32y/o M now, have suffered with this my entire life. Had the habit of masterbating daily, multiple times, as quickly as I could when I was younger. I've had anxiety my entire life, but was only diagnosed with it maybe 5 years ago. There's never been a time where I could last for a long time consistently. I've tried remedies such as drinking, smoking weed, Percocets. Even the SSRI (Lexapro) I was on for a year didn't help much. Typically I can get in like 10 strokes before I feel the PONR coming. I can get more here and there, but generally my condition is pretty bad. I never would want to date girls, because I was so embarrassed of how quickly I came. There were two girls I actually was with who made me blow my load during foreplay. Talk about a quick trigger.
These days I have a very understanding girlfriend, who I sleep with regularly, but man do I suck. This girl is a beauty who deserves to have good loving. It kills me that I can't give her that. For myself and my pride, and because she deserves it. I wanna be able to talk dirty with her. She loves me, but I want her to want me in a more sexual way. I know she wants to, but I just don't have that mmmph. I've been dating this girl for years, but really never buckled down and figure this out. But if I want her to truly be happy; or any girl for that matter, I've got to be able to be at least a decent lover. By making this thread, hopefully it'll give me some more motivation and I'll be able to track my progress and push forward consistently. I can't give up and let this thing conquer me.
My plan is to do reverse kegels on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays. Don't have a set routine yet, and am up for suggestions.
My PE really is so bad that it's made me just feel like I'm a hopeless case. Like no RK is going to stop that damn PONR from coming. No matter how much I try to keep myself calm, and not aroused. But even though I still feel that's the case, I've gotta atleast give myself due diligence and make a concentrated effort in maybe not exactly beating this thing, but at least minimizing it to an extent. This would truly be an amazing achievement for me if I could solve it in any way.
Open to hearing all comments, suggestions, etc.
Thanks for reading!
These days I have a very understanding girlfriend, who I sleep with regularly, but man do I suck. This girl is a beauty who deserves to have good loving. It kills me that I can't give her that. For myself and my pride, and because she deserves it. I wanna be able to talk dirty with her. She loves me, but I want her to want me in a more sexual way. I know she wants to, but I just don't have that mmmph. I've been dating this girl for years, but really never buckled down and figure this out. But if I want her to truly be happy; or any girl for that matter, I've got to be able to be at least a decent lover. By making this thread, hopefully it'll give me some more motivation and I'll be able to track my progress and push forward consistently. I can't give up and let this thing conquer me.
My plan is to do reverse kegels on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays. Don't have a set routine yet, and am up for suggestions.
My PE really is so bad that it's made me just feel like I'm a hopeless case. Like no RK is going to stop that damn PONR from coming. No matter how much I try to keep myself calm, and not aroused. But even though I still feel that's the case, I've gotta atleast give myself due diligence and make a concentrated effort in maybe not exactly beating this thing, but at least minimizing it to an extent. This would truly be an amazing achievement for me if I could solve it in any way.
Open to hearing all comments, suggestions, etc.
Thanks for reading!
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