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    So I've been getting it on with a girl I really like. I've been doing RKs for the past 2 weeks, and using death grip for a week I'm feeling I'm getting in more control. I havent been watching porn for a month at least. Thorugh blowjob I could go forever, I don't know maybe shed didn't do it too hard. But after that I lost my arousal and sexual energy, I don't know why, maybe I was too tired already and wasn't relaxed enough, but it was frustrating and confusing because it never happened before. Few years back when I was with another girl I could go through a blowjob but when entering I got to PONR really fast. When masturbating I feel my head is really too sensitive. Edging in general even with death grip doesn't really work that part. balloning says don't do it on your head. So how do you guys train to get a less sensitive head? I really like this girl so I wanna sort this things out, and give her amazing sex.

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    I'm pretty sure balooning says not to do it on your head when you're starting because you may instantly come. What I think of as ballooning now is edging till very close to PONR then rubbing with lube my most sensitive areas, my frenulum and the area around my urethra while holding a RK.
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    • #3
      I think trying to get less sensitive is short sighted. Enjoy your sensitivity but train yourself not to trigger your ejaculatory reflex because that's all it is.
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        I respectfully disagree with saying that less sensitive is short sighted. I dont understand why some people dont think is possible for some people to be more sensitive than others. The same way some people bruise easily or get sunburn easily or just have "sensitive skin". These are reasons they make different soaps and products for people with sensitive skin.
        I have been to drs where they use a device to see how sensitive your pecker is and some are more sensitive. What works for some people cant be expected to be a cure all for everyone.

        James Monroe whose journey is nothing but inspirational to me was an advocate on dry rubbing including the head

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        • #5
          Originally posted by ChaserHUN View Post
          So I've been getting it on with a girl I really like. I've been doing RKs for the past 2 weeks, and using death grip for a week I'm feeling I'm getting in more control. I havent been watching porn for a month at least. Thorugh blowjob I could go forever, I don't know maybe shed didn't do it too hard. But after that I lost my arousal and sexual energy, I don't know why, maybe I was too tired already and wasn't relaxed enough, but it was frustrating and confusing because it never happened before. Few years back when I was with another girl I could go through a blowjob but when entering I got to PONR really fast. When masturbating I feel my head is really too sensitive. Edging in general even with death grip doesn't really work that part. balloning says don't do it on your head. So how do you guys train to get a less sensitive head? I really like this girl so I wanna sort this things out, and give her amazing sex.
          Just wanted to know your technique on the deathgrip. I posted in a few other spots but haven't gotten a response. I have tried literally everything else and all have not worked. I am curious about dg. Do u graze the skin or do you grab firm and when u get to the head does the skin sort of roll over the head? I dont have a firm grasp on the concept ( no pun intended lol)

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          • #6
            when i started edging it seemed impossible coz i couldnt stroke for more than 10 seconds. so i started with dry ballooning. first week only the shaft, second week the glans the top side of the penis head, third week the frenulum the most sensitive part.
            so this way i got used to intense sensitivity. my hard work is now reflected in real sex.

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            • #7
              Originally posted by watson View Post
              when i started edging it seemed impossible coz i couldnt stroke for more than 10 seconds. so i started with dry ballooning. first week only the shaft, second week the glans the top side of the penis head, third week the frenulum the most sensitive part.
              so this way i got used to intense sensitivity. my hard work is now reflected in real sex.
              Did u continue to edge dry or only ballooning? How long before u noticed improvement in transferring to real sex?

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              • #8
                Originally posted by eazy8228 View Post
                Did u continue to edge dry or only ballooning? How long before u noticed improvement in transferring to real sex?
                i did dry ballooning until i was able to stroke for about 30 seconds. it was hard. my initial edging session used be little stroking and more stopping. with time it got better. it took me about 8 months to improve my real sex life.

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by eazy8228 View Post
                  I respectfully disagree with saying that less sensitive is short sighted. I dont understand why some people dont think is possible for some people to be more sensitive than others. The same way some people bruise easily or get sunburn easily or just have "sensitive skin". These are reasons they make different soaps and products for people with sensitive skin.
                  I have been to drs where they use a device to see how sensitive your pecker is and some are more sensitive. What works for some people cant be expected to be a cure all for everyone.

                  James Monroe whose journey is nothing but inspirational to me was an advocate on dry rubbing including the head
                  I'm aware that some people are more sensitive than others. I'm saying that being able to feel more pleasure faster than others is a gift once you are able to separate ejaculation from orgasm by retraining your brain . Pegasus comes into basically every death grip thread to remind people of the dangers of delayed ejaculation for a reason.

                  As much as it helps my ego most women don't really want to be fucked for that long. We should realize that the purpose of curing PE is so that WE can feel more pleasure not the women we are with. It is basically a selfish act. By learning how to give a massage and eat pussy you can be the best lover she has ever had even if your dick fell off.

                  Death grip to me is the same or lower amount of pleasure spread out over time. Plateau edging and becoming multi orgasmic means much more pleasure.
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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by SoftMmoStillPe View Post
                    I'm aware that some people are more sensitive than others. I'm saying that being able to feel more pleasure faster than others is a gift once you are able to separate ejaculation from orgasm by retraining your brain . Pegasus comes into basically every death grip thread to remind people of the dangers of delayed ejaculation for a reason.

                    As much as it helps my ego most women don't really want to be fucked for that long. We should realize that the purpose of curing PE is so that WE can feel more pleasure not the women we are with. It is basically a selfish act. By learning how to give a massage and eat pussy you can be the best lover she has ever had even if your dick fell off.

                    Death grip to me is the same or lower amount of pleasure spread out over time. Plateau edging and becoming multi orgasmic means much more pleasure.
                    I understand what you are saying and i do understand why Pegasus comes in to give warnings. But speaking for myself ive been at this for years. I was a member of another respected forum years ago that many of you have heard of. This is going back probably12 years when the answer for everything was kegals

                    I don't want de. Not in the least. But to be able to have sex for 2 minutes would be great. And as far as getting women off other ways ive had years and years to figure that out and believe me i know what u mean about being a great lover without your dick. Ive never had a problem getting or keeping women. To be honest quite the opposite lol

                    And as far as curing pe to be selfish i agree but not to become more sensitive but to last longer. I have tried any method you can think of. There is no enjoyment in sex for people with severe pre e. Im talking less than a minute. Its shame and embarrassment. I have never heard anyone say oh yea i love how my over sensitive dick makes me cum in 30 seconds.

                    I dont know how bad yours was so i cant comment on that. But i fan tell you that all methods on here have had zero impact on myself. Im not trying to argue or be an ass so please dont take it that way. But i see no harm in trying dg for a period of time. And my reasoning for wanting it is in a sense selfish its not about pounding away for hours to give me an ego boost. Its about being able to enjoy a healthy sex life with my wife. It takes me a few minutes to get her off where as it takes her seconds to get me off. There is no fun in that. And has made me avoid sex in the past. Im tired of turning sex down because of my flaws not hers

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                    • #11
                      What is the point of dry rubbing? The feeling isn't even close to real sex, dry edgning doesn't hurt but dry rubbing isn't pleasurable at all, and don't get it how that would help.

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by ChaserHUN View Post
                        What is the point of dry rubbing? The feeling isn't even close to real sex, dry edgning doesn't hurt but dry rubbing isn't pleasurable at all, and don't get it how that would help.
                        That's exactly why i was asking.

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                        • #13
                          DeathGrip is a different feeling than real sex. But it still helps, at least for me.

                          https://www.pegym.com/forums/prematu...-progress.html

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by JanTantra View Post
                            DeathGrip is a different feeling than real sex. But it still helps, at least for me.

                            https://www.pegym.com/forums/prematu...-progress.html
                            This is why i wanted people like you to respond. Yes it is completely different to what om learning now. But people like yourself have had sucess. I will look at your progress thread.

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                            • #15
                              That has been made clear that guys who have PE used mostly light grip and kegeled to ejaculate as fast as they can, I remember I could go for a long time, but developed badhabits and while watching porn and edging I kegeled like hell to get off as fast as I can :S Guys with DE used strong grip, but did they do anything else? I mean where they doing it as long as they could? Holding maybe reverse kegels? Also thoe with DE can you stay rock hard through sex and just not able to ejaculate or is it hard to maintain an erection?
                              Using death grip masturbation....does the skin go over the head, or do you pull back the sking and edge like that? Because if you wear a condom the skin is pulled back....

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