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    Hello, everybody ! Long time lurker, first time poster in this forum, decided to post my current results with handling my severe premature ejaculation.

    First of all, I want to give a big thank you to all the good people here at PEGYM, especially for the veterans who really pushed the boundaries into pre-e research. Thank you Pegasus for your pelvic floor balance theory (which is clear now that it's not a theory anymore) and for your overall support and patience with people struggling with treating pre-e, thank you Imac , Hans Twillight , Spanky, Minuteman, Jockinthebox, Wishful 10x8, Dangler, Jay 1983 DrJohn, BigAl, your presence on the pre-e forum and insight real ly motivated me to beat this damn pre-e

    My pre-e condition is simple: I did my research on PEGYM and many medical journals to find out why I have pre-e and it’s obviously due to hipertonic pelvic floor because of many years of porn and masturbation while kegeling since I was 13.
    All the simptomps of hipertonic pf I have ( urinary hesitancy, involuntary kegels during peeing, very short coitus, pf tension during day, hard clenching etc.)

    I can last like 15-20 sec during sex. Fortunately, I have a supportive and caring gf who knows about my research and effort into curing it.

    I ruled out medical problems: seen 2 urologists and everything regarding prostate and all that is perfectly fine. They didn't know squat (pre-e pun intended) about the causes of my condition. They prescribed Priligly. I didn't even bothered to look those pills up to see if I spelled their name correctly: won't to rely on pills, won’t use them.

    I quit porn 3 months ago. Damn filth, it gave me my problem in the first place...

    I read a ton of threads regarding pre-e solutions and formed a routine of my own 2 months ago: reverse kegel only and hindi squats. However, I read (thanks Dr John & HansTwilight) that if your pelvic floor is insanely tense like mine, reverse kegels (front or back) won’t work until you alleviate tension. I did reverse kegels for 2 weeks everyday (tried compound and also front and back alone) and it felt like I was trying to push a wall: neither the bc or the pc didn’t even flinch.
    That being found, I concentrated on hindi squats, hans protocol (the 3 exercises+ belly breath) for 7 weeks and something did indeed change: due to hindi squats I feel that the rear of the pf (PC muscle) is now unlocked ! It’s like, all of a sudden, someone put that muscle there. I can now actually feel it so much, rk with it, feel it expand with belly breathing. This development got me so hyped !!.
    Please correct me if I’m wrong, but I think that my pc muscle was so tense over the past years that it simply unfunctional and now, by stretching it, I loosened it. What do more experienced members make of this ? I appreciate any input.

    My question now is this: shouldn’t the entire pelvic floor get as loose as my back muscles due to 7 continuous weeks of hindi + hans protocol (tried, can't do happy baby) ? Why is my BC muscle still shut tight ? Do I now have a front/back imbalance of which Pegasus spoke in the Pelvic Floor balance thread ? Did I do the hindi squat wrong ? (I do it feet shoulder width apart, back straight, heels on the ground, elbows pushing my knees as far out as possible) Should I now add more minutes to belly breathing (meditative reverse kegels) or pigeon pose ? Should I try only front rk ?
    I can definitely reverse kegel with my PC muscle now, i can back rk, fellows !! So happy
    I also don’t get IK from pc now, only from BC. Results from edging are 2-3 minutes tops without visual stimulation.

    P.S Took Pegasus' advice and found a PT who doesn’t really specialise in pelvic floor dysfunction but at least she knows about pelvic floor problems and helps me stretch/relax the hipertonic pf. (I called about 14 pt’s in my city and asked about pelvic floor assesment and treatment yet they were clueless or didn’t know what to do)

    I did my homework and, as someone here said, I firstly helped myself before seeking help from other but now I encountered questions. Sorry for the long post, friends. Any opinions are greatly appreciated
    Cephalus
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    Last edited by Cephalus; 01-16-2018, 04:02 PM. Reason: bad spelling
    Balancing the pelvic floor.

  • #2
    Sounds like you are on the right track.

    A couple of things helped me quite a bit:

    there is corollary pose to the hindi called the child pose, it helps stretch out the PC length wise.
    pelvic thrusts helped me get used to the motion during PIV sex. Plus the help get the pelvic are warmed up
    03/2015 Start <Able to last ~ 2 mins PIV>
    Thread
    12/2019 EL: +2.2 MEG: +1 <Able to last 60+ mins PIV>

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    • #3
      Have you fully searched this thread?
      https://www.pegym.com/forums/prematu...ber-input.html

      Has the pt any input for the area.
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      Last edited by Pegasus; 01-17-2018, 01:09 AM.

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      • #4
        @incogneeetoe Thanks for the feedback. I actually tried Child's Pose a couple of times and it is great for doing meditative reverse kegels. It really opens up the pf and eases up rk breathing. I will also incorporate thrusting in my edging time.

        @
        Pegasus I read that thread 2 times, yes. I did notice that SoftMmoNoPre said, in that thread, that pushing his hips outward better stretched the BC muscle:



        Originally posted by SoftMmoNoPreE View Post
        I feel that pushing my hips through my legs in my squat improves the BC stretch and leaning the torso forward more parallel increases the PC stretch so if there is conformation of that maybe that should be included.
        I tried his way, but I don't really feel the BC stretch. I also tried leaning forward while holding the squat like one user said, but the BC is only felt very slightly this way.

        As for the PT, she said that I could target my BC when get into my hindi and lean forward very much keeping my back straight and planting my hands on the floor. Did it, but didn't really feel a bc stretch. I'll ask her again today, when I have my next appointment.

        Did I overlook something valuable in that thread you gave me, Pegasus ? Did I miss something ?
        Cephalus
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        Last edited by Cephalus; 01-17-2018, 09:43 AM.
        Balancing the pelvic floor.

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        • #5
          Just came back from my PT.
          Things are going ok: she gives me stretches for the entire pelvic region, meaning stretches for the groin, adductors, glutes etc.
          She says that the muscles in that lower abdominal region are closely linked together: if one muscle group becomes tight, the other will follow and likely tighten themselves.
          However, the reverse is also posible, she said: if you loosen up the groin, for example, the other will begin to loosen up too, given time.

          She also has me breathing from my belly (diaphragmatic breathing, she calls it), exactly like the meditative reverse kegels from Imac and belly breathing combo from Hans Protocol

          Tough she wasn't aware of the importance of the Hindi Squat: asked her if I was doing it correctly, with a demonstration, and she didn't give the squat much importance...
          I'll continue HS while bending a little forward to target BC muscle.

          By the way, I forgot to mention that since I started doing Hindi Squats everyday ( exactly 7 weeks ago) I can now hold a single 10 minute squat without pain or anything. Of course, I built this in time. At the begining I could only hold it for like 30 seconds
          Balancing the pelvic floor.

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          • #6
            Awesome gains, good job. Continue with these and add yoga targeting the whole area. Abs, back, glutes, pelvis, thighs. Look into releasing the Psoas muscles. You are on the right path and just need to continue. Your focused attention and desire to repair will pay off. Good job thanks for sharing.
            ALL THE WAY WITH GOOD OLE JAY!

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            • #7
              Consider a stool to raise your feet on when going poop.
              ALL THE WAY WITH GOOD OLE JAY!

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              • #8
                Thank you for the encouraging words, Wishful 10x8
                I apreciate it.

                About the yoga targeting that tension area: yes, I devised a new routine from which I'll do my best not to deviate. That routine now includes yoga

                A stool for pooping ? You mean a squatty-potty ?
                I shall look for one in my nearest Market and, if not succesful, I'll try and buy one from the internet.
                Balancing the pelvic floor.

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                • #9
                  After about 2 weeks of the Squatty Potty, my 'inners' have trained nicely.Not bad for an old codger.
                  Valued Member of 11 years at the TheBiohacker
                  Looks are deceiving, mirrors don't lie.

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                  • #10
                    Good to hear Dangler. My experience also. If you can't find an actual squatty potty even a small stool can be used.
                    ALL THE WAY WITH GOOD OLE JAY!

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by Dangler View Post
                      After about 2 weeks of the Squatty Potty, my 'inners' have trained nicely.Not bad for an old codger.
                      Just bought one, great tip

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                      • #12
                        OP, have you always had pre-E or was there a point in your life when it suddenly arrived?
                        BPEL: 7
                        NBPEL: 6.3
                        EG: 5.5
                        Glans Girth: 4.5


                        Goals: To overcome premature ejaculation before engaging in any penis enlargement.

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                        • #13
                          Well, I have the same problem , guess IŽll have to try hindi squat.
                          "Girth over length :D "

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                          • #14
                            https://www.pegym.com/forums/exercis...-rk-style.html

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                            • #15
                              To the OP, thanks for sharing. It is great to see that you acknowledged your problem, researched possible solutions, chose the appropriate one and stuck through with it to achieve desired results. This is commendable! Most people when faced with the same challenges always run for the easy way out only to their detriment.

                              It is great also that you quit porn. I did so eons ago and I can't say how happier I am - it is unbelievable how much harm we voluntarily subject our bodies to! If you ever need a support group to stay on course, check: https://www.pegym.com/forums/progres...anti-porn.html

                              On your recovery, stick the course. Things take time, be patient.

                              Thanks again for sharing.
                              A candle loses nothing by lighting another candle

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