To be clear, when i refer to arousal and arousal levels, 1-10 (10 being ejaculation), I'm talking about the feeling of ejaculation building up in your penis.
I haven't read anyone talk about the acceleration of arousal yet, so I thought I'd bring it up.
For me, as i start sex and edging, I feel a certain tension at the base of my dick, near my balls. Even at low arousal levels, I know this feeling is trouble. If I'm not careful to deal with it through arousal control techniques like going slow and rk, my arousal will very quickly start spiking, and I will cum in no time. In the middle of sex, I can be at a relatively high arousal level, around 7, and still feel safe because I don't feel that tension that represents accelerating arousal. I think this feeling is important to aware of for all of us because it starts even at low arousal level, and can come back again later on. And the absence of the feeling is what let's us know we can slowly start picking up the pace.
I haven't read anyone talk about the acceleration of arousal yet, so I thought I'd bring it up.
For me, as i start sex and edging, I feel a certain tension at the base of my dick, near my balls. Even at low arousal levels, I know this feeling is trouble. If I'm not careful to deal with it through arousal control techniques like going slow and rk, my arousal will very quickly start spiking, and I will cum in no time. In the middle of sex, I can be at a relatively high arousal level, around 7, and still feel safe because I don't feel that tension that represents accelerating arousal. I think this feeling is important to aware of for all of us because it starts even at low arousal level, and can come back again later on. And the absence of the feeling is what let's us know we can slowly start picking up the pace.
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