Hey guys I have a dilemma I'm sure plenty of you about the porn dilemma. I have an issue where masturbating with or without porn gives me serious anxiety don't know why but when I abstain it stops. Is there a way to get over pe without edging? I just don't want to be anxiety ridden. I'm aware many of you don't necessarily feel this way after masturbating or viewing porn however this is specefic for me and a few others any help at all would be much appreciated!
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Why does wanking or edging give you anxiety my friend?The name's Tamora...TVR Tamora...with a capital "T".
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Does your anxiety have anything to do with a religion or your personal religious beliefs. I know some religions, frown upon masturbation....
At any rate, a dark room, a secure door (if getting caught is making you anxious), 20 minutes to 1 hour, lube, and a relaxed mindset will all provide proper tools for beating pre e.
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Thread moved to Pre-E forum.The name's Tamora...TVR Tamora...with a capital "T".
Lots of living to do yet unseen and a more stories yet untold!
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It's not the edging that might be causing your problems- it's the mindset! Please take the time to read through the following: The Detraining Effect: Understanding and Reversing Negative Habits To Improve Erection Quality and Sexual ConfidenceWant a FREE Month of Coaching? PM or email me for details- or CLICK HERE
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Originally posted by Big Al View PostIt's not the edging that might be causing your problems- it's the mindset! Please take the time to read through the following: The Detraining Effect: Understanding and Reversing Negative Habits To Improve Erection Quality and Sexual Confidence
Originally posted by helpontheway24 View PostDoes your anxiety have anything to do with a religion or your personal religious beliefs. I know some religions, frown upon masturbation....
At any rate, a dark room, a secure door (if getting caught is making you anxious), 20 minutes to 1 hour, lube, and a relaxed mindset will all provide proper tools for beating pre e.
Originally posted by Tamora View PostWhy does wanking or edging give you anxiety my friend?
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If you are trying to get rid of Pre-e, then maybe it is the mind set that is out of balance. You feel guilt or anxiety because of edging, but you are not in reality doing it for yourself, you are combating Pre-e t help satisfy your current or future partner. So you are doing it for the betterment of others, not yourself. So the anxiety can be turned into a positive force for the pleasure of your partner. Slightly different mindset, but less guilt attached when you are doing it for someone else.
Like any skill, it takes practice to master it. Conquering Pre-e requires training, both of the mind and body.
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Originally posted by TheZZMan View PostIf you are trying to get rid of Pre-e, then maybe it is the mind set that is out of balance. You feel guilt or anxiety because of edging, but you are not in reality doing it for yourself, you are combating Pre-e t help satisfy your current or future partner. So you are doing it for the betterment of others, not yourself. So the anxiety can be turned into a positive force for the pleasure of your partner. Slightly different mindset, but less guilt attached when you are doing it for someone else.
Like any skill, it takes practice to master it. Conquering Pre-e requires training, both of the mind and body.
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Well, describe your anxiety to us. What do you go through, how does your body react. Help us to understand this. Relaxation techniques can be different from one person to another. May be worth a trip to the doctor to discuss. While nobody likes to be on medication, if an anti-depressant helps your anxiety then you will be better off long term. It also may be a bridge to help you get over the rough spot. I was on anti-depressants for a little over a year and a half before I felt I no longer needed the crutch.
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Are you intending to do PE, or are you here to simply overcome pre-E? Think of PE training & pre-E training as healthy exercise, not masturbation. It's really no different than eating a healthy diet & exercising at the gym, doing cardio, etc. No different at all, in fact. PE will improve the health of your penis, enabling you to perform with better EQ, satisfy your partner and yourself with healthy sex, better vascularity, more stamina and overall confidence as a male. THAT manifests itself in ALL aspects of your life! It's not sinful, it's HEALTHY! Change your mindset, and change your LIFE!
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Oh god that weird site on the net and religion has a lot to answer for.
Get over your religion induced anxiety it might take some effort but it will be worth it.
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Originally posted by jockinthebox View PostAre you intending to do PE, or are you here to simply overcome pre-E? Think of PE training & pre-E training as healthy exercise, not masturbation. It's really no different than eating a healthy diet & exercising at the gym, doing cardio, etc. No different at all, in fact. PE will improve the health of your penis, enabling you to perform with better EQ, satisfy your partner and yourself with healthy sex, better vascularity, more stamina and overall confidence as a male. THAT manifests itself in ALL aspects of your life! It's not sinful, it's HEALTHY! Change your mindset, and change your LIFE!
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