My PE Log

**Anklepain** · 05-11-2019

Contractulation for your progress! How much hindi squat are you doing?

**ACPreE** · 05-11-2019

Thanks! Little but its something i guess. For Hindi Squats most part i try to get in 10mins in the morning and night. Some mornings i can only sit in it for a couple minutes just for time sake.

**ACPreE** · 05-19-2019

Log Entry 5/19/2019

Feeling more and more like I need to go to the doctors to check me out. Just received head in the shower and it was literally 20 seconds. I was at like 5 for 10 seconds then it felt like it started getting to 7 then PONR. The orgasm was like nothing. Kind of numb but still ejaculation.

**Bobsadcock** · 05-19-2019

Originally Posted by ACPreE

Log Entry 5/19/2019

Feeling more and more like I need to go to the doctors to check me out. Just received head in the shower and it was literally 20 seconds. I was at like 5 for 10 seconds then it felt like it started getting to 7 then PONR. The orgasm was like nothing. Kind of numb but still ejaculation.

That's a good idea, just to rule out any medical conditions that might be causing pre e, like an enlarged prostate. I did it myself very early on.

I think it's encouraging that you were at 5 for a short while, that's a small plateau. But it gets harder to plateau at higher arousal level that's why you spike the moment you get to 7. I find it pretty hard to manage arousal if sex begins with oral too. It's best to identify a position that you have best control in and anyways begin sex in that position. Once you establish a comfortable plateau, then you can challenge yourself and see how long you can last in a harder position, and you will last longer now than you would have if you started in that position.

**ACPreE** · 05-20-2019

Ya I stayed at very low arousal, she had to stroke me a little before I was at 100% She was going very slow and sensual. I felt myself get to about a 5 and then a tingle in what felt like my prostate. It didn't feel like the feeling you get when you have been banging for a while and the excitement and tension builds up for the ejaculation. I just felt the tingle and then arousal just went right up and i still felt like I was at a 6 or 7 on the scale and I ejaculated. It was hardly satisfying, it was like my body just wanted to cum regardless of sensation. There wasn't overwhelming sensitivity or anything like that, actually the penis head stayed pretty relaxed and almost numb to the sensation. It felt good but the orgasm came from the prostate area and not from the shaft being stimulated i feel.

I was standing which should have helped make it easier to RK and I was holding a RK for a little, that was how i stayed at the 5 but somehow my body wanted me to cum even though I wasn't really aroused.

This seriously boggles my mind because its almost as if my lasting time has gotten worse. She was trying to do it slower so I could enjoy it longer but it didn't help. I wanted to enjoy it longer too but I just went off. I wish I could say IKs and tight PF but I wasn't tight and I didn't have any IKs i couldn't control. Could just feel a general tightening but pushed it back with Rks which lowered the arousal but didn't stop the ejaculation.

Can anyone relate to this feeling of cumming with mid to low arousal?

I tried to have real sex at night but my gf wasn't having it.

**Bobsadcock** · 05-20-2019

Originally Posted by ACPreE

I wish I could say IKs and tight PF but I wasn't tight and I didn't have any IKs i couldn't control. Could just feel a general tightening but pushed it back with Rks which lowered the arousal but didn't stop the ejaculation.

Can anyone relate to this feeling of cumming with mid to low arousal?

Yep! These are from my progress thread that I posted in August and September of last year:

"Had sex for the first time in many months yesterday though, and all my work didn't seem to have an effect. Mere light touches from a girl seems to start building tension in my crotch, that leads to ejaculation. Reverse kegels have no effect because it simply happens too quickly and intensely. I didn't even feel any involuntary kegelling occuring"

"Had sex again, roughly a week after the last time.

I got myself some pau yuen tong and applied it, but it didn't do anything for me. I came pretty quickly from some hand stimulation.

I have a feeling physical stimulation isn't the issue for me. I've been doing hindi squats and edging with reverse kegels, but the moment a woman touches my dick, the urge to ejaculate builds up far too quickly for me to do anything about it."

I think what happens is that after having Pre E for so long, your dick wants to ejaculate very quickly, even when your mind isn't very aroused.

What happened later on for me was I loosened my PF even more and I had more sex, and eventually my dick listened and was willing to slow down bit by bit. Try getting your GF to hj you if she doesn't want to have sex, hell she can even do it while watching TV. It's important to have someone other than you touch your dick to be making progress.

**ACPreE** · 05-20-2019

Ya it's weird. I understand the whole retraining but it's just so hard to pin point why I can cum with such little stimulus. When I mean slow too i mean she was going maybe one stroke a second. It just started to feel good like my shaft was at a 5 but my prostate was at 8

**ACPreE** · 05-21-2019

Log Entry: 5/20/19

So day after that bad lasting with a 15-20 sec bj. I have an edging session tonight with full control. Went 30mins in full control with 1 edge. Only because I was dumb and tried to play with kegel arousal. I was super relaxed and focused tho.

I stroked about 2/s for 70%. 15% was jackhammering. 10% different variations of twists. 5% slower

Anyone when they are 100% hard try pushing the penis down towards the floor? Not to make it hurt but enough to put a tad bit of pressure. Felt arousal changes when I did it twice.

**Bobsadcock** · 05-21-2019

Originally Posted by ACPreE

Ya it's weird. I understand the whole retraining but it's just so hard to pin point why I can cum with such little stimulus. When I mean slow too i mean she was going maybe one stroke a second. It just started to feel good like my shaft was at a 5 but my prostate was at 8

The feeling in your prostate is probably the only thing that matters, because that's where the ejaculation builds up. Sometimes I can feel it building up there during foreplay even when my dick isn't getting touched.

Are you progressing your edging by plateauing at higher arousal levels?

**ACPreE** · 05-21-2019

Originally Posted by Bobsadcock

The feeling in your prostate is probably the only thing that matters, because that's where the ejaculation builds up. Sometimes I can feel it building up there during foreplay even when my dick isn't getting touched.

Are you progressing your edging by plateauing at higher arousal levels?

I have that feeling too. So to some respect are we retraining our prostate too?

To be honest Iv been at 10-12min before first edge and then a few other edges between 12-20min mark for a while. Recently the time has been getting further but i think it has to play into the more focused front RKs.

I was going to switch to a home made flashlight next as it seems I may need higher stimulation.
Cant get the real thing or my GF would kill me with it.. Imagine how that is possible and she would do it XD.

Last night I did hit some nice plateaus though, didn't keep track but I hit maybe 2 or 3 times. For most of the session i was at about 6-7 on the scale. I had at one point a Huge IK that kinda rocked my PF. Besides that there was little to no IKs

Now iv heard mixed results on porn but if edging with hand and lube with no stimuli isnt stimulating enough, what do i add? Thoughts?