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  • How I beat my Premature Ejaculation

    BACKSTORY:

    I get lots of DM's about this so I decided to just make a thread about what it.

    I've suffered with pre-e since I was a kid. I think it was because every time I masturbated I would try to do it discreetly and as fast as possible in the restroom. For awhile I looked at it as an accomplishment, being able to walk in and 10 seconds later be out and nobody would know.

    I was 14 when I started having sex, I quickly realized that me being fast wasn't a good thing haha. I averaged like, 1 minute or so. Way longer if she was on top. I didn't even like to hook up with anyone because I was embarrassed.


    What I tried:

    I tried everything. I could never figure out where the hell the RK's were so gave up on that. Did Hindi squats, edging everyday for years, breathing, trying to distract myself, anything. None of it worked.


    Things I noticed:

    My IK's were insane. If I had an erection or anything and I moved the slightest in my boxers I would IK. It got to a point where my perineum felt like concrete and hurt during edging. So I completely cut off all kegals that I was doing for my PE workouts. My grip was really light when edging too. My glans was hyper sensitive.

    What worked for me:



    When I would wake up in the morning, while flaccid I would grab under the glans and pull straight up into the sky. I noticed that when I stretched it, I would IK no matter what. I would focus my breathing and relax and hold it for 30 seconds. Trying extremely hard not to kegal, I would do a couple sets and then go on with my day.

    When I would pee, I would IK after I was done to get the rest of the drops out. So, I would stop that. I'd finish pee'ing then focus on my breathing, doing deep breathes I would slowly shake the drops out without kegaling, then I would slowly put it back in my shorts and be done. I failed this MANY times, it's not easy at all haha.

    Deathgrips. People who have trouble finishing during sex and need to jerk off to finish, usually have this problem because of deathgrips. Sex isn't as tight as the grip they use when masturbating, they desensitized themselves. I used this to my advantage, every time I edged I would do so with coconut oil. I would use 1 hand to twist the glans with a tight grip and the other to stroke myself at the same time. Both with tight grips. After about 10 minutes or so, I noticed I'd feel less sensitive and more numb. Then I could just continue doing that for as long as I wanted to because I was more numb. This helped me so damn much.

    Porn. I finally cut this off when I got into another relationship at 22. I didn't consciously quit porn, I was just so damn busy and was having sex more so I didn't need it. I highly recommend you cut porn out. It's fucking hard, but what do you have to lose from trying it for 2 weeks or a month?

    Pau Yuen Tong chinese balm. I've seen many people recommend this balm. You put it on about an hour or so before sex and it helps you last a long time. I would put it around the glans and frenulum.

    I didn't try this one but I read up on it a lot and was going to. Bicycling. I read up that people who ride their bikes all the time or use a stationary workout bike have problems cumming. I guess it messes up with your pelvic floor. Anyways I was going to try this technique out but didn't.

    If all else failed, I was going to go the extreme route:

    I don't recommend this to anyone. One thing I know for a fucking fact works but is EXTREMELY DANGEROUS is banding. You basically wrap the base of your penis with many rubber bands and have it on for like 30 seconds or a minute and then cut it off. It desensitizes the fuck out of you. You won't have issues getting hard, but will have trouble cumming. You're less sensitive but it's temporary. After a couple days or a week you'll have all your sensitivity back. Then you do it again. This is dangerous as fuck. I'm only putting it on here because everyone's scared as hell to talk about it on here, but it works. I've tried it a couple times and I could last forever. Before you even go and try this, look up what happened to the guy from ************* when he did this the stupid way. (NSFL)

    First time I had good sex, and lasted a long time:

    This is when it all came together. I just got done edging before and finished. I put on some PYT balm and headed to the hotel with my GF. We hung out in the hot tub, then finished and showered and had sex. I lasted, 3 fucking hours. The balm is what did it. I feel like it rewired my brain or something because all of a sudden I wasn't scared or anxious about it. The balm made me not so fucking anxious about lasting long, it made me confident and then eventually I didn't need the stuff anymore. Mental apparently played a big role, I just needed something to rely on that made me confident. I could last long every damn fucking time. What I also noticed is that when I tried to watch porn, I couldn't get hard. It didn't excite me, I would look at pictures and videos and would not get hard at all. I only could with my gf.


    I was cured.


    If you need to be able to last the same day. I recommend jerking off before with a deathgrip and cumming. Then putting on some PYT balm and then have sex a couple hours later.


    PS: It did come back, that's because I've been single for a bit and have went back to old habits of using porn and not using a deathgrip for masturbation. I don't sweat it though, it's an easy fix for me now. Still have PTY balm. I just quit the porn and went back to deathgrips so I should be ok within a week or so.
    Biggest Goal : Fight my Premature Ejac
    I BEAT IT! https://www.pegym.com/forums/prematu...ml#post1651959

    BPEL : 18.5 (7.2 IN) X MEG : 11.7 CM (4.6 IN) Stretched Flaccid : 7.75in

    Goal: 8inch BP X 5.5in Girth

  • #2
    Hello man, thanks for sharing.
    About the PYT , if you put it and then wash it, it still does its job? And does the girl understand it if she goes for a bj?

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    • #3
      Thank you for sharing your experience and notes with us.

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      • #4
        She'll 100% notice if she gives you a BJ. It'll taste chemically and numb her tongue lol. What I do is put it on a couple hours before and right before sex wipe the glans with a paper just to make sure you get any residue off. Then you have sex
        Biggest Goal : Fight my Premature Ejac
        I BEAT IT! https://www.pegym.com/forums/prematu...ml#post1651959

        BPEL : 18.5 (7.2 IN) X MEG : 11.7 CM (4.6 IN) Stretched Flaccid : 7.75in

        Goal: 8inch BP X 5.5in Girth

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        • #5
          So the balm is a numbing balm?

          If so, that's not what I want. I really wonder how it feels to go for as long as you want without numbing creams or sprays etc.

          It's weird cos weed, even just like two puffs makes me last until I choose to let go, and sex feels really sensational. No numbing. - I often wonder if it's still psychological since if I puffed one from a joint, I know I in my head I'm solid to go for a really long time, and I'm not worried and feel super relaxed and can just do whatever. As soon as I know I am not smoking and going to engage in sex, I'll cum super quick. It's really terrible.

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          • #6
            I only used the balm for the first 2-3 times and then it somehow affected my mental. I didn't need it anymore after that, I was confident without it. My PE did come back this month, probably because I'm not having sex anymore and I was edging with porn all the time
            Biggest Goal : Fight my Premature Ejac
            I BEAT IT! https://www.pegym.com/forums/prematu...ml#post1651959

            BPEL : 18.5 (7.2 IN) X MEG : 11.7 CM (4.6 IN) Stretched Flaccid : 7.75in

            Goal: 8inch BP X 5.5in Girth

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