A cure??? Maybe...

[nibbles]

Okay so here's a quick story. Me and my girlfriend had sex I lasted like 30 seconds if that over and over. BUT once we went out for a meal, I ate so much my tummy was actually tense afterwards. We had sex after the meal and I lasted aaaaages.

Now I noticed that when I'm doing reverse kegels my tummy tenses each time sooooo... I reckon the tense stomach had an effect and kept my pc muscle released by performing a reverse kegel without me even knowing.

I've also noticed when i get erections I can tense and hold by doing a reverse kegel and my penis will relax. So..... Surely if i did a reverse kegel and held it whilst having sex or masturbating i could keep it calm and last longer? After a while my body would relax is my itself without me having to do anything.


Thoughts people?

[EndtheVC]

Keep trying this in bed and get back to us with your results. This process is a lot of trial and error. And what works for one person may not work for another.

[spanky]

I think you're right, if indirectly. The trick is probably as you say that after a while your body will relax the pelvic floor on its own without you having to force it.

I certainly hope so - I haven't had sex since discovering this place and these conversations but I figure holding a reverse kegel throughout sex has to be pretty difficult, if desirable at all. I find it hard enough just masturbating.

Definitely interested in hearing about your success trying this

[Pegasus]

I do believe a long held kegel is responsible(in part) for delayed ejaculation.