My log

**upuratinario** · 09-19-2019

Are you using or have you been using porn until now?
it would be a good point to stop if that's the case and only use your imagination. erection should occur even without any kegels done
i've read a lot of old posts and in almost all of them during treatment, all reported erection problems, but soon after they recovered

**bball33** · 09-19-2019

I've used porn in the past. Really limiting it now. I will not use it at all anymore, just imagination. I will ignore the EQ for now, see what happens

**bball33** · 09-20-2019

Had sex again last night, don't know how long it was but it was one of our best times together we ever had. I have realized something, it's not always about how long because she even said time felt like it stood still. Lately it has been getting better and better in that regard and you can't replace connection with time. Now that I'm off my soup box, I'm still after continued Improvement and want to be fully on control of ejaculation. Training continues.

**bball33** · 09-22-2019

Had sex last night and this morning. Last night went down on her to get her off. Then went in and she finished a second time right after I did. She couldn't even talk afterwards. This morning, went down on her for alittle bit then missionary. She finished slightly before I did. Again loss for words afterwards. What a weekend!

**ACPreE** · 09-23-2019

Congratz man glad to hear you are having success.

**bball33** · 09-23-2019

Originally Posted by ACPreE

Congratz man glad to hear you are having success.

Thanks

**bball33** · 09-30-2019

Had sex a few times since my last post, today I outlasted her again. Bent over in the kitchen just going to town. This stuff works!

**upuratinario** · 10-01-2019

I'm really happy you got cured, congratulations. It gives hope that the rest of us can follow your steps as well.
I'm going to go ahead and read all your log and see if you did something I don't, maybe i'm skipping out on something.
Keep it up!

**bball33** · 10-01-2019

Originally Posted by upuratinario

I'm really happy you got cured, congratulations. It gives hope that the rest of us can follow your steps as well.
I'm going to go ahead and read all your log and see if you did something I don't, maybe i'm skipping out on something.
Keep it up!

Thank you. Ask me any questions you may have. I think the trick up my sleeve was this. I start with sex, if I am having problems lasting I pull out and go down on her. 95% of the time I can get her off with that. When I go down I sit in the baby pose, I think that's what it's called, and belly breath. It really stretches the PF and then when she gets off I get up and right back to sex. Then she started cumming from that too. Then the confidence starts. The first part would go a little longer each time before I would have to go down on her. Something to think about.

**upuratinario** · 10-02-2019

Originally Posted by bball33

Thank you. Ask me any questions you may have. I think the trick up my sleeve was this. I start with sex, if I am having problems lasting I pull out and go down on her. 95% of the time I can get her off with that. When I go down I sit in the baby pose, I think that's what it's called, and belly breath. It really stretches the PF and then when she gets off I get up and right back to sex. Then she started cumming from that too. Then the confidence starts. The first part would go a little longer each time before I would have to go down on her. Something to think about.

Similar experience to that is what I did last sex sessions, and helped me have some great sex long forgotten. Pulling out when that arousal and sensitivity is sky high and relaxing almost disipates Pre E entirely. But this is similar to a start stop technique, at least in my case because I pull out at 98% PONR. When I get back in, it's like I have a numb dick for 15 minutes.
This is more of a quick fix, and I am looking to bypass that pulling out in the begining and not have to worry every time I get into sex "will it be ok today".