Hi. I first want to thank all of you. This community is just amazing and I learnt a lot from all of you. Please keep up the good work.
I am 24 years old. I have just recently discovered that I have phimosis. My foreskin is too tight. When I try to retract it in a flaccid state, I can pull it down to maybe uncover half the glans before it starts to hurt. When in an erect state, I can just see the urethral opening and a small portion around it.
I have premature ejaculation and I suspect it is because of my tight foreskin. It is too sensitive. When I get erect, the foreskin becomes very thin, possibly due to the increase in the size of the penis. And becomes very sensitive to touch. Just a couple of rubs of my foreskin on my glans is enough to bring me to orgasm.
I have already tried eliminating other possibilities which may be causing my pe. I used to do a kegel only routine which caused a tight pelvic floor. For the past couple of months, I have been doing a RK focused routine along with pelvic floor exercises and squats. I can say my pelvic floor is well balanced. I barely get IK's anymore. Even If I do get them, it is very easy to suppress them. I just concentrate on my BC muscle and relax it.
When I edge, if I focus on just my shaft with minimal stimulation to the glans foreskin, I can go for a long time without the ponr hitting. However when I make an OK sign with my thumb and index finger and thrust just with the head(this kind of stimulation mainly happens with the doggy style position), I can feel the pressure build instantly and I hit ponr in no time.
After discovering about my phimosis, I took a hot shower one day and using a lot of lubricant, I tried to roll down the foreskin, instead of just pulling it down, in a flaccid state. It retracted with a little pressure and there was not much pain. But the glans was unbelievably sensitive. I couldn't bear even water hitting it. I finished the shower and left the foreskin retracted and went about my day. As my foreskin is too tight, it doesn't roll back on its own. I have to pry it up forcibly to restore it. So, this exposed the glans and within a few days the glans sensitivity was gone.
But the foreskin, when I rolled it back, made the inner foreskin come out. The side of the foreskin that was touching the glans. This part is also very sensitive. It is white and wrinkly. When I retract the foreskin completely, this skin gets stuck behing the frenulum stopping the foreskin from going back over the glans. Even though the glans sensitivity has considerably decreased, this particular fold of skin is still as sensitive as the day I first rolled it back. I believe this is what give me the most intense pleasure when I rub on the glans. I tried rolling the foreskin back whn I am erect but it is too tight to retract. I tried to get erect when the foreskin was already retracted but it feels like the foreskin is too tight and stopping the blood flow to the head. A little painful even. And I was a little worried over paraphimosis so I stopped attempting to do this.
I went through all the phimosis posts in here and many say manual stretching can be done to increase the foreskin but it is a procedure that will take a lot of time and honestly, it seems I need to grow a lot of skin to be able to completely to retract when erect. And even then I am not sure if this is gonna help with my premature ejaculation problem.
So I am thinking of getting circumcised. It might solve both my phimosis and prem ejaculation problems for good. I know most people here are against it because of losing sensitivity, but my penis is just too sensitive. It might be a good to lose some of it.
I am not sure how to proceed next. I honestly can't take it anymore. I have avoided any contact with women and turned down tons of offers because of this problem. I have been struggling with this for almost a year with no progress. Please advise me on what to do next.
I am 24 years old. I have just recently discovered that I have phimosis. My foreskin is too tight. When I try to retract it in a flaccid state, I can pull it down to maybe uncover half the glans before it starts to hurt. When in an erect state, I can just see the urethral opening and a small portion around it.
I have premature ejaculation and I suspect it is because of my tight foreskin. It is too sensitive. When I get erect, the foreskin becomes very thin, possibly due to the increase in the size of the penis. And becomes very sensitive to touch. Just a couple of rubs of my foreskin on my glans is enough to bring me to orgasm.
I have already tried eliminating other possibilities which may be causing my pe. I used to do a kegel only routine which caused a tight pelvic floor. For the past couple of months, I have been doing a RK focused routine along with pelvic floor exercises and squats. I can say my pelvic floor is well balanced. I barely get IK's anymore. Even If I do get them, it is very easy to suppress them. I just concentrate on my BC muscle and relax it.
When I edge, if I focus on just my shaft with minimal stimulation to the glans foreskin, I can go for a long time without the ponr hitting. However when I make an OK sign with my thumb and index finger and thrust just with the head(this kind of stimulation mainly happens with the doggy style position), I can feel the pressure build instantly and I hit ponr in no time.
After discovering about my phimosis, I took a hot shower one day and using a lot of lubricant, I tried to roll down the foreskin, instead of just pulling it down, in a flaccid state. It retracted with a little pressure and there was not much pain. But the glans was unbelievably sensitive. I couldn't bear even water hitting it. I finished the shower and left the foreskin retracted and went about my day. As my foreskin is too tight, it doesn't roll back on its own. I have to pry it up forcibly to restore it. So, this exposed the glans and within a few days the glans sensitivity was gone.
But the foreskin, when I rolled it back, made the inner foreskin come out. The side of the foreskin that was touching the glans. This part is also very sensitive. It is white and wrinkly. When I retract the foreskin completely, this skin gets stuck behing the frenulum stopping the foreskin from going back over the glans. Even though the glans sensitivity has considerably decreased, this particular fold of skin is still as sensitive as the day I first rolled it back. I believe this is what give me the most intense pleasure when I rub on the glans. I tried rolling the foreskin back whn I am erect but it is too tight to retract. I tried to get erect when the foreskin was already retracted but it feels like the foreskin is too tight and stopping the blood flow to the head. A little painful even. And I was a little worried over paraphimosis so I stopped attempting to do this.
I went through all the phimosis posts in here and many say manual stretching can be done to increase the foreskin but it is a procedure that will take a lot of time and honestly, it seems I need to grow a lot of skin to be able to completely to retract when erect. And even then I am not sure if this is gonna help with my premature ejaculation problem.
So I am thinking of getting circumcised. It might solve both my phimosis and prem ejaculation problems for good. I know most people here are against it because of losing sensitivity, but my penis is just too sensitive. It might be a good to lose some of it.
I am not sure how to proceed next. I honestly can't take it anymore. I have avoided any contact with women and turned down tons of offers because of this problem. I have been struggling with this for almost a year with no progress. Please advise me on what to do next.
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