To introduce myself, I have always struggled in a sense with PE, but I never had actual sex till getting married to my wife In February of this year. First time we had sex last literally 1 second, but she was tired after the wedding and such so she didn't care much. Next morning we tried again and I lasted like 1.5 minutes. Which I would say has been my average since then. I obviously wanted to improve so I have spent since then reading a ton of theory, tried all the usual advice. Kegels, reverse kegels, not masturbating, no porn, edging, ect. With that I found that I was able to edge without even getting close to the PONR, but still whenever we had sex once I got on top and started humping I would feel like I lost control and was about to burst. When she is on top and doing the movement or giving me a blow job I literally have no issues whatsoever which is why I am convinced that this is entirely because of my muscular imbalance.
Thankfully about a month ago I discovered this forum thanks to some comment on r/prematureejaculation (fuck those guys, their advice is so bad the vast majority of the time). I have APT for literally as long as I can remember, I don't even remember being able to touch my toes once in my life it was so bad, I started working on that flexibility about a 4 months ago and now can kinda do it. But I still have a way to tight back and weak glutes and core.
Last Wednesday I went to see a pelvic floor physio who kinda just told me what I already knew, but also did some dry needling on my lower back which released those muscles for probably the first time in a decade. Literally immediately after doing it I stood up and touched my toe. She gave me a couple stretches for my psoas and exercises for my glutes.
This Saturday had sex with the wife, lasted about 5 mins and actually made her orgasm. She told me she doesn't like me to make her without my dick so its been a struggle. But now its time to fix this for good. Any advice would be appreciated specifically how I can better move my hips during sex, I'll try to update this thread a couple of times a week.
Thankfully about a month ago I discovered this forum thanks to some comment on r/prematureejaculation (fuck those guys, their advice is so bad the vast majority of the time). I have APT for literally as long as I can remember, I don't even remember being able to touch my toes once in my life it was so bad, I started working on that flexibility about a 4 months ago and now can kinda do it. But I still have a way to tight back and weak glutes and core.
Last Wednesday I went to see a pelvic floor physio who kinda just told me what I already knew, but also did some dry needling on my lower back which released those muscles for probably the first time in a decade. Literally immediately after doing it I stood up and touched my toe. She gave me a couple stretches for my psoas and exercises for my glutes.
This Saturday had sex with the wife, lasted about 5 mins and actually made her orgasm. She told me she doesn't like me to make her without my dick so its been a struggle. But now its time to fix this for good. Any advice would be appreciated specifically how I can better move my hips during sex, I'll try to update this thread a couple of times a week.
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