How to put on a condom without cumming

[irgendwer-89 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close irgendwer-89]

Hey guys,
I'm 26 now and I hardly ever used a condom. I didn't need them most of the time due to long term relationships and being bottom. The problem is that most of the time I start to cum as soon as I try to put on a condom. I just can't stand the pressure on my tip and the rolling up. As consequence I cant even try condoms that would help me to last longer.
Do you know this problem?
Do you have any tips how to avoid that?

[Dangler Senior Administrator☼ Wizard ☼ White Tiger Award 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Dangler]

Welcome to the PEGym, thanks for joining !

Have you experimented with a larger condom size ?

One thought is 'edging' to learn & develop stamina & self control. Let's see what other suggestions our fellow members can post.

https://www.pegym.com/edging-increas...is-enlargement
https://www.pegym.com/penis-exercises/ballooning

[Zman007 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Zman007]

Too much pressure on your head? Are you very girthy? If so, you could try a larger condom, especially one with more headroom.

[irgendwer-89 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close irgendwer-89]

Well I wouldn't say that my cock is very thick, but it might be a good idea to try larger condoms. The other problem is the "movement" for rolling the condom down. I have to pull back my foreskin to put the condom on, so I stroke the very sensitive part of my cock while rolling it down which also makes me cum.

[gms585 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close gms585]

If just putting a rubber on makes you cum, how long does sex last normally?

[irgendwer-89 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close irgendwer-89]

From 1 thrust to 1 or 2 minutes

[gms585 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close gms585]

From 1 thrust to 1 or 2 minutes

I'm honestly not being a jerk but why bother? Untill that improves why not stick with other methods of pleasuring eachother? I can't imagine that's worth while for either of you.

[Jackxxx Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Jackxxx]

I wish I had that problem.
Start edging! all the time!

[irgendwer-89 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close irgendwer-89]

I wish I had that problem.
Start edging! all the time!

Why?
What do you mean?

[Jackxxx Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Jackxxx]

Why?
What do you mean?

Because Im the opposite. It takes me hours to cum, and if I put a condom it start killing my erection. I hate condoms thats why I don't use them.

[JanTantra Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JanTantra]

@irgend.. - Off cause you should continue having sex, especially if you find a girlfriend. However I understand that currently you don't.

With regards to the condom then try it over and over again while you are alone, my guess is that when you are alone it will go fine, but when you are with a woman you will get very excited. Try to notice what makes you so excited, and then just breath deep and relax.

When you succeed putting the condom on ( safety first ) then do not thrust at all, just insert your penis in her. Take it slow feel the sensation. When you are deep in her, then just stay completely still with your penis, but instead rub her clitoris using your thumb. You can do this in kneeling missionary ( angle position ). Practice this until you relax and maybe can do a single or two thrust when you feel in control.

However you also need to practice alone. Edging is masturbation however with the goal of practicing for sex, instead of just rushing for the ejaculation.

Read my progress log.
https://www.pegym.com/forums/prematu...-progress.html

6month ago, I also had a hard time controlling my ejaculation. Using the methods described in my log, I have now resolved it. The only position that now cause me troubles is doggy, were I still practicing to be able to thrust hard for 3 minutes..

Good luck! however you only need hard work..

[irgendwer-89 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close irgendwer-89]

my guess is that when you are alone it will go fine, but when you are with a woman you will get very excited. Try to notice what makes you so excited, and then just breath deep and relax.

Unfortunately I also have problems trying it alone, that's why I'm asking for tips.

[JanTantra Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JanTantra]

I didn't say that it was going to be easy.

Putting the condom on is not your main problem. Work on your stamina instead and getting used to the sensation.

Please read my progress log, I think you will benefit from it.

I am not into all the delay creme thing since it is not permanent, but if you will you can use a delay spray / creme first and then put on the condom afterwards, if that helps you.

[WaT30 Member Find all posts View Profile Close WaT30]

Hello. I apologize in advance for opening an old topic, but I have the same issue.

I'm 24 years old, and I've been doing pe exercises for 4 months now. I went from 19cm length and 13 cm girth to 20/13.5 in three months. Currently for almost a month stopped to recover my erection quality. I believe I'm having 100 % erections that are at an angle of 45° at the moment, so I might start again with the exercises.

On to my problem. So far it hasn't happened during sex, but when I'm alone bý myself trying the Durex XL condoms, I just come when I roll them down. I do have foreskin, but even when I'm soft, it covers only like 40% of my glans. I noticed I cum because I feel too much pressure under my glans when I roll down, and that has happened so far now 5 times. First time in September, two times in October, and now two times in November. Since the first incident in September, I only had sex two times (I go to escorts). I can not risk hapenning that to me. First time after the incident I had it on mind, but after oral on me to get me hard, putting the condom was fine. The second time I came from oral in the 69 position, and then I put on the condom.

Now yesterday and today while trying them on, I came. It's frustrating. This hasn't happened back in June, July and August. I am on NoFap, as in I don't masturbate nor watch porn. I'm not sure, but before starting pe exercises, in early July I fucked the escort for 45 minutes straight, and she had to finish me off while she was on top of me. In August I lasted around 35 minutes. And then, in September, maybe 3 minutes. Two minutes in missionary, she complained it hurts her, switched to doggy, and I came in a minute. In October, lasted 5 minutes while she was on top. Late October, lasted 5 minutes from her oral.

I don't think I have a tense pelvic floor. If someone knows proper way how to check, please let me know.

TLDR: Before PE, was 19/13 cm. No ejaculation while putting condom on alone. Lasted pretty long during sex. After PE, 20/13.5 cm. Ejaculating while putting the condom on. Lasting short during sex.

Please guys, I need your help with this.

[Awareness Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Awareness]

Hello. I apologize in advance for opening an old topic, but I have the same issue.

I'm 24 years old, and I've been doing pe exercises for 4 months now. I went from 19cm length and 13 cm girth to 20/13.5 in three months. Currently for almost a month stopped to recover my erection quality. I believe I'm having 100 % erections that are at an angle of 45° at the moment, so I might start again with the exercises.



On to my problem. So far it hasn't happened during sex, but when I'm alone bý myself trying the Durex XL condoms, I just come when I roll them down. I do have foreskin, but even when I'm soft, it covers only like 40% of my glans. I noticed I cum because I feel too much pressure under my glans when I roll down, and that has happened so far now 5 times. First time in September, two times in October, and now two times in November. Since the first incident in September, I only had sex two times (I go to escorts). I can not risk hapenning that to me. First time after the incident I had it on mind, but after oral on me to get me hard, putting the condom was fine. The second time I came from oral in the 69 position, and then I put on the condom.

Now yesterday and today while trying them on, I came. It's frustrating. This hasn't happened back in June, July and August. I am on NoFap, as in I don't masturbate nor watch porn. I'm not sure, but before starting pe exercises, in early July I fucked the escort for 45 minutes straight, and she had to finish me off while she was on top of me. In August I lasted around 35 minutes. And then, in September, maybe 3 minutes. Two minutes in missionary, she complained it hurts her, switched to doggy, and I came in a minute. In October, lasted 5 minutes while she was on top. Late October, lasted 5 minutes from her oral.

I don't think I have a tense pelvic floor. If someone knows proper way how to check, please let me know.

TLDR: Before PE, was 19/13 cm. No ejaculation while putting condom on alone. Lasted pretty long during sex. After PE, 20/13.5 cm. Ejaculating while putting the condom on. Lasting short during sex.

Please guys, I need your help with this.

I think you could perhaps try balooning to reduce sensitivity on your glans/get used to the feeling of pressure. I think there is a stickied thread for balooning adapted to PE, look it up. If you can't find anything shoot me a PM and I'll try to help you find the threads.