Pau yuen tong question

[Tooners88]

It seems to me as most experiences have been solo rather than with a partner. I would be intersted to see how it works in actual sex. But the poster above me has a point about putting unknown substances on your penis and then inserting into a partner.

I've used it with sex twice and the different was night and day. The first time I used it I had complete control even with aggressive thrusting in missionary which would usually set me off in just a few strokes. It was a totally crazy and eye-opening experience to realize that just desensitizing that one spot on my dick could make such a massive difference.

I've talked to many guys both on the boards and in PM's and there are plenty of anecdotes of it working extremely well for sex. In fact, I don't think I've talked to anyone who applied it properly before sex and didn't see very good results.

[Tooners88]

I tried it last night as well, but literally put the tiniest amount om freneleum an hour before and helped a little (didn’t feel any numb feeling which was great). Can you explain exactely how much you put on and how long before? What was your normal duration with and without using PYT?

I would suggest giving it more time. 2-3 hours seems to be more effective than just one hour. I use an amount maybe the size of half a grain of rice, applied to the frenulum and underside of the glans.

[Tooners88]

I haven't read the thread thoroughly, so I can't comment on the conversational conflict I've seen referenced, but Pegasus has the right idea here being skeptical. I don't mean skeptical about whatever this concoction is working, but about its safety.

Ordering an unknown substance from an unknown source, and then applying it to your penis? Worse yet, applying it to your penis and then putting that penis inside someone else's body? Given that we don't even know if whatever this stuff is can permeate latex (etc.), I would argue that even if you use condoms you should inform your partner(s) beforehand that you've put this stuff on. Otherwise you're potentially causing them a chemical exposure without their consent. At least you're within your rights to take risks with your own body, but I would stay away from stuff like this.

The proper way to use it is to wash it off before sex. The amount that is used is also extremely small. Not a chance that it's going to permeate latex. I've done a lot of research on it and have never heard of any reports of adverse effects, and haven't seen any myself. The ingredients are supposedly a mix of ginseng, cloves, brandy, aloe wood, aromatic oils and petroleum jelly. There are many things in life that involve weighing out the risk/reward, and given the incredible effects I've had with this stuff so far (I'd describe it as life changing) it's a risk I'm comfortable with. I haven't read or experienced anything that would suggest it's unhealthy, and if I do notice anything along the way I'll certainly re-assess.

[latuda]

I would suggest giving it more time. 2-3 hours seems to be more effective than just one hour. I use an amount maybe the size of half a grain of rice, applied to the frenulum and underside of the glans.

thats probably the Reason why i dont have the needed effect, i dont even put half of a grain of rice, i realy just touch the balm with my finger to just have a slice coloration and i Apply it

but it probably seem to not be enought

[PYT]

I just edged for 1 hour tonight and only had to fight PONR near the end. When not using PYT I can usually only last around 30mins tops and even then I’m having to really concentrate and fight PONR. I have also been doing stationary cycling on my spinning bike which I feel helps massage the perenium.

[latuda]

ok so another disapointing try for me, this time i put more of the balm, i waited 3 hours before mastrubate, and i was able to cum in less than 5 minutes even without porn, just by imagination stimulation, imagining a girl on me.

It seem obvious for me now that the only reason for PE is arrousal, and not particulary linked to sensation on the freneum as i can sometime ejaculate even without beeing touch by a girl when the arrousal get very high if i see her realy enjoying what i am doing, like just feeling very arroused i can ejaculate even without touching my penis,

so for me it's now clear i have a realy bad arrousal probleme that even without any touching stimulation can lead to ejaculation by reflex.

[stew]

ok so another disapointing try for me, this time i put more of the balm, i waited 3 hours before mastrubate, and i was able to cum in less than 5 minutes even without porn, just by imagination stimulation, imagining a girl on me.

It seem obvious for me now that the only reason for PE is arrousal, and not particulary linked to sensation on the freneum as i can sometime ejaculate even without beeing touch by a girl when the arrousal get very high if i see her realy enjoying what i am doing, like just feeling very arroused i can ejaculate even without touching my penis,

so for me it's now clear i have a realy bad arrousal probleme that even without any touching stimulation can lead to ejaculation by reflex.

Pelvic floor tension. have you done hindi squats?

[latuda]

Pelvic floor tension. have you done hindi squats?

i dont realy see the link between pelvic floor tension, as i am saying i can feel the urge to ejaculate just by having very arrousal though by imagination and without even touching my penis

how can doing squat could fix one arrousal gestion problem ?

[stew]

i dont realy see the link between pelvic floor tension, as i am saying i can feel the urge to ejaculate just by having very arrousal though by imagination and without even touching my penis

how can doing squat could fix one arrousal gestion problem ?

Alot of guys on here that have been able to ejaculate without being touched, thinking about things arousing, and even ejaculating when flaccid have said that once they addressed their floor it helped.... but i guess everyone's different. Its at least worth the try to add into your practice.

[Johnny D]

i dont realy see the link between pelvic floor tension, as i am saying i can feel the urge to ejaculate just by having very arrousal though by imagination and without even touching my penis

how can doing squat could fix one arrousal gestion problem ?

The hypothesis here is that your arousal leads to the contractions (just as sensitivity would) and if you can't relax your PFM's, it's game over.