Hello everyone,
I stumbled upon this forum a few days ago and I've been reading the sticky threads, other people's logs and decided to start my own journey.
My problem is that I've never had sex, I've had plenty of opportunities but I'm always not escalating because I'm scared of ruining my reputation and be categorized as a 2 pump chump, I was masturbating quick af in my teen years and only recently I've been starting to masturbate and last atleast 15-20 mins, went gradually from 10 mins.
What I've noticed is that I can't last long masturbating when I'm super horny and thinking about how I'm gonna blow my load on that girl(like I'm straight thinking of how I'd have sex and be almost finished), if I just relax and let my arousal go down, I feel like I can masturbate for hours without cumming which leads me to doing Kegels to make myself cum, does this mean my problem stands in me not being able to control my arousal ? I started a sticky thread's routine and I tried masturbating without visual or auditory stimuli, I went at it for like 20 mins and decided to cum cause I was bored, I had like a 7 arousal every time.
I stumbled upon this forum a few days ago and I've been reading the sticky threads, other people's logs and decided to start my own journey.
My problem is that I've never had sex, I've had plenty of opportunities but I'm always not escalating because I'm scared of ruining my reputation and be categorized as a 2 pump chump, I was masturbating quick af in my teen years and only recently I've been starting to masturbate and last atleast 15-20 mins, went gradually from 10 mins.
What I've noticed is that I can't last long masturbating when I'm super horny and thinking about how I'm gonna blow my load on that girl(like I'm straight thinking of how I'd have sex and be almost finished), if I just relax and let my arousal go down, I feel like I can masturbate for hours without cumming which leads me to doing Kegels to make myself cum, does this mean my problem stands in me not being able to control my arousal ? I started a sticky thread's routine and I tried masturbating without visual or auditory stimuli, I went at it for like 20 mins and decided to cum cause I was bored, I had like a 7 arousal every time.
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