Reached plateau edging, however...

[Gratis Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Gratis]

I was masturbating and reached a plateau where I was at a 9 and kept control... It felt great, I would reverse kegel whenever I came close but continued stimulating. (It lasted for a few minutes then I had to bust )

However, I wasn't stroking. If I did I would immediately bust, I was very gently touching with my fingers.

Now the problem is that I cant stroke my whole cock with my whole hand top to bottom, bottom to top. I immediately feel like firing, and this is the biggest reason of my premature ejaculation.

I am doing kegels and reverse kegels, APT exercises, I can control my pelvic floor, but it's still the same issue, whenever I thrust into something that stimulates everything (a vagina or my hand), I get intense IKs and have to pull out or let go. I can rub my frenulum, I can rub the sides of my penis, I can rub the glans, but when putting them all together (especially when doing an OK sign with my hand and inserting my penis in), I just can't hold any for longer. (I'm cut by the way)

You can check out my previous thread for more info.

I really need some input, hopefully you can share some tips, personal advice or relatable stories.

[Ultimate Burrito Moderator Member of the Month Oct 2017PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Ultimate Burrito]

Fleshlight makes a male stroker called the Stamina Training Unit. I think that would be a good investment for you. It's very intense and it is designed to help guys with pre-E to last longer in the bedroom.

[83show Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 83show]

Im still not sure what to think of my stu , as theres something ive had an allergic reaction to and it maybe silicone or a random reaction to various lubes.

To me it seems like you have a 100/10 arousal response much like im trying to fix and have had fairly good progress.

The way im dealing with mine is edging with as little imagination as possible ( no porn , twerk videos etc ). Mainly just the thought of foreplay with a girl i like . No p and v stuff , just kissing her neck etc ...

It takes me awhile to reach desired eq lvl , but once i do i could stay at this arousal and eq lvl for a long time . I try not to finish but every few times i edge .

One thing more recently i noticed was theres a tension before PONR than i can preform a constant light rk and maintain perfectly . With the way muscle memory works i plan to practice this state daily with as little arousal as possible . After awhile this should become my static state and will be a default my mind is used to being in .

Best of luck

[83show Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 83show]

Im still not sure what to think of my stu , as theres something ive had an allergic reaction to and it maybe silicone or a random reaction to various lubes.

To me it seems like you have a 100/10 arousal response much like im trying to fix and have had fairly good progress.

The way im dealing with mine is edging with as little imagination as possible ( no porn , twerk videos etc ). Mainly just the thought of foreplay with a girl i like . No p and v stuff , just kissing her neck etc ...

It takes me awhile to reach desired eq lvl , but once i do i could stay at this arousal and eq lvl for a long time . I try not to finish but every few times i edge .

One thing more recently i noticed was theres a tension before PONR than i can preform a constant light rk and maintain perfectly . With the way muscle memory works i plan to practice this state daily with as little arousal as possible . After awhile this should become my static state and will be a default my mind is used to being in .

Best of luck

* On a side note , the last time i used the stu i had no issues staying away from PoNR with desired eq using the method listed above.