Penis Size mentality has changed

[PJ94]

So I have came to a solid conclusion that most of us are bigger than I thought.. When I was younger, I was so worried about my penis size, it shadowed deep into my confidence. It isn't until last year that I slowly started gaining confidence, now I'm completely happy with my naked body and can really care less. Being clean from porn for so many years and having organic talks with woman made me realize how much this "giant schlong" phenomena plays a role into mens head in such a negative way. Most woman I have spoken to, tell me 6 inches is big, and convos with my male friends on how their girl can't take their 6.5 inch penis, confirms it, as they were confused because they thought they were "small". On one hand, I have this girl that is my best friend, and she watches so much porn and she says she likes them huge. Thing is, she accidentally saw a pic of my meat on my phone and she said "it was huge" and she swore it was 9 inches. I'm only in the 6 inch range XD she also has told me her experiences with the guys that are really much longer, which I doubt they are big as she said, since she mistaken mines for that size, and she would tell me that she would want to cry from the size from pain. So obviously the porn has changed her perception, even though she obviously admitted the 6's to be big without knowing it. Now, I'm not bashing anyone for wanting to get longer or being longer, if that's what you want go for it! I just wanted to say, to love your self and every detail of yourself, regardless! It is the best feeling in the world and is really freeing. It's crazy how I used to look at my penis and my penis pics and think how "small" I was. When I look at it now, I think I'm pretty darn big! As cheesy as this may sound, you're all unique in your own way and we're all constructed in our own special way! Diversity is good, too many people always think one look, one style, or in this case, one size is "ideal". Everybody is different, and we should learn to appreciate everyone in that way. Once again, I'm not here to bash anyone, I support everyone and their goals, but I just felt like sharing this with everyone hoping to help someone out! A healthy, hard penis is good enough for me now, in my opinion

[serek]

So I have came to a solid conclusion that most of us are bigger than I thought.. When I was younger, I was so worried about my penis size, it shadowed deep into my confidence. It isn't until last year that I slowly started gaining confidence, now I'm completely happy with my naked body and can really care less. Being clean from porn for so many years and having organic talks with woman made me realize how much this "giant schlong" phenomena plays a role into mens head in such a negative way. Most woman I have spoken to, tell me 6 inches is big, and convos with my male friends on how their girl can't take their 6.5 inch penis, confirms it, as they were confused because they thought they were "small". On one hand, I have this girl that is my best friend, and she watches so much porn and she says she likes them huge. Thing is, she accidentally saw a pic of my meat on my phone and she said "it was huge" and she swore it was 9 inches. I'm only in the 6 inch range XD she also has told me her experiences with the guys that are really much longer, which I doubt they are big as she said, since she mistaken mines for that size, and she would tell me that she would want to cry from the size from pain. So obviously the porn has changed her perception, even though she obviously admitted the 6's to be big without knowing it. Now, I'm not bashing anyone for wanting to get longer or being longer, if that's what you want go for it! I just wanted to say, to love your self and every detail of yourself, regardless! It is the best feeling in the world and is really freeing. It's crazy how I used to look at my penis and my penis pics and think how "small" I was. When I look at it now, I think I'm pretty darn big! As cheesy as this may sound, you're all unique in your own way and we're all constructed in our own special way! Diversity is good, too many people always think one look, one style, or in this case, one size is "ideal". Everybody is different, and we should learn to appreciate everyone in that way. Once again, I'm not here to bash anyone, I support everyone and their goals, but I just felt like sharing this with everyone hoping to help someone out! A healthy, hard penis is good enough for me now, in my opinion

Good post. I think me are genetically, as well as, socially trained to want to be bigger. It's an alpha male thing. That being said, I think your post is spot on. I am struggling to get to a place where I'm comfortable with my body (all parts not just the penis), and have made strides in that area.

I very pleased you are happy. Happiness can be infectious!

[PJ94]

Good post. I think me are genetically, as well as, socially trained to want to be bigger. It's an alpha male thing. That being said, I think your post is spot on. I am struggling to get to a place where I'm comfortable with my body (all parts not just the penis), and have made strides in that area.

I very pleased you are happy. Happiness can be infectious!

You're definitely right about the training, doesn't mean it can't be undone! People just need to learn to love them selves, and I think a good way to start is to help each other out and stop looking at supposed flaws, and instead of criticizing just accept each other. And I believe you can do it, just don't compare yourself to people and remember you are unique, and one day your wife (if you aren't married yet) will love you for you anyways so it won't really matter what other girls think in the end anyways

[Phoenix7672]

All the more experienced and older women I've talked to about size have pretty much said the same thing...7" is certifiably big, and about as big as they'd want on an ongoing basis. Bigger might be fine a few times, but 7" or somewhat smaller (so 5.5-7") is what they like best.

Girth wise I've never really gotten an answer except that they don't like thin. Hard to put numbers to that, but I assume they mean somewhere in the 5-6" MEG range, probably trending on the bottom half (so 5-5.5")...again, as a daily, and maybe slightly more as a few time thing.

Granted both make me feel better about where I fall now, but it still doesn't really change my end goals from PE if I can hit them. Of course if things get bad I'll stop vs continuing to try and grow. It is humbling though to hear how a huge penis to them would be 7"x5.5" essentially...whereas to us it would be more like 9"x6.5".