Those of you who started out big - what motivated you to do PE?

[PurpleOnes]

I've told my story many times before. I started at 6" x 5.25". My ex-wife cheated on me and then, later, took great joy in telling me that her lover (one of her lovers) was much bigger than me (just to hurt me). I became determined to "fix" that issue. I don't know if I ever reached the point where I was actually bigger than that guy, but I did succeed in making myself bigger. After that I just found that I really enjoyed PE.

Men are naturally competitive. Men naturally put a tremendous amount of value on sex. Combine these two things and men want to be the biggest and best when it comes to sex. Add in how much our western society pushed the importance of having a big penis. I see references to this all the time in movies, TV shows, advertising, jokes, etc.

So basicly you may not be insecure about your penis size but then comes this kind of unpleasant situation which makes you think about it in other way.

Well that is kinda messed up thing that she has done but due to PE you must feel happier?

[Sean Jacobs]

On the farm of a VERY rich farmer a chicken and a horse are best friends. One day they are playing out in a field and the horse falls into a muddy hole and gets stuck. The chicken runs back to the farmer’s house, sneaks in and takes the farmer’s car keys, goes to the barn and gets some rope. The chicken then gets into the farmers brand new Lamborghini, with the rope, and drives out to the horse. He ties the rope to the rear bumper and throws the other end to the horse, who takes hold of it in his teeth. The chicken gets back in the car and pulls the horse to safety.

A few weeks later the two are playing in another field and the chicken falls into a deep hole and can’t climb out. The chicken tells the horse to go get the car and some rope. The horse laughs, walks over, stands over the hole, and squats down. The chicken grabs on to his penis and the horse pulls him to safety.

Moral of the story: When you’re hung like a horse you don’t need a nice car to pick up chicks.

[Sean Jacobs]

So basicly you may not be insecure about your penis size but then comes this kind of unpleasant situation which makes you think about it in other way.

Well that is kinda messed up thing that she has done but due to PE you must feel happier?

Exactly. I was perfectly find with my size prior to this incident. Actually, I feel more confident knowing that I fall into the "big" category.

[PurpleOnes]

Exactly. I was perfectly find with my size prior to this incident. Actually, I feel more confident knowing that I fall into the "big" category.

Yeah!

Well I'm glad that you found about PE even after that type of situation since it could of been an easy thing just to say screw her and move on but you made something positive out of it

[rbi99]

I found this site by accident. I was doing a search to see just how big or small I was statistically, never dreaming that you can change those stats. One of the sites I brought up was this one, and after seeing I was already above average (my natural insecurity I guess you would call it made me figure I was probably below average), became curious as to whether or not I really could make myself longer/thicker. Guys who lift usually don't stop when they can bench or curl a certain weight. If I can bench 150 lbs, why not try for 175. Why stop there, shoot for 200. At what point should I cut back on lifting (assuming few injuries or that I am not failing to do other necessary things because I am consumed by lifting)? Surely my life won't change if I stop at 250 lbs as opposed to 275 or vice versa.

Where PE might get crazy is if sex became difficult because you are too big. Some guys here have actually said they don't care if sex hurts their partner, they want to be big. More power to them, I'm not here to judge, but for me that becomes the breaking off point. Just like my lifting analogy, if adding weight to my bench presses is ruining my shoulders, I would be crazy to keep adding weight for some ego boost.

So the three things I think that would force me to stop PE would be 1) reoccurring injuries; 2) my size made it uncomfortable for my wife; or 3) I was becoming obsessed with PE/my dick to the point I was failing to do daily things that needed to be done. A fourth reason of course would be I decided enough is enough and didn't feel like doing this stuff anymore. I don't think I would ever stop because some website said I was huge already.

[danimal1211]

Maybe I'm going through mid -life crisis and instead of buying a corvette, I took a more direct approach.

[rbi99]

Heard that chicken/elephant joke a hundred times - I have laughed at it each time I heard it!!!

[BigO]

I PE because I can.

[chineseguy]

If you start big, and everyone who's smaller PE's and catches up, you're not big anymore. So you have to PE to maintain your "big" status.

[Sean Jacobs]

If you start big, and everyone who's smaller PE's and catches up, you're not big anymore. So you have to PE to maintain your "big" status.

Lucky for us PE is WAY too much effort, time, and commitment for most men to even bother.