Pau yuen tong question

[WillSolveThis]

Tried it again last night by applying about a pinky nails worth to the frenulum area only. Waited 3hrs and 20 minutes before sex. The results were bad, it's as if I didn't even apply the cream, I lasted about a minute.

The thing that could have gone wrong is when I applied the cream, I was headed out the door, and just put a coat on the frenulum area without rubbing it into the skin, I spread it lightly but the brown coat of PYT cream was visible even after 3hrs. I had never done it this way before, usually I rub it and massage it into the skin. I did feel the tingle from the cream after about 1hr, but it was weaker than usual.

The other thing that might have gone wrong is the wait time combined with not rubbing the cream on correctly, 3hrs 20 minutes might have been too long.

Only way i'll know is if I try again tonight, apply the same amount, rub it in fully and correctly, and see the results.

[WillSolveThis]

Also, from what I know just read on the instructions found on the amazon page, it seems I have been doing it wrong.

Enhances your sensations instead of numbing or desensitizing. Boosts muscle control so you can orgasm when you want to. Follow the directions closely for best results. Becomes more effective the longer you use it Results may vary depending on a number of factors Tong Balm comes in a small plastic case with pop-on lid. Don't be discouraged by the size - the case contains enough cream for dozens of applications. Please note that results of Tong Balm may vary depending on the user's physical condition, body chemistry and other factors.

The key to using Tong Balm is to apply a very small amount at a time. If you apply too much, the product won't work. Proper use of Tong Balm requires some experimentation, so don't be discouraged if your first results aren't what you expected. On the positive side, Tong Balm becomes more and more effective the longer you use it so your experiments will prove beneficial in the long run. For best results, you need to closely follow the directions included with your order. As a general outline, you start by placing a small dab of Tong balm underneath the tip of the penis three hours before sex. Apply another small dab two hours before sex and a third dab one hour before sex.

I'm going to try and do it this way tonight.

[Kakal]

Used the balm again last night for the second time, results were pretty disappointing this time.

>Applied a small amount to the frenulum with a very, very small amount to the underside of the glans at 7;00PM
>showered at 10:00PM (ish)
>sex at about midnight
>ejaculated within 1 minute I'd imagine.

Additional notes :
-Had not ejaculated since Sunday morning or masturbated all week (now Wednesday night)
-the sex was more heated than the first time
-didn't do pelvic floor exercises before m, but did do full body stretches and yoga.

Overall was disappointed as my girlfriend was really in to the sex I've not really seen her like that before she was fucking the shit out of me even though I was on top but I'd already ejaculated at that point...

[Tooners88]

I also tested by mostly applying to the frenulum and only a very very small amount to the underside of the glans, and the effect was much less significant. Was still able to go maybe 5 minutes but I was struggling to hold back the whole time and really had to concentrate.

I think the glans has to be coated as well for maximum effect, and ideally more than one application leading up.

[Kakal]

I feel my frenulum isn't that much of a trigger spot, I'm still not entirely sure though as it's hard to really stimulate it outside of sex for me, I feel my corona is more of a trigger spot, but I definitely need to experiment more and find out what's what.

Just I don't really know when I will and won't have sex, I don't want to keep putting it on and then not having sex as it's just a waste.

The first time I used it I applied a decent amount to the undersides and the frenulum and it helped with my control a lot, maybe I'll try again with a similar amount but this time when I'm not tired as hell and out of focus!

Defiantly requires experimentation to get the right amount of balm for you.

It's strange though, like it's good but I hope it doesn't make me lazy and want to rely on it, it's not a cure afterall, but I guess it can be good even if just for the confidence boost when not using the balm, knowing that you can go for a decent amount of time..

[DJchitown]

Well around 3 or 4 nights ago I applied the balm with a light coating on my glands and frenulum. I felt the "burning" sensation but isn't wasn't painful. I left it on for an hour and then it kept irritating me so I washed it off with a cloth. I then masturbated and basically the shit didn't work. I probably lasted 10 minutes while watching porn. I kept feeling the burning so I washed off with soap and it still was irritating me. I now have scabs and bumps on my dick for the 2nd time. I give up so I threw what was left in one container in the damn garbage. I still have the 2nd container here but scared to use the shit. I had a fling from my past contact me and wants to meet up but now I can't meet her because my dick has all these bumps and shit.

I have HSV II and where i have the bumps is also where I have my herpes breakout. But I haven't had a breakout in over a year but my dick feels like it does with I have a breakout. So I am not sure if I am having a reaction because of the sensitivity of my skin or does this shit some how call out the herpes virus from being dormant. My dick needs a break. I am 51 years old so I guess I will just keep using penis injection meds and at least I can bust my quick nut and stay erect for 2 or 3 hours. Of course sex doesn't feel as good after busting a nut ... oh well

[WillSolveThis]

I tried it again last night.

Did a match head size application to the frenulum 3hrs before sex.
Did a match head size application to the frenulum 2hrs before sex.
Did a match head size application to the frenulum 1hr before sex.

Had sex 3hrs after first application, didn't work, it was as if I never applied it.

Possible causes:

1. Needs to be applied to frenulum and glans to work effectively.
2. 3hrs might be too long of a wait for me. Even with multiple applications.
3. Potency of the cream might have decreased since opening it.
4. Might have built tolerance to the cream.

I am going to try out different tests to see if I can eliminate possible causes from the above list.

For instance, i'm going to try out number 1, with a wait of 2hrs, if it works, I can rule out 3 and 4 from being causes of why it didn't work yesterday.

[Tooners88]

I tried it again last night.

Did a match head size application to the frenulum 3hrs before sex.
Did a match head size application to the frenulum 2hrs before sex.
Did a match head size application to the frenulum 1hr before sex.

Had sex 3hrs after first application, didn't work, it was as if I never applied it.

Possible causes:

1. Needs to be applied to frenulum and glans to work effectively.
2. 3hrs might be too long of a wait for me. Even with multiple applications.
3. Potency of the cream might have decreased since opening it.
4. Might have built tolerance to the cream.

I am going to try out different tests to see if I can eliminate possible causes from the above list.

For instance, i'm going to try out number 1, with a wait of 2hrs, if it works, I can rule out 3 and 4 from being causes of why it didn't work yesterday.

Interesting. A match head is a pretty decent amount so I'd think that if you applied that much 3x leading up then the time frame shouldn't be the issue, at least not to the point where it was totally ineffective.

I'd guess it's either #1, #3 or a combination of both. I don't think numbing creams/sprays are the sort of thing you'd build tolerance to and I know several guys who have been using PYT successfully for at least a year or more.

I did read a review where a guy was saying that his cream loses potency over time, but he said it takes a few months for this to happen in his case whereas you only started using it pretty recently:

"I use this product to this day. It works all the time, if applied at least 30-60 mins prior. I usually feel it when I'm ready for (a long) action. There's tingling sensation in the area applied to. (It can be pleasant or uncomfortable depending on how much balm you applied.) In my case, once the tingling disappears, I'm ready. The effect on me is totally gone 3 hours after application. It makes me more sensitive without making me lose control for about half an hour (or longer if more balm applied and longer time before full throttle.) In my case I need just a miniscule amount every time. I end up throwing away the product half empty all the time. For some reasons, it loses efficacy over time. I'd say shelf life is only a few months, mine were totally worthless after 6 months. When it loses its mojo, it's totally worthless. In the the first 2 occasions I bought this balm, I thought I developed tolerance to it. Then I realized I did not develop tolerance. The product just lost its efficacy. Every new one I bought is always effective though until a few months later. I'm not sure if it's the constant exposure to air as you open the lid over and over that speeds up the loss of efficacy. I'm not sure if ambient temperature has an effect on the product's shelf life. I have not tried storing it in the fridge either. This seemingly dubious thing I have a hard time wrapping my head around in the beginning is actually effective. From a skeptic to a believer. To me it is 10x better than anesthtic sprays to delay, but totally eliminate sensitivity."

In any case, as you mentioned I think the first test should be to incorporate the glans along with the frenulum. I'll try to do this test myself as well though my sex life is a bit sporadic at the moment. I did try the frenulum only though as mentioned above and can confirm that the effect was much lower.

[Tooners88]

Well around 3 or 4 nights ago I applied the balm with a light coating on my glands and frenulum. I felt the "burning" sensation but isn't wasn't painful. I left it on for an hour and then it kept irritating me so I washed it off with a cloth. I then masturbated and basically the shit didn't work. I probably lasted 10 minutes while watching porn. I kept feeling the burning so I washed off with soap and it still was irritating me. I now have scabs and bumps on my dick for the 2nd time. I give up so I threw what was left in one container in the damn garbage. I still have the 2nd container here but scared to use the shit. I had a fling from my past contact me and wants to meet up but now I can't meet her because my dick has all these bumps and shit.

I have HSV II and where i have the bumps is also where I have my herpes breakout. But I haven't had a breakout in over a year but my dick feels like it does with I have a breakout. So I am not sure if I am having a reaction because of the sensitivity of my skin or does this shit some how call out the herpes virus from being dormant. My dick needs a break. I am 51 years old so I guess I will just keep using penis injection meds and at least I can bust my quick nut and stay erect for 2 or 3 hours. Of course sex doesn't feel as good after busting a nut ... oh well

Maybe try Promescent instead. Same concept but it's a lidocaine-based spray. I've talked to a few guys who say it works very well for them.

[DJchitown]

yeah I have some here let me see if it has expired since it has been in my closet for so long.