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  • Those of you who started out big - what motivated you to do PE?

    I can't remember where I read this, but somewhere on this site is the claim that a large percentage of men who start PE are above-average in size. I find this fascinating. I would assume most guys start out small, but judging by a lot of people's starting stats, that doesn't seem to be the case. I just don't understand why anyone who's already 6.5x5.5 would devote so much time and effort to getting bigger if they're already big to start with. I'm not trying to insult anyone; I'm genuinely curious. Enlighten me. If you were already hung, what made you want to hang lower?

  • #2
    Not feeling big in the first place, despite stats...
    Started: 7 x 5
    Current: 8 inches x 6.25 inches (whole shaft)
    Goal 8.5 x 6.5

    Pics. https://www.pegym.com/forums/members...8-56-46-1.html

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    • #3
      See, that blows my mind. I would kill to have what you started with. It's interesting to me how so many men share the same dissatisfaction despite having vastly different sizes.

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      • #4
        No one wants to be average and most everyone believes the average is higger than research states. Men are competitive and want to be the best, so they want to get to a size that they are comfortable knowing they will never be consideree small/average. Its all relative to the individuals perception.
        Starting..........Current
        BPFSL - 8"........8 7/8"
        BPEL - 7.5".......8.5"
        NBPEL - 7"........8"
        MSEG - 5.5"......6"

        All time goal
        9.5"x6.5" :biggrin1: 8=======D

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        • #5
          Originally posted by NeverEnough9 View Post
          No one wants to be average and most everyone believes the average is higger than research states.
          Why do people believe this? Are the studies unreliable, or is just a general perception?

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          • #6
            Originally posted by thecrowing View Post
            Why do people believe this? Are the studies unreliable, or is just a general perception?
            I think a lot is based off personal experience. Whether they have been told they are small or have had been influenced by others that larger are more common than they thought.
            Starting..........Current
            BPFSL - 8"........8 7/8"
            BPEL - 7.5".......8.5"
            NBPEL - 7"........8"
            MSEG - 5.5"......6"

            All time goal
            9.5"x6.5" :biggrin1: 8=======D

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            • #7
              I started close to those stats and I just had goals in my head that are currently just numbers.

              I guess guys who start on the bigger side do not realize that and they just want to be bigger.

              Mine was porn induced but since I quit porn it doesn't affect me. I do PE for myself and make myself happy since I enjoy this journey.
              PurpleOnes
              Senior Member
              Member of the Month June 2014
              PEGym Hero
              Last edited by PurpleOnes; 05-02-2014, 02:50 AM.
              Start: 8/2013: BPEL: 6.3" EG: 5.1"
              Current: 9/2020 BPEL: (8.3 inches BPFSL: 8.9 "* MEG: 5.9
              The Goal: BPEL: 9 inches EG: 6.5"

              My journal: PurpleOnes Journal

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              • #8
                You have a baby and it is very small. You see your child every day, every hour. Your friend comes over the first day you bring your new baby home. He comes over a month later and says he can't believe how big it has grown already - except you don't see it because you are with it every day. Another example: I am 6'5" tall, and I know I am tall because I am around other people all day and very few are as tall me. I can read a stat and it will confirm that indeed, I am tall. If all the people I ever encountered were always sitting down, I wouldn't know how much taller I am then the vast majority of them, and reading a stat that says I am taller than most of them doesn't really tell me anything. I have never been around another male who had an erection, let alone a lot of men who have had an erection. Just because the stat says I am large doesn't give me the same access to that info as if I was around dudes all day that had hardons. Your wife or girlfriend can tell you how big you are, but unless she is a bitch she sure as heck isn't going to say you are small.
                rbi99
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                Last edited by rbi99; 05-02-2014, 05:29 AM.
                FL 6.0"/MFG 5.75", BPEL 7.00"/MEG 6.5"


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                • #9
                  Sometimes it's ignorance. I had no idea about size until my last 2 years of high school. And around that age you run into ignorant girls who have no idea what an inch/centimeter is. I never knew if I was big or small until my first sexual encounter. I don't agree with most penis size surveys because the sample size is too small and the distribution is too limited.

                  Many women I have talked to you have actual sexual experiences (i.e. not ignorant girls who only watch porn or listen to what friends say) say that they can be satisfied with a 5" penis, which for most surveys is the lower end of "average". The only caveats are that they guy must know how to respond to what their body wants and be hard so it can create pressure inside them. Girth was also a major factor they mentioned. Length is usually last on the list. Which I find interesting because men seem to focus on length, in fact almost exclusively.

                  While I do want to get to a certain size, my main goal is to keep my penis in shape: harder erections, fuller glans, stronger, more voluminous ejaculations, and the ability to last as long as my partner wants.
                  My Progress Log: https://www.pegym.com/forums/progres...gress-log.html

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                  • #10
                    I've told my story many times before. I started at 6" x 5.25". My ex-wife cheated on me and then, later, took great joy in telling me that her lover (one of her lovers) was much bigger than me (just to hurt me). I became determined to "fix" that issue. I don't know if I ever reached the point where I was actually bigger than that guy, but I did succeed in making myself bigger. After that I just found that I really enjoyed PE.

                    Men are naturally competitive. Men naturally put a tremendous amount of value on sex. Combine these two things and men want to be the biggest and best when it comes to sex. Add in how much our western society pushed the importance of having a big penis. I see references to this all the time in movies, TV shows, advertising, jokes, etc.
                    (Late 1999): 6" BPEL x 5.25" MSEG
                    (Early 2001): 7" BPEL x 5.75"MSEG (mostly Hanging/Jelqing)
                    Aug 16th 2015: 7.375" BPEL x 6" MSEG
                    Goal: I have retired from PE - So my goal is just maintaining.

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by Sean Jacobs View Post
                      I've told my story many times before. I started at 6" x 5.25". My ex-wife cheated on me and then, later, took great joy in telling me that her lover (one of her lovers) was much bigger than me (just to hurt me). I became determined to "fix" that issue. I don't know if I ever reached the point where I was actually bigger than that guy, but I did succeed in making myself bigger. After that I just found that I really enjoyed PE.

                      Men are naturally competitive. Men naturally put a tremendous amount of value on sex. Combine these two things and men want to be the biggest and best when it comes to sex. Add in how much our western society pushed the importance of having a big penis. I see references to this all the time in movies, TV shows, advertising, jokes, etc.
                      So basicly you may not be insecure about your penis size but then comes this kind of unpleasant situation which makes you think about it in other way.

                      Well that is kinda messed up thing that she has done but due to PE you must feel happier?
                      Start: 8/2013: BPEL: 6.3" EG: 5.1"
                      Current: 9/2020 BPEL: (8.3 inches BPFSL: 8.9 "* MEG: 5.9
                      The Goal: BPEL: 9 inches EG: 6.5"

                      My journal: PurpleOnes Journal

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                      • #12
                        On the farm of a VERY rich farmer a chicken and a horse are best friends. One day they are playing out in a field and the horse falls into a muddy hole and gets stuck. The chicken runs back to the farmer’s house, sneaks in and takes the farmer’s car keys, goes to the barn and gets some rope. The chicken then gets into the farmers brand new Lamborghini, with the rope, and drives out to the horse. He ties the rope to the rear bumper and throws the other end to the horse, who takes hold of it in his teeth. The chicken gets back in the car and pulls the horse to safety.

                        A few weeks later the two are playing in another field and the chicken falls into a deep hole and can’t climb out. The chicken tells the horse to go get the car and some rope. The horse laughs, walks over, stands over the hole, and squats down. The chicken grabs on to his penis and the horse pulls him to safety.

                        Moral of the story: When you’re hung like a horse you don’t need a nice car to pick up chicks.
                        (Late 1999): 6" BPEL x 5.25" MSEG
                        (Early 2001): 7" BPEL x 5.75"MSEG (mostly Hanging/Jelqing)
                        Aug 16th 2015: 7.375" BPEL x 6" MSEG
                        Goal: I have retired from PE - So my goal is just maintaining.

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by PurpleOnes View Post
                          So basicly you may not be insecure about your penis size but then comes this kind of unpleasant situation which makes you think about it in other way.

                          Well that is kinda messed up thing that she has done but due to PE you must feel happier?
                          Exactly. I was perfectly find with my size prior to this incident. Actually, I feel more confident knowing that I fall into the "big" category.
                          (Late 1999): 6" BPEL x 5.25" MSEG
                          (Early 2001): 7" BPEL x 5.75"MSEG (mostly Hanging/Jelqing)
                          Aug 16th 2015: 7.375" BPEL x 6" MSEG
                          Goal: I have retired from PE - So my goal is just maintaining.

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by Sean Jacobs View Post
                            Exactly. I was perfectly find with my size prior to this incident. Actually, I feel more confident knowing that I fall into the "big" category.
                            Yeah!

                            Well I'm glad that you found about PE even after that type of situation since it could of been an easy thing just to say screw her and move on but you made something positive out of it
                            Start: 8/2013: BPEL: 6.3" EG: 5.1"
                            Current: 9/2020 BPEL: (8.3 inches BPFSL: 8.9 "* MEG: 5.9
                            The Goal: BPEL: 9 inches EG: 6.5"

                            My journal: PurpleOnes Journal

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                            • #15
                              I found this site by accident. I was doing a search to see just how big or small I was statistically, never dreaming that you can change those stats. One of the sites I brought up was this one, and after seeing I was already above average (my natural insecurity I guess you would call it made me figure I was probably below average), became curious as to whether or not I really could make myself longer/thicker. Guys who lift usually don't stop when they can bench or curl a certain weight. If I can bench 150 lbs, why not try for 175. Why stop there, shoot for 200. At what point should I cut back on lifting (assuming few injuries or that I am not failing to do other necessary things because I am consumed by lifting)? Surely my life won't change if I stop at 250 lbs as opposed to 275 or vice versa.

                              Where PE might get crazy is if sex became difficult because you are too big. Some guys here have actually said they don't care if sex hurts their partner, they want to be big. More power to them, I'm not here to judge, but for me that becomes the breaking off point. Just like my lifting analogy, if adding weight to my bench presses is ruining my shoulders, I would be crazy to keep adding weight for some ego boost.

                              So the three things I think that would force me to stop PE would be 1) reoccurring injuries; 2) my size made it uncomfortable for my wife; or 3) I was becoming obsessed with PE/my dick to the point I was failing to do daily things that needed to be done. A fourth reason of course would be I decided enough is enough and didn't feel like doing this stuff anymore. I don't think I would ever stop because some website said I was huge already.
                              rbi99
                              Retired Moderator
                              Member of the Month Nov 2017
                              PEGym Hero
                              Last edited by rbi99; 05-02-2014, 07:42 AM.
                              FL 6.0"/MFG 5.75", BPEL 7.00"/MEG 6.5"


                              The Ultimate Jelq (The UJ)
                              The Ultimate V (The UV)
                              Testicle Jelq (The TJ)
                              Heated Bundled LAS
                              Ultimate Warmup Exercise

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