When you get to a certain size does it matter that much after it?

[PurpleOnes Senior Member Member of the Month June 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close PurpleOnes]

Heya all!

When you start with a certain size let's say at 5-6 inches for example. When you get to a certain size which is considered big for example 7-9 inches does it matter that much if you hit that number you have set for yourself as a goal?

I think at that point it just becomes this thing that you can prove to yourself that you can get there. You have set a goal for yourself so you must achieve it.

I do not know what it is but I think I'm not only one that is like this. When you reach a certain size you want more while ofcourse the size your at is big enough or you can surely satisfy a woman with it.

Mentally do any of you feel like you want to be bigger than the other man so you kind of stand out?

I'm not talking about being biggest guy around since that is practicly impossible.

Is it just ego or you feel that it is just not big enough while in all honestly it is?

If you notice that something is working and your getting results from it why not continue doing while ofcourse not going overboard with it.

Just some random thoughts of mine.

[kickinthemebs Senior Member Member of the Month Feb 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close kickinthemebs]

It doesn't really matter in the broad scheme of things.

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

I think the goals are all about motivation and having an objective to work towards. A point of achievement. A result desired for what you do. Rarely do people do things just because.

I think too, as time goes on, those change. Maybe at first it's the personal ideal size of what would make you happy. Eventually, whether the goal size or comfortability is reached, there has to be some motivation to keep going.

Ego, competition, insecurity, self improvement, curiosity, the challenge of doing what isn't supposed to be possible, health, curing dysfunction, increasing pleasure...all sources of motivation.

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

I reached my goal last year and don't need any more as far as the lovely Mrs BigO is concerned. She loved it before PE.

I will do this forever and would like to proceed in the name of science.

My focus for quite some time has been on all of her little spots. Watching what makes her squirm, moan and utter the phrase "oh God" which happens frequently lately.

I think she shouted to the Lord at least 10 times or more the last two nights.

It had more to do with knowing what to do and just when to do it than it did with my johnson.

Truth be told there is a spot in her velvet lined love tunnel that triggers quaking orgasmed about half way in.

If I lost half my dick in a drive by shooting I could get her off with the half I had left until the day we die.

[Spoonman84 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Spoonman84]

Ive noticed once people start getting some gains a lot seem to lower their goal. Confidence boost from size increase, and a realization they might not to be some huge seems like a common theme. Or some learning bigger isn't always better the hard way which is what I'm dealing with.

[Phoenix7672 Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Phoenix7672]

End of the day, I want to be over 8, hopefully at least 8.5 and between 5-6 around. Beyond that, numbers are good for tracking, but I won't really care if I stop gaining anything.

That said, a number that seemed big in the mind's eye can actually seem small once you actually reach that length or close to it (eg. 8 doesn't look huge when comparing against 7.5).

[Hound Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hound]

Personally I have yet to get a complaint from any woman and this is kind of the fuel on my fire if you will. I have only ever heard how good I am and on occasion that it is big. So I have already stood out amongst the general crowd. I guess for me it is a matter of training and being the best you can be and maintaining that "title" if you will. Iff I can get bigger then I will and I am thus far but it was really to help with some sensitivity issues and now I am putting on girth and length. I can deal with that and will continue to do so. But yes in the grand scheme of things it is proving something to myself and I would love to just be that guy that when the pant hit the floor it goes from "WOW"(right now) too "OMG" (and they hide under the covers) LOL..... Touching on that really quick though It is still about confidence in yourself and how you feel. I cant even begin to tell you how many times I have gone to have sex and the woman will make a comment about how I strut across the room naked lol

[closed224 Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2014, Feb 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close closed224]

I think the goals are all about motivation and having an objective to work towards. A point of achievement. A result desired for what you do. Rarely do people do things just because.

I think too, as time goes on, those change. Maybe at first it's the personal ideal size of what would make you happy. Eventually, whether the goal size or comfortability is reached, there has to be some motivation to keep going.

Ego, competition, insecurity, self improvement, curiosity, the challenge of doing what isn't supposed to be possible, health, curing dysfunction, increasing pleasure...all sources of motivation.

A full hand, or even better two full hands. No OP it doesn't matter as much to me any more. But I still love it.

[Phoenix7672 Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Phoenix7672]

But yes in the grand scheme of things it is proving something to myself and I would love to just be that guy that when the pant hit the floor it goes from "WOW"(right now) too "OMG" (and they hide under the covers) LOL.....

LOL pretty much the same for me. If stats are right then I'm already big I guess, but why not get as big as you can be (until girls stop you).

Out of interest how many do say wow right now? I ask because we are fairly close in size.

Oh and Wishful...you need smaller hands lol. One day I'd love to hit just over 9" as that'd be 3 hands for me...and one hell of a testiment of PE working. lol

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Many guys their goal is too big and if they reach it will be unusable .

[Jama Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Jama]

I agree with Pegasus. I actually think perfect is 7x6-6.25 .. I'm not that long but I've had a few girls say I've gotten plenty deep(the stomach pain) . I think it should be more about EQ and girth.. So basically a healthy penis

[Phoenix7672 Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Phoenix7672]

I still think 8x6 is a good goal for most, although I'd still like more length if possible, since it is controllable. As for girth, I'd be worried going much above 6 as I have to figure even 6 is troublesome for some girls out there.

Of course, all this is moot if you are married and set goals based on what your significant other can take.

[kickinthemebs Senior Member Member of the Month Feb 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close kickinthemebs]

And unfortunately a large proportion of the guys on the forum aiming for these goals have little-to-no sexual experience besides porn-use so won't listen to what we say about this! It is a bizarre world - aiming for a size that is unusable, despite never using your usable size beforehand. Makes the mind boggle.

Many guys their goal is too big and if they reach it will be unusable .

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Hello. I am getting married in 6 months. My girlfriend and I are both virgins and I would like to be at least 8 inches by our wedding...............

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Hello. I am getting married in 6 months. My girlfriend and I are both virgins and I would like to be at least 8 inches by our wedding...............

Only 8" ,ok surly you want 7" girth