Grow your self esteem rather than your dick.

[CUSP82]

If you're looking at the size of your dick to give you confidence in life then your focus in life is all wrong, but hey what the hell do I know. Lets see would it help you to get a job? Hello sir I would like a job here because I have a big dick? How about meeting a girl. Hey nice to meet you do you know that I have a big dick? ( great opening line for a relationship starter) How about at school; hey you can't give me a C on my term paper because I have a big dick.
Amazing we guys put our whole self worth and self esteem based on the size of our genitalia!

[Clamz]

the curse of being men (at least for some of us)..

[CUSP82]

the curse of being men (at least for some of us)..

Somehow I don't find it a curse to be a man. I don't have to shave my legs, pluck my eyebrows, or look fat in dresses!

[BigO]

I want to say i agree one hundred percent with OP.
however - may i make the observation that such confidence might be easier to express with a 6.5 x 6 inch penis than from an equally insecure individual with "average" penis dimensions. say, 5.5-6 x 4.6-5.

6 inch girth is "wow" worthy. if i had 6 inches of girth, with 6.5 inches of length, I'd be confident too - but once again - completely agree with what is being said.

You can get there, but confidence should be had first. Good luck with your gains.

[kickinthemebs]

There would be a sight

I don't have to shave my legs, pluck my eyebrows, or look fat in dresses!

[Gyrta]

I want to say i agree one hundred percent with OP.
however - may i make the observation that such confidence might be easier to express with a 6.5 x 6 inch penis than from an equally insecure individual with "average" penis dimensions. say, 5.5-6 x 4.6-5.

6 inch girth is "wow" worthy. if i had 6 inches of girth, with 6.5 inches of length, I'd be confident too - but once again - completely agree with what is being said.

I'd anticipated this type of answer.
I used to envy my huge dicked friends, I used to think about my big girth when I would argue why a woman should like me. When meeting a good guy, I would think that I was better since I probably had a thicker dick.
Still I wanted a bigger dick, because that would make me better than more guys.


Nowadays, I never think about my dick. Actually I sometimes forget about my "wow" girth.

[amc]

Great true words, but I guess its not that easy for some guys say with 4.5" girth. You started with 6" which is way above average and a really big dick. So, of course you can say this easily. Penis size, for some, wouldn't help there self-confidence. But it sure makes them feel more secure in bed. And will probably give more pleasure to many women.
Also, getting a bigger dick is something most men do for themselves. I have gained some, and will not stop because it feels so much better to jerk that thing of than before and I do feel better in bed. Its a sex thing and should not be connected to self-confidence. Not in my opinon. Sex feels better with a bigger penis, and women do like a bigger man, no doubts about that, whatever they might say.

From a personal social and self-confidence approach of course it would not help that much. Perhaps for guys that have such small penises that it has taken over there lifestyle and starting depression...

It would be nice to hear from someone that have had a smaller penis, and their story.

[kickinthemebs]

I started with a 4.5 girth, up to 4.75 now. It never affected my self-confidence at all, I didn't even know I was below average girth until I came onto this forum. It has never hindered me from rocking the socks off of my girlfriend, or other girls in the past.

Great true words, but I guess its not that easy for some guys say with 4.5" girth.

It would be nice to hear from someone that have had a smaller penis, and their story.

[mcpecker]

The men that makes the biggest gains and have the best routines are probably married and older men. They don't have the urge to get massive quickly. This urge that can harm young guys if they don't are careful enough.

Word. I didn't even start with the goal of increasing my size, I just wanted a harder boner. But as I got bigger, it became fun to see the differences it made in my sex life with my spouse. The differences are small and subtle, but sometimes that's a big deal when you've been with the same woman for 15 years. A little added spark in the bedroom, and that spark has spread to other aspects of our life because we had a great relationship already and try to keep the lines of communication open. If she told me tomorrow to stop growing, I would figure out a maintenance program to solely focus on EQ.

Yay for old men!

[Big Al]

the curse of being men (at least for some of us)..

Careful observation will reveal that the hardships endured by one sex is inverted but not "lessened" in the other. "ED" is an excellent example of this. With men, if you get ED there's no hiding it and you won't be able to perform. There is an analogy to ED in females, and it's "frigidity". While females can fake orgasms and use lube, frigidity can often make sex painful and frustrating.