DE better than PE

[rimlas Member Find all posts View Profile Close rimlas]

I've read some posts about guys having a delayed-ejaculation problem simply because they've been masturbating with a hard grip. This problem seems to be better than blowing your load after a minute. So why not start masturbating with a hard grip? Wouldn't this cure the problem? In moderation ofcourse as not to completely desensitize the penis.

Someone with a PE problem should consider masturbating with a harder grip 2-3 times a week and then have sex on the weekends. See if it works, I don't see why it wouldn't be worth a try. Unless someone rips their dick off, this would be an interesting experiment.

[dyson Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close dyson]

Wish it were that easy, but I don't think it works quite like that. I've masturbated with a hard grip my entire life, yet have had PE the entire as well.

[Pirate Retired AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Pirate]

Wish it were that easy, but I don't think it works quite like that. I've masturbated with a hard grip my entire life, yet have had PE the entire as well.

Alas, I believe that you are correct.

[rimlas Member Find all posts View Profile Close rimlas]

There goes that idea then.

[calixto ModeratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close calixto]

I think it just takes edging practice and the will to slowly build mental control. Easier said than done, right?

[itguy123 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close itguy123]

Just remember, being unable to go is sometimes just as dissatisfying for your lady and going too soon. If they can't get you off, they then start feeling bad about themselves. Pretty much every sex partner I have ever been with kept asking me if they were doing something wrong or if I didn't like them enough to get off. Etc.

[dyson Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close dyson]

I actually talked with my wife about this last night. I was telling her about this site and how some people have the exact opposite problem as me. And how I wished that was my issue, that DE would be so much easier to deal with than PE. She responded that while it might be easier on me, it would be way more difficult on her. That I would be taking the pain I feel now and transferring it to her.

Certainly gave me a new perspective.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Expect a post from me shortly, re possible link in a physical cause of pe and de.