Quote Originally Posted by Qloz View Post
She told me several times that I was too big and yeah but it's not it. I get extremely anxious when its about to sex and I think about this when we have sex. It's like a circle. I get stressed about the whole thing and anxious about not performing well. I starting to sweat like hell and my heart beating like hell as well. I dunno.
As long as you continue to view potential sexual contact as something stressful instead of something to enjoy, you'll continue to have issues.

Practicing emotional visualization exercises/ calming breathing would be most helpful in your case.