Odd thing, lasting a little too long in bed after 8 months PE..

**Wedge54** · 12-11-2015

Hey guys, so been at the PEgym for 8 months odd. Not 100% continuous, but around that. Started off with JP90 and just done my own routine after.

Anyway, last 3 months bumped up my kegels.

I'd do like 100 normal, 100 reverse. Sometimes I may do more.

Anyway, so not been with a women for about 8 months.. and started sleeping with a chick, hot as fuck going great blah blah, but I take a very long time to cum. Infact i've not yet, came.. Length, idk 20 minutes we fuck? its good sex, changing about, I enjoy it but yeah. Came close to coming, but it was near the end and if she gives head or anything it feels like it will take ages!

Can reverse kegels or any other exercise make it happen quicker.. I know thats totally the opposite, but maybe like twice the amount of reverse kegels?

Any opinions?

**Mixim** · 12-11-2015

20 minutes isnt that long I think

I would be really happy in your position that it takes you so long

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As for tips.. I have no clue im newbie

**MrsLooking4more** · 12-11-2015

20 minutes, you can do a lot with that! All joking aside 20 minutes doesn't sound that long but is not my preference is yours. Do you feel desensitized? Like you are not getting enough stimulation? We have many members here trying to last 20 minutes so this is kind of different to deal with. What do you feel will be your perfect length of time? Did your lady complain about the length of time?

**dmizzle** · 12-11-2015

20 min of straight fucking is kind of a long time. Put a timer on and you will realize how long it is. I can cum in 2 min, 20 min, of 2 hours. I base it on my woman. I keep going until she orgasms or tells me to cum.

To answer your question, I dont know any way to sensitize your dick except don't touch it for a few days before you see her. I see my girl only on weekends, so Thursday is the last day I touch my dick. I want to be able to get nice and hard and be able to cum. Thats my only advice.

**Mixim** · 12-11-2015

Originally Posted by dmizzle

20 min of straight fucking is kind of a long time. Put a timer on and you will realize how long it is. I can cum in 2 min, 20 min, of 2 hours. I base it on my woman. I keep going until she orgasms or tells me to cum.

To answer your question, I dont know any way to sensitize your dick except don't touch it for a few days before you see her. I see my girl only on weekends, so Thursday is the last day I touch my dick. I want to be able to get nice and hard and be able to cum. Thats my only advice.

How do you control it in such manner the cum time??? Like 2 hours or 20min or 2.... How did you achieve that?? What is the technique ? Thanks

And "get nice and hard" is the hardeness of erection truly important??? My erection is never hard like "rock" I can always move it around like change its direction. Im quite scared now.. is my erection not good enough?? And its the same even if I dont cum / masturbate for 2 weeks doesnt matter how long...

Thanks... This is maybe a bit offtopic sorry OP

**Big Al** · 12-11-2015

You can perform a REVERSE Stop and Start instead of the standard version. In the reverse ersion, your goal will be to ejaculate as quickly as possible using a light grip. This'll enable you to lower your sensory threshold fairly quickly. PLease keep a close eye on the resultant times for your exercise.

**dmizzle** · 12-11-2015

Originally Posted by Mixim

How do you control it in such manner the cum time??? Like 2 hours or 20min or 2.... How did you achieve that?? What is the technique ? Thanks

And "get nice and hard" is the hardeness of erection truly important??? My erection is never hard like "rock" I can always move it around like change its direction. Im quite scared now.. is my erection not good enough?? And its the same even if I dont cum / masturbate for 2 weeks doesnt matter how long...

Thanks... This is maybe a bit offtopic sorry OP

Well, I developed the ability to control my ejaculation mostly from edging and age. When I was young, I was a two pump chump. I started edging before I knew what it was. After about a year, I gained almost complete control. Don't get me wrong. If I don't touch my dick for two weeks and have sex, it's hard to control. With when jerking off 2-3 times a week, and regular, I can last as long as I want. Pretty much like in porn. When having sex, I try to get just before ponr, and ride that as long as my woman wants me to. She isn't into long sex sessions, after 10 min of me fucking her my way, I mount up into her position and make her cum. I either cum with her, sometimes before her and keep my erection until she cums, or I cum a little after her.

This is all about training, and I think age helps. But I spend many nights edging for an hour or more. You just learn and train your body to do what your brain says to do. At this time, I really trying to learn to have dry orgasms. I can sometimes have multiple orgasms, but not the same. I orgasm and ejaculate, then I can keep jerking and have another orgasm and ejaculate 30-60 seconds after the first.

Anyway, work on edging and training you dick to do what you want.

**Mixim** · 12-12-2015

Originally Posted by dmizzle

Well, I developed the ability to control my ejaculation mostly from edging and age. When I was young, I was a two pump chump. I started edging before I knew what it was. After about a year, I gained almost complete control. Don't get me wrong. If I don't touch my dick for two weeks and have sex, it's hard to control. With when jerking off 2-3 times a week, and regular, I can last as long as I want. Pretty much like in porn. When having sex, I try to get just before ponr, and ride that as long as my woman wants me to. She isn't into long sex sessions, after 10 min of me fucking her my way, I mount up into her position and make her cum. I either cum with her, sometimes before her and keep my erection until she cums, or I cum a little after her.

This is all about training, and I think age helps. But I spend many nights edging for an hour or more. You just learn and train your body to do what your brain says to do. At this time, I really trying to learn to have dry orgasms. I can sometimes have multiple orgasms, but not the same. I orgasm and ejaculate, then I can keep jerking and have another orgasm and ejaculate 30-60 seconds after the first.

Anyway, work on edging and training you dick to do what you want.

Thanks so edging is the key

and maybe a bit of kegels
So the edging how did you do it?? Like reach the point of almost no return ( ejaculation ) and stop then wait a bit and again again again ?? Or when you stop you only stop for a few seconds and begin again and repeat repat

And thanks to this training then I wonder how it works... Is it like you feel the cum coming but you are so trained that you basicaly hold the cum as long as you want?

Thanks

**dmizzle** · 12-12-2015

When you work on edging, you get just before ponr, then stop or slow down so the feeling goes away. Eventually you get to the point you can stay just before ponr the entire time.

There is plenty of information, just search for it.

**Mixim** · 12-12-2015

Originally Posted by dmizzle

When you work on edging, you get just before ponr, then stop or slow down so the feeling goes away. Eventually you get to the point you can stay just before ponr the entire time.

There is plenty of information, just search for it.

Okay thanks

By the way after you stop then for how long ?? Maybe a minute... Or when you slow down you will eventually reach again coming close to the ponr and then you repeat right

I will aslo check some more info about it like u said

Thx