Need help on decreasing.

[burtybasset]

Pay no attention if people don't believe you, I know I made a bad joke initially and I'm sorry for this, you know the truth of it, my apologies for not being of more help.

[MrsLooking4more]

OK guys enough with the size harassment. The OP didn't even mention his size in is original post and when he did was upon request from people that wanted to help. If you don't believe his claim fine but enough with the insinuations. Our site is usually liked because we have good a community and we support each other. If you can help with his original request do so, otherwise stop hijacking the thread. Thank you!

[Bigfoot69]

Thanks Burty, honestly. You are right in that I'm about done answering doubters because it just isn't productive. It is what it is and I dont think that from beginning to end I've acted like any of the trolls I know you guys get.

"You" the community answered my original post and made me realize I was asking the wrong question. The real question I should have asked was how to deal with a lack of sensitivity. Like I said, between comments in this thread and ones to my picture, I got the answer I needed. Thanks to all.

[BigO]

Have you noticed any positions with the ladies that make it easier for them to handle the girth? Are their certain positions that have been harder than others?

[Bigfoot69]

Have you noticed any positions with the ladies that make it easier for them to handle the girth? Are their certain positions that have been harder than others?

I always have to start missionary, even with long term partners. Honestly, lube and patience is key. I like Astroglide or even better, Gun Oil. Try not to laugh. Gun Oil stays slick for a long time and when it starts to give up, a little moisture reactivates it.

As for getting in the first time, it really is a matter of going just an inch or two in and staying at that level of penetration until they are used to it, then repeating the process inch by inch. Once I am fully in and have given it a couple of minutes, everything else will work. I have never had anyone that experienced more than slight discomfort, but that was by far secondary to usual sexual pleasure. Even the discomfort part fades after a few times together. Literally not one partner has continued to have issues.

[Jay1983]

Is gun oil safe on/in the genitals? Wait what?

[Bigfoot69]

Lol. I think that's a joke, but just so people know, notice I capitalized it because it's a product name, not something that you share between your weapon and your toy you keep within arms reach.

[MovingUp]

I disagree with you bigfoot. Stop grouping everyone together. Some people will always doubt your pics and some will be swayed with another better pic ... or two ... or possibly not .. but the point is it's incorrect to go through life thinking like that. That defeatism attitude towards discourse with others that's being perpetuated by society these days only hinders any progress that may be possible.

Its not this issue but how I feel you must treat other issues and how common this stance seems to be these days that is why this bothers me. It's like when a person you see as into a "crazy cult" that you feel since he has rejected all logic so far, that he and everyone like him are a lost cause. When I know that's not true because many people leave bad cults including a friend of mine's family member and if they had just given up on him like you seem to do with others then I wonder if he would have made it out. If discourse never worked with seemingly illogical people then crisis situation negotiators wouldn't exist.

[not2big]

Many diabetics suffer from neuropathy, a malady effecting nerve endings, which can manifest itself in the form of reduced sensitivity. Perhaps you should do some research regarding medication/treatments for reducing neuropathy, especially how to improve the sensitivity of nerve endings.

[BigO]

I disagree with you bigfoot. Stop grouping everyone together. Some people will always doubt your pics and some will be swayed with another better pic ... or two ... or possibly not .. but the point is it's incorrect to go through life thinking like that. That defeatism attitude towards discourse with others that's being perpetuated by society these days only hinders any progress that may be possible.

Its not this issue but how I feel you must treat other issues and how common this stance seems to be these days that is why this bothers me. It's like when a person you see as into a "crazy cult" that you feel since he has rejected all logic so far, that he and everyone like him are a lost cause. When I know that's not true because many people leave bad cults including a friend of mine's family member and if they had just given up on him like you seem to do with others then I wonder if he would have made it out. If discourse never worked with seemingly illogical people then crisis situation negotiators wouldn't exist.

Now your just egging on a situation that does not need anymore bull crap, what exactly is the point of this post?