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  • Cant stop comparing myself to other guys

    I know I know it's like a broken record but I can't stop comparing myself to other guys that's I know that's more attractive than me, taller than me and has a bigger ducking than me. And I think to myself I have no chance with this girl....... Why would she choose me over him ? I'm in college, 20 years old still a virgin and I feel miserable. These years are supposed to be the best years of my life and they're not.

    I'm pretty popular on campus which is the funny part a lot of people know me and see me as a funny guy but whey girl sees me as a friend and not a sex partner or boyfriend. I'm getting tired of hearing sex stories my friends are telling me. And the worst part about it even if I get in a situation where I have sex I feel my dick is too small to satisfy any girl. I literally have a pencil dick at 4.5 girth. Man Im really about to give up and said f#ck it.

  • #2
    good timing man, just came on here after a week or so off.

    i used to be exactly where you are now.

    the best thing i did about it was get therapy, started working out, started eating healthier and stopped porn. penis workout is fun, too.

    check this out:
    18 Early Schemas Defined
    i had (still have i believe) 17. really bad, sounds very similar to what you're describing above. you cool with your parents? any issues? i had a lot.

    anyway, i'm just telling you one thing i used to be where you are and worse; i saw absolutely no future for myself. now, i'm studying (finishing a master now then starting psychology to eventually help others), having good sex with several girls and am content. all of that with even less girth than you. ;-)

    cheers, please hit me up if you have any questions.

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    • #3
      I kept my wife happy with a 4.4" girth for 40 years before starting a rigorous pumping routine. I am now slightly over 5" and my wife claims she can not feel any difference; however, I definitely feel a difference.
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      • #4
        4,5 girth is nothing to worry about dude. 50% of the men in the world are between 4,5-4,75 or below. 30-35% are bigger than 5 in girth. As N2b says, the difference is minimal for women.

        I use my penis as supplement to the sex. I use more time teasing, kissing and making them real horny than i do banging it in and out. Tounge, fingers, talk to them +++++
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        • #5
          Originally posted by CanIgrowPlease View Post
          I know I know it's like a broken record but I can't stop comparing myself to other guys that's I know that's more attractive than me, taller than me and has a bigger ducking than me. And I think to myself I have no chance with this girl....... Why would she choose me over him ? I'm in college, 20 years old still a virgin and I feel miserable. These years are supposed to be the best years of my life and they're not.

          I'm pretty popular on campus which is the funny part a lot of people know me and see me as a funny guy but whey girl sees me as a friend and not a sex partner or boyfriend. I'm getting tired of hearing sex stories my friends are telling me. And the worst part about it even if I get in a situation where I have sex I feel my dick is too small to satisfy any girl. I literally have a pencil dick at 4.5 girth. Man Im really about to give up and said f#ck it.
          Buy a penis pump and do girth work.

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          • #6
            Hit the gym, dress with some style, don't just be the funny guy. You are in college. Be what you want to be. Emulate the people you think have what you want. I started doing but I was older. I wanted a nice house and car so I worked my ass off to get a great job. I wanted hit women so I started working out. Lucky Im pretty good looking but Ove seen plenty of unattractive score with women. I will tell you your first problem is confidence. Women can sniff that out. They want a man, not a sissy. Hit the gym, walk with your head up, dont just be a goofball. Act a little mysterious. Make women want to get to know you. They love that shit. Don't hang all over them. Don't text them all the time. Always look straight into their eyes if your interested one of my favorite things is look into her eyes, and say IN YOUR HEAD, I want to fuck your out while staring into her eyes. I swear they can sense it. Women want men. Go out and get them bro.
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            • #7
              The good news: you can find out what works for you and increase the size of your penis

              The bad news: you are either born attractive or not, and this actually seems to matter more than penis size to at least 99% of them.
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              2019-03-16: BPEL 8"/NBPEL 6.75" MEG 5.2", BPFL 6.75"/NBPFL 5.5" FG 4.5"

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              Realistic: BPEL 8.5"/NBPEL 7.5" MEG 5.5"
              Optimistic: BPEL 9"/NBPEL 8" MEG 5.75"
              Dream: BPEL 10"/NBPEL 9" MEG 6.5"

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              • #8
                Yes give up and fuck it. Give up the insecurity and bad self image. Accept and love yourself, and then fuck a pussy. You are excellent. Just believe it and act like it. Love your self and your penis. Sex will follow.
                ALL THE WAY WITH GOOD OLE JAY!

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                • #9
                  When it comes to our penises we all compare. Whether we are in a situation where other naked guys are like the shower at work, or just looking at all of the various length and girth charts. The key isn't to fret about where you fit in, but do your best to maximize your gains if you want to be longer or girthier. As long as you give it your best shot, fuck the rest. I know it is easy to say since I have a lot of girth, but I have always believed that as long as I prepare to the fullest and give my best effort, I can live with the results no matter what endeavor I am focused on.
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                  • #10
                    You need to sexualize your relationships with girls, not just make them laugh. Otherwise you'll just be seen as a friend. And don't be so focused on satisfying them. You are #1!
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                    09: 7.8 x 5.5
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                    • #11
                      Many may not agree with what I'm about to say... But fuck it. Imits obvious you are insecure so what you really need is proof that you can satisfy, you need to experience sex and Learn that your fears are wrong. So this is what I suggest. You're in college, go to a party, find a girl you don't know and may never see again and fuck her. If you're this insecure you just need to get it over with so you can see how it really is

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                      • #12
                        I realize I was truly blessed as a guy, through more than just genetics. I was blessed with a truly supportive set of parents who never pressured me, but always had high expectations for me; encouraging me along the way to live up to my greatest potential. I was blessed with not only guidance from my parents, but an expectation to be the best I could be at whatever I chose to attempt, be it athletically, scholastically, or spiritually, as a boy. I was never pressured to WIN, only to be the BEST I could be! I am forever grateful for their guidance, and their genes! Grateful I was a good (but not GREAT) athlete, that I loved the games in athletics and the spirit of competition in academics! I was taught good social skills, enjoyed the benefits of a good example by 2 parents who loved each other, and I was gently "pushed" by them to do my best, whatever the task might be all my formative years.

                        My Dad played college football, but I never achieved that, and it was more than OK, 'cause I did the best on the gridiron I could. That's ALL he expected. I was better in baseball and swimming and hockey than him. But probably only because he never was on those teams, in HS. I graduated HS eighth in my class and got a scholarship to college. Both my parents were proud of that. Genetically, I was blessed with a "shower" Dick and early maturity, and my parents knew THAT too! So they taught me how to handle that, with open, non-judgmental discussions about responsible sexual behavior and healthy sexual practices as a young man, BEFORE I ever was sexually active. I kept no secrets from them growing up. Don't get me wrong, I didn't offer up details as a high-schooler, on my sexual behavior, but I never lied to them when asked questions. They had already covered the important practices I should live by, and I knew their expectations of me, so it was never an issue. They respected my privacy along the way, and they offered reinforcement of those healthy practices, but nothing more. I am forever grateful for that.

                        You may think my post here is way off-base on what this thread is all about. I think not. When I compare my formative years to other guys I grew up with, who had the same socioeconomic level parents, were just as good or better than me athletically, maybe even many superior academically; when it came to confidence and the desire to succeed, nobody was better than me! NOT because of my physical or academic abilities, but because of the confidence and values my parents instilled in me from childhood. Confidence and hard work is EVERYTHING, gentlemen! In jobs, AND relationships (both sexual & non-sexual), it's THE portal to being satisfied and happy with who you are, at your core. Never lose sight of that, and you'll be successful, as long as you continue the fight. I'm forever grateful to my parents for giving me both confidence and the ethic of hard work, to achieve. I genuinely wish everyone of you were so lucky! I was blessed in MANY ways, and I AM grateful. I owe God & my parents a debt that I'll never be able to re-pay.

                        So chin-up, CanIgrowPlease, PAY ATTENTION! Build your own confidence, it's your responsibility!... and learn to pay it forward! This is my effort to do the same.

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                        • #13
                          There's a women out there for every guy even if you are a 4 ft tall, one legged, troll. I can tell you one thing that drives women away is no self confidence in a man. That seems to be your major problem, you need to fix that.
                          7 1/4 inches x 5 1/4 inches Spring 2014
                          8 X 5 1/2 late summer 2014
                          8 X 5 3/4 Feb. 2015 That took a while.
                          8 X 6 goal
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                          • #14
                            First, its been said before in this thread, but confidence is more important than anything else in attracting women! That's what you need to work on most of all. If girls just see you as friends, try to make your relationships with them more sexual. Be more touchy-feely. Not in a creepy way, but in little ways. Like if she says something quietly, put your hand on her arm and lean in close and say "what? I couldn't hear you". Just stuff like that, because that stuff adds up. Joke about sexual things more, in a way that suggests that THEY want YOU (not the other way around). Example: If you're talking to her, and she glances down for some reason or another (anyway in your dick region), say "Whoa, my eyes are up here." And when the time is finally right with someone you like, dont be afraid to make the move. Just doing the little stuff helps. And remember, CONFIDENCE.
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                            July 9 2015:
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                            Mar 27 2016:
                            bpfsl: 8 and 3/8"
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                            January 2017 (after a 10 month break):
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                            • #15
                              I say quit, give up and give in. You whine about it like a helpless kid over and over.

                              You should just quit, that's what quitters do.

                              The other choice is to quit whining, quit giving up, quit taking the easy way out. Simply put if you want different results in life quit doing what you have always done.

                              Quit quitting!
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