Masturbating Glans for Better Stamina?

**7sDoor** · 3 Weeks Ago

Throughout my life, I have not been able to last long in PIV sex and have battled premature ejaculation. Sometimes, I have good days and can thrust for maybe 7-10 minutes, other days I can barely get in and last maybe 10 seconds before popping.

I’m 42 years old and pretty much have always masturbated my shaft and frenulum, but give very little attention, if any, to my glans. I have noticed recently that my glans is extremely sensitive (almost painful) when I lube it and rub it with my palm. I’m starting to have a theory that this might be part of why I cum so quickly.

Has anyone had success with masturbating/edging the glans to reduce sensitivity and improve stamina? Also, has anyone seen improved EQ by doing this?

**ACPreE** · 2 Weeks Ago

Sounds like ballooning.

**7sDoor** · 2 Weeks Ago

Yeah, I guess so. I have always done my ballooning on the topside of the shaft, but using the glans might be more effective. I think I have a little better EQ in only a few days.

**incogneeetoe** · 2 Weeks Ago

I am similar. Always masturbated the shaft and left glans alone.

I now do much more stimulation of the glans. And I think you are right, as my sensitivity has gone down. And my EQ does go up when adding focus to the glans.

I had not really thought about it before in that way.

**upuratinario** · 2 Weeks Ago

Originally Posted by incogneeetoe

I am similar. Always masturbated the shaft and left glans alone.

I now do much more stimulation of the glans. And I think you are right, as my sensitivity has gone down. And my EQ does go up when adding focus to the glans.

I had not really thought about it before in that way.

any insight on how one would do this without lube?
i've tried and it hurts because of unlubed friction

can't use lube every day due to kids, wife...

**7sDoor** · 2 Weeks Ago

Originally Posted by incogneeetoe

I am similar. Always masturbated the shaft and left glans alone.

I now do much more stimulation of the glans. And I think you are right, as my sensitivity has gone down. And my EQ does go up when adding focus to the glans.

I had not really thought about it before in that way.

I’m glad to hear that you have noticed this too. I think I was noticing during a Fleshlight session that the glans was getting really sensitive and was bringing me close to PONR. I figured that if I could stimulate the head more, I would get used to that sensation and improve stamina.

I have gained a lot of valuable information from this site and tried to copy/execute techniques that others have described, but we can’t forget that we can have great breakthroughs using our own creativity and experimentation. 😉

**7sDoor** · 2 Weeks Ago

Originally Posted by upuratinario

any insight on how one would do this without lube?
i've tried and it hurts because of unlubed friction

can't use lube every day due to kids, wife...

You can rub the head with very light pressure, but lube is going to be much more effective.

I use a mixture of 1:1:2 -> olive oil:coconut oil:shea butter. I call it my penis butter. 😆 It feels really good going on and is a great moisturizer that doesn’t need to be washed off. At the end, I finish with some aloe vera and you’re good to go.

**incogneeetoe** · 2 Weeks Ago

Originally Posted by upuratinario

any insight on how one would do this without lube?
i've tried and it hurts because of unlubed friction

can't use lube every day due to kids, wife...

I never use lube for edging/ballooning. I do it in the shower, so maybe that helps. I think it just takes getting used to. It will be difficult at first, so short time, low intensity, and work your way up

Originally Posted by 7sDoor

I’m glad to hear that you have noticed this too. I think I was noticing during a Fleshlight session that the glans was getting really sensitive and was bringing me close to PONR. I figured that if I could stimulate the head more, I would get used to that sensation and improve stamina.

I mean, it makes sense. Especially in uncircumcised. I just did not really think about it until I read the OP. Over the last few years I have steadily had more and more intensity on the glans just intuitively, and it has helped greatly.

Originally Posted by 7sDoor

I have gained a lot of valuable information from this site and tried to copy/execute techniques that others have described, but we can’t forget that we can have great breakthroughs using our own creativity and experimentation. 

There is so much information, we need to coalesce and ask questions to get the real details sometimes

**7sDoor** · 2 Weeks Ago

Originally Posted by incogneeetoe

There is so much information, we need to coalesce and ask questions to get the real details sometimes

Definitely agree! I have been a lurker for a few years and learned a lot from reading, but it has been really nice to interact and ask those questions since I became a member.

**upuratinario** · 2 Weeks Ago

On this note, I tried it today in the shower.
just rubbing the glans all over the place, it feels somehow tingly, was at it for about 3 minutes
While it does provide some stimulation, i do not see myself orgasming just from this even if I do it for 2 hours, and I have Pre E problems.

Most intense is on the bigger side under the pee hole, somehow painfull but not that bad.
It feels completely different compared to the frenulum or just under the glans.
Will try again while I also edge to see if in case of stroking it adds to the stimulation in a different way.

Do you also edge while doing this incogneetoe, 7sDoor ?