holding kegel during sex

[jzhj Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jzhj]

if holding kegel or clenching your BC muscles can reduce the ik to a great extent? I mean when you clench the BC muscle all the time during sex , ik is hard to happen since you already kegel . Does it sound reasonable? Has anyone tried it before. I am just curious about it . I can't perform it since I can hold it for a long time.

[petrpan Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close petrpan]

Hi, interesting. I think holding longer kegel would bring you faster to PONR, however sometimes I hold a long firm kegel before sex to fatigue the muscle a bit, so IK's are not so strong during sex (if that makes sense). I might try what you're suggesting with a fleshlight, but I think I know what will happen as I have always used kegels to make things happen faster.

[jzhj Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jzhj]

hi petrpan,
i think kegel makes cum faster too, but that's intermittent kegel. I think clenching bc all the time in sex are more powerful than rk, since ik is hard to resist even you do a powerful reverse kegel. But if the bc muscle has already reached the place that involuntary kegel needs to meet, the ik may just disappear. but all of this just an assumption. hopefully it would be a successful method!!!!!!

[DickerSchwanz Senior Member Member of the Month Sept 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close DickerSchwanz]

Interesting take.
For me when I hold a kegel for long erection quality goes down. Cause the BC is antagonistic muscle to others in the PF who aid the erection.

IK's are rather easily cancelled by RK's. And it's possible to hold an RK for quiet long.

[jzhj Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jzhj]

hi schwanz, how long have you practiced rk? I think rk also lowers the eq? I cant stop ik by rk now. Do you last longer by doing rk?

[DickerSchwanz Senior Member Member of the Month Sept 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close DickerSchwanz]

hi schwanz, how long have you practiced rk? I think rk also lowers the eq? I cant stop ik by rk now. Do you last longer by doing rk?

10 years. Intensely for the last year. RK doesn't lower EQ for me.
You can last longer if you train to counter IK's with RK. Takes some time.

[jzhj Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jzhj]

Thx!

10 years. Intensely for the last year. RK doesn't lower EQ for me.
You can last longer if you train to counter IK's with RK. Takes some time.

[petrpan Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close petrpan]

tried it with fleshlight during weekend and it brought me to PONR very quickly. I tried this after like 20 mins of constant thrusting. I will not try this during sex. (maybe I clenched wrong muscles..)

[jzhj Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jzhj]

so you thrusted for 20 mins and come after clenched? do you use reverse kegel during thrusting?