Desensatizing Creams and Sprays?

**Chris2061** · 02-15-2010

Has anyone had any luck with any of these products? I realize that this is mostly an anxiety issue for me. I was wondering if perhaps having this a sort of "back up" plan might help ease my fears. I found this one product on this web site:

http://www.stoppingprematureejaculation.us/stoppingprematureejaculation

Any experiences?

c.

**Pegasus** · 02-15-2010

Would try natural methods first.

**Kdub** · 02-16-2010

Agreed, don't become used to using chemicals. The manual techniques will take a little time to master but are free and way more effective.

**ldee** · 03-06-2010

I have tried sprays, creams and even those 'extended pleasure' condoms. I used them regularly for several years. Yes, they do (can) make you last longer. The best way to describe it is like having a whiskey dick. It makes the outside of your dick numb, but you still sort of get a sensation on the inside.

Personally, the benefits do NOT outweigh the drawbacks. Because you can't feel much of your dick you do not know how hard you are going and if you are being too rough on yourself. I am uncircumcised with a frenulum breve (which puts me in a special category I guess) so sometimes I get micro tears on the underside of my head that are made much worse by the desensitizing because I don't know I have injured myself tell after the effects wear off.

Also, they make sex less enjoyable. Both intercourse and your orgasm suffer because you can't feel your member. Also, it can make it difficult to get hard or stay hard.

Like I said I used them for several years... now I look back at it like a mistake. I was so worried about cumming too quickly that I didn't realize how much I was missing. Remember the average sex is only about 5 minutes (sure this is contested but it seems to be a consensus).

At first I would last 5 mins top. I would say I last about 20-25 mins now. I accredit this to edging and kegels (and getting older). Those two exercises allowed me to understand my penis which has gave me better control. I also get harder and shoot farther ( I now shoot at least 3 feet on a regular basis).

So, yes they work. But I don't recommend them anymore.

**Batwoman** · 03-07-2010

Chris, I gather your problem is cumming too quick with women. Is it also a problem you have when you are going solo? When you masturbate, do you cum quickly or make it last?

**IdealPenis** · 03-09-2010

Maybe just Spam

**Batwoman** · 03-09-2010

Good call, Ideal. I banned him.

**calixto** · 03-09-2010

Originally Posted by Chris2061

Has anyone had any luck with any of these products? I realize that this is mostly an anxiety issue for me. I was wondering if perhaps having this a sort of "back up" plan might help ease my fears. I found this one product on this web site:

http://www.stoppingprematureejaculation.us/stoppingprematureejaculation

Any experiences?

c.

Don't use them!

Originally Posted by Pegasus

Would try natural methods first.

Exactly!

Originally Posted by Kdub

Agreed, don't become used to using chemicals. The manual techniques will take a little time to master but are free and way more effective.

Ditto

Originally Posted by ldee

I am uncircumcised with a frenulum breve (which puts me in a special category I guess) so sometimes I get micro tears on the underside of my head

Lucky you for staying intact. I was lucky enough to keep a hell of a frenulum myself even though I am cut. While restoring my foreskin, however, I have experienced these same micro-tears, very painful, not only physically painful, but it is always painful to my heart to know that I have to stop restoring for a while, to let it heal.

Originally Posted by IdealPenis

Maybe just Spam

REALLY??

Originally Posted by Batwoman

Good call, Ideal. I banned him.

Dammit, these bastards with their wannabe free adverts, and to think I wrote all that and put in all that effort, ugh!

**Batwoman** · 03-09-2010

No no, I banned a spammer and deleted the post right above Ideal's post -- NOT anyone else on this thread, including the guy who started it. I still think this is a very useful thread!

**calixto** · 03-09-2010

Thanks Batwoman, I hate shite like that.

I am all about telling the products I like, I mean, vaccutech.com, tlctugger.com, foreskinrestore.com, and x4labs.com are about it for products though.

I try to say good things about fastsize.com too because a personal friend who has used extenders for 5 years just got one and loves it, so I know its gotta be good.

But guys and effing creams for purchase, UGH, JUST GO GET SOME STINKIN' OLIVE OIL LIKE AARON'S BOOK SAYS!!!