Hey.
I`ve been practicing the stop start method during sex for some time now. I can stop every time before the point of no return, take a little time to cool off (meanwhile I would excite my partner with my hands or tongue) and then continue. I can do this as many times as necessary. But here`s my problem with this technique: It sometimes happens, that just when I feel I need to take a break, my partner asks me not to stop or even do it a little faster. In this situation to be honest I don`t know what to do, it`s like Catch-22 . If I do what she asked me, I will inavitably ejaculate in a couple of seconds, or I can stop, risking that in those 1-2 seconds until I switch to oral stimulation her pleasure goes away and we can start it all over again. Sometimes If I stopped, she even asked me why did you stop? I told you not to.
In my oppinion this stop start method sounds really good in theory, whenever you feel the urge to come, you stop. This way you can of course have sex all night, but in reality I think it is really hard to time it right.
What are your thoughts on this, or how do you manage these kind of situations?
Thank you.
I`ve been practicing the stop start method during sex for some time now. I can stop every time before the point of no return, take a little time to cool off (meanwhile I would excite my partner with my hands or tongue) and then continue. I can do this as many times as necessary. But here`s my problem with this technique: It sometimes happens, that just when I feel I need to take a break, my partner asks me not to stop or even do it a little faster. In this situation to be honest I don`t know what to do, it`s like Catch-22 . If I do what she asked me, I will inavitably ejaculate in a couple of seconds, or I can stop, risking that in those 1-2 seconds until I switch to oral stimulation her pleasure goes away and we can start it all over again. Sometimes If I stopped, she even asked me why did you stop? I told you not to.
In my oppinion this stop start method sounds really good in theory, whenever you feel the urge to come, you stop. This way you can of course have sex all night, but in reality I think it is really hard to time it right.
What are your thoughts on this, or how do you manage these kind of situations?
Thank you.
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