As the title suggests I'm really struggling with why I have PE and how to improve it.
Had a healthy sex life till about 4 years ago, contracted Genital herpes and only had 1 outbreak but ever since then I have suffered PE.
I regularly edge, I edge for 20 minutes and keep my arousal at an 8. I have tried squats for months with no improvement, I have tried Rks even though I don't think I have a pelvic floor balance or suffer from IKs.
I was on another depressents to try and combat it with NO improvement. Numbing sprays don't make a difference, condoms don't make a difference I am really confused with where to go?
Attempted sex this morning and as soon as the missus played with my penis it was all over with......... I have even attempted yoga to try and relax but again no improvement.
The only avenue I have left is a sex therapist but with what I hear they only teach you the stop/start teqhnique which is useless when you have to stop after 2 seconds.
I think mine is mental/anxiety based, I don't seem to suffer from IKS but I have run out of options. 4 years I have had this now and the more I try the worst it seems to get .
The only cure so to speak with delaying ejaculation seems to be alcohol, that is the only thing that effects my lasting time, if anything it makes me struggle to ejaculate. Just can not work out why alcohol works but nothing else does.
I have a wife and 2 kids so alcohol is not an option or cure but just dont know where to go next with this. If anyone has been in a similar situation any advice would be appreciated!!
Had a healthy sex life till about 4 years ago, contracted Genital herpes and only had 1 outbreak but ever since then I have suffered PE.
I regularly edge, I edge for 20 minutes and keep my arousal at an 8. I have tried squats for months with no improvement, I have tried Rks even though I don't think I have a pelvic floor balance or suffer from IKs.
I was on another depressents to try and combat it with NO improvement. Numbing sprays don't make a difference, condoms don't make a difference I am really confused with where to go?
Attempted sex this morning and as soon as the missus played with my penis it was all over with......... I have even attempted yoga to try and relax but again no improvement.
The only avenue I have left is a sex therapist but with what I hear they only teach you the stop/start teqhnique which is useless when you have to stop after 2 seconds.
I think mine is mental/anxiety based, I don't seem to suffer from IKS but I have run out of options. 4 years I have had this now and the more I try the worst it seems to get .
The only cure so to speak with delaying ejaculation seems to be alcohol, that is the only thing that effects my lasting time, if anything it makes me struggle to ejaculate. Just can not work out why alcohol works but nothing else does.
I have a wife and 2 kids so alcohol is not an option or cure but just dont know where to go next with this. If anyone has been in a similar situation any advice would be appreciated!!
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