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Don't worry I'm not sad about myself lol I've been in some very dark places and it's all roses and sunshine compared to that. I'm getting along But that's it I'm just getting along. If I stop mastubating I can be much better esp in terms of money and girls.
How does masturbating affect money and girls? I mean, I have a girlfriend that I only see on the weekend, so I'll usually masturbate once during the week, then have sex on the weekend. If I'm not with a girl, I masturbate 2 to 3 times a weeks. Nothing wrong with it if it's under control. And I would consider 8 times a month excessive. I think you're doing fine but thinking jerking off affects your money or women, not sure about that. I'm curious to know more.
Same as dmizzle.. A few times a week hasn't hurt me at all, or the gains I'll add.. Saves a wet dream here and there too!! :p
Well idk maybe like I said becuase of my past drug abuse or whatever it has more of an effect on me or maybe I'm sensitive.
It's hard to explain but for money I'm a business man I have a full time job and I buy n sell things on eBay on the side. When I don't mastubate or when I keep it down I'm able to do this and resist the stress of it. So the more stress I can resist the more I can do. Also my thoughts are more motivating with ideas and enthusiasm to "chase money" for example a advertisement idea or somthing like that.
Before when I was abusing porn I didn't even have a damn job.
Now for girls I'm very socially awkward esp when I use porn and the less I mastubate The more comfortable I am with people. I don't even give a flying fuck about my dick size even though it's a little thin lol. I just have social anxiety and I find staying away from mastubation helps that. Also i sware to god girls are more attracted to you when you have months of no ejaculation. I can't explain it but I'm not the only one in the world who says this its in the no fap community. I fell better more
Confident cuasing me to dress better with a better attitude.
Napoleon Hill talks about in his book sex drive being what makes humans achieve things, make money, create things etc. Also he talks about sexual transmutation(directing your sex drive towards other things than sex) being what attracts people together. So if it's true then building up your sex drive(not fapping) can be helpful.
I do feel that sex drive/ testosterone levels do affect your life. Honestly when Im on testosterone I could score any girl I want. But Im not sure if that because of my sexual vibe, or if its because they can detect the increase in testosterone. I dont know. Sonif NO FAP increases this, go for it. I dont believe it does, but if it does for you, go for it. But I do believe women can somehow read my testosterone levels. Literally, score hot chicks is so much easier when Im on. Im not suggesting anybody take testosterone. Im 38 with low T, so I run Test cycles, and my life is completely different compared to when I'm on vs when Im off. There might be something to it.
Maybe I have low T lol I'm only 27. I'd feel kinda wierd asking a doc to check my testosterone but maybe I should
Perhaps by putting sex on the back burner you didn't display the type of behavior women are accustomed to experiencing.Quote:
Originally Posted by Captainc
The energy described for this process is often referred to as "passion". How you direct it can have profound effects on your goals.Quote:
Originally Posted by gr0w3