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    Greetings fellow PEGYM members and Staff!

    So today I finally got my first fleshlight with the Lotus textures (not too intense) and followed every instructions to the letter before using it (e.g cleaning the sleeves first with water, then warming it up with hot water, same goes with lube) and when I tried to slide it in my schlong and 30 seconds of sliding it up and down and I'm already at the edge which I immediately stopped and start again but if I keep sliding it up and down its going to make me explode within 10 seconds (while watching porn).

    Unlike using my hands in the past I can last to any time I want until I want to come or until the porn video ends, but with fleshlight I can't last long and with a real women It's 2-3 minutes tops or sometimes not eve close to that (if I'm really horny).

    So yeah I guess I have a Premature Ejaculation Syndrome.

    My take is that Fleshlights were supposed to make you come faster then? More of like a stamina trainer?

    There are FL out there specifically the STU or Stamina Training Unit that claims if prolong usage will increase your stamina hence curing your PE syndrome.

    What's your take on this guys? Should I stopped using FL and my hands altogether to cure my PE syndrome?
    goBIGorgoHOME!
    Member
    Last edited by goBIGorgoHOME!; 03-24-2017, 07:59 PM.
    03/28/17

    Current: 4 1/4 BPEL x 4 3/8 EG

  • #2
    Stop watching the porn!

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    • #3
      Originally posted by Bmuum3 View Post
      Stop watching the porn!
      Can you explain why?
      03/28/17

      Current: 4 1/4 BPEL x 4 3/8 EG

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      • #4
        Hi goBIGorgoHome!
        I owned 4 fleshlights so far so you could say I'm a big fan of those toys
        I do remember the first times I used them. I ejaculated in way less time than when using my hands.
        So I guess I might have suffered of pre e too. Now I can last almost as long as I want with the fleshlight too.
        All you have to do is get used to the new feelings of the toy and edge with it.
        Start with aiming to last 5 minutes, then when you are able to do it, try to aim for 7 ands so on.
        You can also check on here for some stamina training routines, I'm sure you'll find plenty
        So to summarize: never masturbate too fast or with a super tight grip, try to edge instead; you also might try to stop watching porn, as I did too.
        Hope this will help you
        Peace

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        • #5
          Originally posted by NotSoAwesome View Post
          Hi goBIGorgoHome!
          I owned 4 fleshlights so far so you could say I'm a big fan of those toys
          I do remember the first times I used them. I ejaculated in way less time than when using my hands.
          So I guess I might have suffered of pre e too. Now I can last almost as long as I want with the fleshlight too.
          All you have to do is get used to the new feelings of the toy and edge with it.
          Start with aiming to last 5 minutes, then when you are able to do it, try to aim for 7 ands so on.
          You can also check on here for some stamina training routines, I'm sure you'll find plenty
          So to summarize: never masturbate too fast or with a super tight grip, try to edge instead; you also might try to stop watching porn, as I did too.
          Hope this will help you
          Peace
          4 Fleshies? You're a big fan indeed. During your first time using a FL how long did you last? So it's true that using a FL will increase stamina and curing Premature E. During my first time I slide it in very slow and within just 10 strokes I already edged so I stopped for a minute then tried again, 3-5 strokes I edged again, another try and I exploded. Can you explain though why I should stop watching porn? I mostly watched virtual sex porn videos where the angle is in POV so it's like your with the girl in the video, and all of doesn't have a real stunt cock, so it's either just a dildo or the girl pretends to be fcking a cock.
          03/28/17

          Current: 4 1/4 BPEL x 4 3/8 EG

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          • #6
            Originally posted by goBIGorgoHOME! View Post
            4 Fleshies? You're a big fan indeed. During your first time using a FL how long did you last? So it's true that using a FL will increase stamina and curing Premature E. During my first time I slide it in very slow and within just 10 strokes I already edged so I stopped for a minute then tried again, 3-5 strokes I edged again, another try and I exploded. Can you explain though why I should stop watching porn? I mostly watched virtual sex porn videos where the angle is in POV so it's like your with the girl in the video, and all of doesn't have a real stunt cock, so it's either just a dildo or the girl pretends to be fcking a cock.
            Since the first time I used a fl was ages ago I can't really remember how much I lasted, but I guess it was 3-4 minutes. I took quite some time to be able to last longer, expecially during the first weeks.
            My opinion is that by watching porn you don't concentrate enough on the feelings you get while edging with a fl. Also by watching porn you link arousal to visual stimulation, making it harder to get casual erections without visual stimulation.
            I'm no expert though
            If you are interested in the no porn theory you should check the AP (anti porn) thread and maybe give it a try.
            My advice is to try edging with the fl without watching porn and try to keep all your pelvic muscles completely relaxed. I noticed that by trying to keep them relaxed as much as I can (for example trying to avoid kegeling while edging) I can keep control over the ponr more easily.
            Hope this helps you
            Peace

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            • #7
              Also, I forgot to mention it. The fl is so awesome not only because it feels great, but because it can be used in so many ways! To get a more real experience, so that you can really train your stamina, I suggest you to stick your fl in between two pillows, or anywhere that can keep it from moving, and try to use it in different positions.
              Not only some positions feel better than others, but you can train yourself to last longer also in other positions!
              You can start by fcking it doggie for example (feels great dude, you should seriously try eheh)
              Peace

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              • #8
                Originally posted by NotSoAwesome View Post
                Also, I forgot to mention it. The fl is so awesome not only because it feels great, but because it can be used in so many ways! To get a more real experience, so that you can really train your stamina, I suggest you to stick your fl in between two pillows, or anywhere that can keep it from moving, and try to use it in different positions.
                Not only some positions feel better than others, but you can train yourself to last longer also in other positions!
                You can start by fcking it doggie for example (feels great dude, you should seriously try eheh)
                Peace
                Hmmm, strange because I can get an erection with or without porn and last night while I was using my FL while watching porn (Virtual Cowgirl) I really can't focused in what's going on in the video but rather the pleasure that I'm getting from the FL. My postion was lying in bed, the latop is in my stomach, and my two hands was holding the FL sliding it up and down.
                03/28/17

                Current: 4 1/4 BPEL x 4 3/8 EG

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by goBIGorgoHOME! View Post
                  Hmmm, strange because I can get an erection with or without porn and last night while I was using my FL while watching porn (Virtual Cowgirl) I really can't focused in what's going on in the video but rather the pleasure that I'm getting from the FL. My postion was lying in bed, the latop is in my stomach, and my two hands was holding the FL sliding it up and down.
                  If you can easily get erections without porn then you are fine (no porn induced ED).
                  You just have to follow a good stamina routine that will help you improve your control over ponr

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by NotSoAwesome View Post
                    If you can easily get erections without porn then you are fine (no porn induced ED).
                    You just have to follow a good stamina routine that will help you improve your control over ponr
                    Thanks man, I will look into the Stamina Routine now.
                    03/28/17

                    Current: 4 1/4 BPEL x 4 3/8 EG

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by NotSoAwesome View Post
                      Hi goBIGorgoHome!
                      I owned 4 fleshlights so far so you could say I'm a big fan of those toys
                      I do remember the first times I used them. I ejaculated in way less time than when using my hands.
                      So I guess I might have suffered of pre e too. Now I can last almost as long as I want with the fleshlight too.
                      All you have to do is get used to the new feelings of the toy and edge with it.
                      Start with aiming to last 5 minutes, then when you are able to do it, try to aim for 7 ands so on.
                      You can also check on here for some stamina training routines, I'm sure you'll find plenty
                      So to summarize: never masturbate too fast or with a super tight grip, try to edge instead; you also might try to stop watching porn, as I did too.
                      Hope this will help you
                      Peace
                      have you improved your sex timing?

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                      • #12
                        Fleshlights are awesome in the Pre-E battle. Eventually you get so good at Plateau edging on whatever FL Sleeve and visual stimulation will not make you reach a PONR quickly. Practicing your Kegels & RK'S on a FL brings extraordinary results transitioning into actual sex well. Everyone has opinions on Edging styles but I say do what you want. Especially if you're Sexually active. If you are single & don't get laid I'd cut out Pornography before you get addicted to the FL & not wanting connection with a Woman.

                        I personally have 4 FL sleeves but Practice Stamina Training without ejaculation saving the actual release for the Wife.

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                        • #13
                          RK's ( reverse kegels ) . PRACTICING these while Edging keeps a PONR from sneaking up on you. They are more important in my estimation than Kegels unless you pass the PONR & stop your release. This taps into MMO when you get good at it.

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                          • #14
                            I used my FL again yesterday and it would seems I'm bored of it's texture now...I came after minutes without stopping sliding it up and down. I'm only 4.1 EL so I can't reach the inner canal of the lotus texture, I might order the Stu soon since its texture expand from the insert all the way to the end.

                            Edit:

                            I'm going to try it again after a week without masturbating, going to get myself really horny and see if I can really last 5 minutes because it's probably I'm not in the mood enough to come quickly like before...hopefully I really got bored with the texture.
                            goBIGorgoHOME!
                            Member
                            Last edited by goBIGorgoHOME!; 03-31-2017, 06:35 AM.
                            03/28/17

                            Current: 4 1/4 BPEL x 4 3/8 EG

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