whole person.
I think those who start off large to begin with ,really need to examine their motivation. They need to think where is this drive coming from. If you know you are large ,why I need to get larger. Why can't I be happy and content with what I have.
Saying pe is a hobby is just an excuse if you are already excessively large.

[Pucko]

Making blanket statements that everyone who does PE who is above 8 inches in unhappy with themselves is both extremely condescending and rude. I seriously doubt have any psychiatric qualifications by your simplified terminology on psychology, so maybe you should refrain from categorising individuals as you see fit in your own little world.

PE is not just about enlargement, it is about improving erection quality, penis health, and is just another part of our body which some individuals feel uncomfortable about, while others just want to remain healthy or for self-improvement.

People who have big penises have just as much a right to PE as someone with a small or average penis. There are a whole host of reasons they may want a bigger penis, or a healthier penis, or a penis with better erection quality.

Why do they have to be unhappy with themselves? Please explain yourself. So if someone was born healthy, then there is something wrong with themselves or they are unhappy with themselves if they want to maintain this health or improve upon it?

I agree with you but the guy has a point, if you still want to enlarge your penis after 8x6, chances are you'll never be satisfied.

But who are we to judge? I say let people do whatever they want with their bodies!

[burtybasset]

I agree with you but the guy has a point, if you still want to enlarge your penis after 8x6, chances are you'll never be satisfied.

But who are we to judge? I say let people do whatever they want with their bodies!

I'm not that big yet, my wife doesn't particularly want me any bigger, but I quite enjoy PE'ing, maybe I just can't stop touching myself, I don't care I'm not stopping any time soon!

There is also the maintenance aspect as we grow older we still want our sexual functionality!

[GoingForGold]

Why can't you wrap your head around the idea of being satisfied but wanting more? I was happy with my manhood before I did PE and now I'm even more happy with it. It's not like I do PE because I feel a need to, I just have fun playing with my dick and watching/feeling it grow larger. I also have the technique to make sex enjoyable with my partner, who has been with me for all my gains.

I think your psycho-babble is an excuse for furthering some ulterior motive, not trying to help those with real issues. Some people actually do have problems with thinking their above average willie is small. Putting numbers to those problems and saying that those with bigger penises are more delusional is ridiculous. I would be offended but I have seen your posts in the past and think you are more obsessed with size than most. Maybe ask yourself if you are satisfied?

[billywilliams]

I am the one who started this post . All I was doing was asking a basic question. I never said people should not do pe. I know that people are doing it for erectile health . And also for stamina or pe.
What some members have stated was porn has caused a fear that they are small.
As far as my size I am 6.78 for length and I am happy with my size. I am not obsessed with my size as some posts have mentioned. I was not obsessed even when I was
barely 5 inches. I saw advertisement for Bathmate and I
was skeptical if it work for me personally.
It did I have not gotten any bigger over the last year. I have
accepted my genetic potential and try to keep good erection quality.
That is my purpose for me . And even when I was 5 inches no one every complained. Or ever stated the wished I was bigger . Or compared me to any other partners.
True my last relationship ended because my girth got too large. I was in relationship before I used Bathmate ,but unfortunately it may had worked to well in my case.
This is why I had said that you need to consider your partner. You may get too big and cause complications in your relationship.
And please dont personally attack me when I am asking a question. No where did I single anyone out on my thread.
Thank you.

[Dissily]

There's no simple answer to your question but I suggest several things are the cause of this obsession.
1. The porn industry has brainwashed young men into feeling 'less than normal'.
2.There's an ancient male tribal obssession with other men's dick size which suprisingly is as prominent with those who think of themselves as totally hetro. Just observe straight males check out each other's packeage the first time they meet. This is also tied in with a body of anthropoligical evidence that within tribal groups the males with the biggest dicks are invariably tribal leaders. It's uncertain if this is because those so blessed as a result demonstrate more confidence in general.
3. As to gay males, the physical requriements for obtaining and maintaining penetration do require a larger dick.
Think about it - - if it doesn't give you nightmares.

[kickinthemebs]

Huh?!

Just observe straight males check out each other's packeage the first time they meet.