Alright, I learned a lot from just lurking and it really helped me. (thanks everyone) I went from lasting 10 seconds to at least 20 mins to an hour plus. This was just in the span of a couple of months, I'm super happy that I'm getting better. I practice breathing, edgeing, RK, and starting to do some stretches. But I'm still not happy with everything. Two things that kill me.
I lack consistency. That 20 mins sometimes still isn't enough. Sometimes it just sneaks up on me still. I want to stay in the 40- hour range, unless I want it to end sooner. My girlfriend is super understanding and helped me this far. I went from lasting 10 seconds with her to being the only one to ever make her cum.
Next thing that bothers me is I get myself off everyday before I see her. I feel like this is a band aid of sort. Really dont want to loose my minimum of 20 mins with her. I go for no less then 15 mins until I let myself go. And going 15 mins for me became super easy. Don't even have to edge till 15 mins, no matter how fast or good I make myself feel. Its like a routine, and I'm getting tired of it. I feel like if I don't do this I wont last long. But at the same time I feel like it doesn't matter because the gap between me getting off and sex is 6ish hours and even longer some days. Also the other day I had a dry orgasm with her. Maybe I'm doing it too much?
SO, my questions are how to become more consistent? I know I can last an hour since I did it multiple times, just want it to happen every time.
And Should I stop getting myself off before I see her? I think I might try it tomorrow. I just don't want to completely embarrass myself
Thanks!
I lack consistency. That 20 mins sometimes still isn't enough. Sometimes it just sneaks up on me still. I want to stay in the 40- hour range, unless I want it to end sooner. My girlfriend is super understanding and helped me this far. I went from lasting 10 seconds with her to being the only one to ever make her cum.
Next thing that bothers me is I get myself off everyday before I see her. I feel like this is a band aid of sort. Really dont want to loose my minimum of 20 mins with her. I go for no less then 15 mins until I let myself go. And going 15 mins for me became super easy. Don't even have to edge till 15 mins, no matter how fast or good I make myself feel. Its like a routine, and I'm getting tired of it. I feel like if I don't do this I wont last long. But at the same time I feel like it doesn't matter because the gap between me getting off and sex is 6ish hours and even longer some days. Also the other day I had a dry orgasm with her. Maybe I'm doing it too much?
SO, my questions are how to become more consistent? I know I can last an hour since I did it multiple times, just want it to happen every time.
And Should I stop getting myself off before I see her? I think I might try it tomorrow. I just don't want to completely embarrass myself
Thanks!
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