Psychological issue now?

[MuzzTecAFC]

So little background I used to have super bad PE back in 2010, fast forward 4-5 years and I basically cured myself with most girls. However there was always that 1 girl here and there I could last long for. Fast forward to about 10 months ago and I have found the love of my life, the only problem is my PE came back.

I went and saw my sexual leadership mentor who helped me get back on track, I read up on here and did some exercises and managed to make some head roads however I have 1 piece of the puzzle missing and I can't get past it.

So what happens is when my gf starts to orgasm I basically cum instantly, sometimes I struggle before she even gets to orgasm but I can control it with breath work, energy cycling and slowing down. However as she starts to orgasm I just have to pull out and I end up cumming on her stomach (Don't use condoms). My question is how do I get past this, I think I sorted out 90% of the physical stuff, is it in my head that when she orgasms it causes me to cum instantly even if I am doing fairly well or going at a good pace. I guess the reason why I want to last 5 secs longer is to not cut her orgasm short and let her experience it then cum and other times make her cum then keep going giving her multiple orgasms.

I for the life of me can't work this out as I have not had this happen to me before even made a girl squire multiple times on my cock and I managed to last the whole time.

[CUSP82]

I always thought simultaneous orgasms was the best thing. You mean I'm wrong?

[ACPreE]

My gf always wants me to finish the same time, I just cant though. My arousal jumps up as well when she starts to moan and get closer. Last time she told me she was getting close i went from a 7-9 in a few thrusts and I had to pull out just as she was finishing.

[Jay1983]

Focusing on being able to give multiple orgasms before you orgasm yourself should give you the capability to orgasm when she does, basically whenever you want.

[ACPreE]

Focusing on being able to give multiple orgasms before you orgasm yourself should give you the capability to orgasm when she does, basically whenever you want.

Sounds so easy XD

[Jay1983]

Sounds so easy XD

It is pretty easy, just gotta get in tune with your PF.

[Anklepain]

Focusing on being able to give multiple orgasms before you orgasm yourself should give you the capability to orgasm when she does, basically whenever you want.

Jay, are you lost? Please go back to your PE forum. This is Pre E forum

[Tara123]

I dont see anything wrong with cumming at the same time. Its the best thing ever.

Also if you cum inside her while shes cumming, she will continue after you have stopped, just stay inside and close to her.

[MuzzTecAFC]

The problem is that we don't use birth control so I don't have the option to cum inside her. In the past I have been able to keep going as a girl orgasms and give her multiple ones but with my GF I just can't and it is killing me not being able to work out why

[Tara123]

Why can't she go on the pill?