Hi everyone, I'm new to the forums and this is where I'm at...
I have struggled with PE for pretty much the entire time I've been dating. Lately it's been worse than ever. I'm at a point where my anxiety gets SO bad before we've even started that I finish pretty much as soon as I put it in. I seem to get so tense and up tight, so much that I can't even seen to get a deep breath in.
I could probably think of more. Point being, none of this seems to matter once the anxiety kicks in. Once that takes over I can't breath, can't relax and it's game over.
I guess my question for the forums... Is there something I'm missing? It's like as soon as I start touching her now the anxiety kicks in and I can't get it back. Close to just giving up
I have struggled with PE for pretty much the entire time I've been dating. Lately it's been worse than ever. I'm at a point where my anxiety gets SO bad before we've even started that I finish pretty much as soon as I put it in. I seem to get so tense and up tight, so much that I can't even seen to get a deep breath in.
- I've been doing kegal exercises for about a year
- I try to practise edging, but can never successfully return from PONR
- Been meditating and learning breathing exercises for 4 years
- Even bought a "fleshlight" to try and train myself on
- I've spoken to my girlfriend about it
- I've seen a sex therapist (too be honest she just recommended priligy and anti depressants)
I could probably think of more. Point being, none of this seems to matter once the anxiety kicks in. Once that takes over I can't breath, can't relax and it's game over.
I guess my question for the forums... Is there something I'm missing? It's like as soon as I start touching her now the anxiety kicks in and I can't get it back. Close to just giving up
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