PE and Women’s Orgasms

**skeeter810** · 11-23-2018

Hey all,

So, I’ve worked on edging, slowing down sex as I hit PONR, kegels etc. A lot of work needs to done, but making progress.

I’ve realized recently, that I can continue sex for awhile, continual thrusting, but when I hear a woman close to coming, there is no turning back. Whether it’s 5 minutes in or an hour, hearing that is what sets me off.

Any recommendations to work on this?

Thanks

**Pegasus** · 11-23-2018

Practise .
Continue training .

**Boricua** · 11-23-2018

If you can last until she has an orgasm then you don't have a problem at all.

**Big Al** · 11-23-2018

When you feel yourself getting out of control- stop and BREATHE- focus on your breath and attempt to recenter yourself mentally. This may take some time to master, but it's worth practicing.

**WillGetBetter** · 11-23-2018

I’ve read that some edge while listening to arousing sounds by women. That might be a good way to practice.

**Nightforce** · 11-23-2018

Earplugs? :P

**TheR** · 11-25-2018

It's obviously an arousal issue. Similarly why porn is a bad idea when edging is because you'll get so aroused you'll not last. Edging to nothing makes it easier to last as your not as aroused.

Had the same issue myself recently. Had sex and didn't last long. Shortly afterwards had sex again and thought all was going well, until she really started to get vocal as she got close to coming and it pushed me right over the edge.

Might take Nightforces advise and buy some ear defenders

**skeeter810** · 11-25-2018

I don’t watch porn, really at all, but I have heard listening to arousing sounds can help. I’ll try that.

And the issue is, I don’t always last until she cums.

Thanks for the advice.