Can somebody try this out for me in real sex

[Anklepain]

I also have the habbit of crossing my leg while laying on the bed and i dont know why. It happens subconsciously.

Did you spread your ass with 2 hand when thrusting or 1 hand with your fingers? How hard did you spread and how long? And how many time did you spread in last sex session?

[jamessimonsd]

I did it from start to finish. One hand works fine but 2 hands i get even better results. Normally on each thrust, the muscles down there just get more tensed up to the point of no return and thats where the involuntary kegels happen. Now that still happens, those muscles still gradually tense up but spreading my butt sort of counter that effects so it takes longer or even forever to reach ponr. The harder you spread the better this will work. Just dont go overboard or else you will tear your asshole
Try this while edging to see if this works for you:
1. Spread your butt with your 2 hands
2. Sit on your spread out butt
3. Hands off you butt and start masturbating slowly with a fleshlight or your hands.
Normally if i dont spread my butt before i sit, my erection gets much stronger. But when i do this, it gets lossen up

[88Keys]

In the words of legendary comedian Dave Chappelle, "Spread your cheeks and lift your sac"

[jamessimonsd]

In the words of legendary comedian Dave Chappelle, "Spread your cheeks and lift your sac"

Lol. Could have saved a lot of hassle if I had heard that earlier

[jamessimonsd]

I was so excited abiut my first success that today i was able to convinced my gf to have another go. Same thing! I lasted however long i wanted. Except i didnt have to use my hand all the time anymore. So the sitting while spreading excercise out of sex is working too. Another thing i notice is that reverse kegeling is much easier now. I couldnt even do it when it sit. And when i stand, i can only rk by tensing my abs and holding my breath. Now i can do so by just let go of the musscles, no pushing or tensing. This is greatt guys

[soon2bhuge]

Sitting with the cheeks spread to get a pelvic floor stretch is genius, really!

Only question (serious): Do you get "stains" in your shorts? Cause it feels like my sphincter is directly touching the fabric of my shorts and it feels kinda "dirty" haha

[jamessimonsd]

I don't seem to have that problem.
And what is your experience with the sitting and spreading so far?

[Schmukk]

Do u not wash ur asshole?

[Anklepain]

Sitting with the cheeks spread to get a pelvic floor stretch is genius, really!

Only question (serious): Do you get "stains" in your shorts? Cause it feels like my sphincter is directly touching the fabric of my shorts and it feels kinda "dirty" haha

I was thinking same. Is there possibility that people who are having pre e subconsciously suck their anal/sphincter in all day because of affraid of boxer getting dirty. Cleaning asshole with toilet paper is not "natural" thing back in the day.

[MPolo]

Wow. Congrats. I am going to try this out as an experiment too. I have a Fleshlight shower mount that I use for hands-free edging after pumping sessions in the shower.