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Hey everyone, I'm new here. Just want to share my issues and what I've come to learn, since someone may be experiencing pre E the same way.
My story:
-Had a normal sex life with past girlfriend and broke up(I'm 21 years old)
-A year with no relationship followed, which lead to watching as much porn as possible, and masturbating constantly throughout the day to porn(popping off as quickly as 30 seconds using the muscle to speed up ejaculation. It was a form of stress relief)
-New relationship starts, suddenly during any intimate contact I feel a surge of tension throughout my legs and pelvic area, and I'm ready to ejaculate.
What I've done:
-Found this website(thank god)
- Quit porn and started masturbating only here and there, and ejaculating only a couple times a week
-I do ballooning and edging to get back in tune with the physical sensations
-I do kegels, but the muscle was already in prime shape as I could hold a kegel for almost 2 minutes and reverse kegels came easily
The results:
-At first it was tough. After the porn was out of my life I became more relaxed around my GF. My legs and pelvic area were not a time bomb anymore. I used to get erect from a hug(still do sometimes, I'm insanely attracted to her which made my Pre E even worse). I would cum within seconds of insertion(oral, vaginal, etc) even though I wasn't turned on fully. It was the old reflex kicking in.
- I finally had normal sex recently, and the build up to the orgasm was insanely awesome. I didn't feel the tension I feel when I watch porn and I loved it.
I still struggle here and there. I thought I had a physical problem(im uncut), but I realized that it is mostly mental. Foreskin stimulation and glands stimulation makes my muscle spasm sometimes(especially with over visualization) but I'm getting the hang of it. I watched porn the other day since I was curious and it still makes me want to cum in 30 seconds flat at the slightest touch. Even if I over visualize when I masturbate I feel the urge build. If anyone has anxiety and discomfort problems and can't hold back ejaculation I urge you to quit porn, tune into yourself and practice extreme physical stimulation with the least amount of visualization as possible. It will leave u way more satisfied and happy.
Interesting side note: After my strong orgasms through sex, I get a second wind 15 minutes later which results in a massive erection that is harder than the initial one that throbs so hard it almost hurts. I haven't experienced that in so long, perhaps my nerves are becoming repaired after a year of over masturbation.
What do you guys think?
My story:
-Had a normal sex life with past girlfriend and broke up(I'm 21 years old)
-A year with no relationship followed, which lead to watching as much porn as possible, and masturbating constantly throughout the day to porn(popping off as quickly as 30 seconds using the muscle to speed up ejaculation. It was a form of stress relief)
-New relationship starts, suddenly during any intimate contact I feel a surge of tension throughout my legs and pelvic area, and I'm ready to ejaculate.
What I've done:
-Found this website(thank god)
- Quit porn and started masturbating only here and there, and ejaculating only a couple times a week
-I do ballooning and edging to get back in tune with the physical sensations
-I do kegels, but the muscle was already in prime shape as I could hold a kegel for almost 2 minutes and reverse kegels came easily
The results:
-At first it was tough. After the porn was out of my life I became more relaxed around my GF. My legs and pelvic area were not a time bomb anymore. I used to get erect from a hug(still do sometimes, I'm insanely attracted to her which made my Pre E even worse). I would cum within seconds of insertion(oral, vaginal, etc) even though I wasn't turned on fully. It was the old reflex kicking in.
- I finally had normal sex recently, and the build up to the orgasm was insanely awesome. I didn't feel the tension I feel when I watch porn and I loved it.
I still struggle here and there. I thought I had a physical problem(im uncut), but I realized that it is mostly mental. Foreskin stimulation and glands stimulation makes my muscle spasm sometimes(especially with over visualization) but I'm getting the hang of it. I watched porn the other day since I was curious and it still makes me want to cum in 30 seconds flat at the slightest touch. Even if I over visualize when I masturbate I feel the urge build. If anyone has anxiety and discomfort problems and can't hold back ejaculation I urge you to quit porn, tune into yourself and practice extreme physical stimulation with the least amount of visualization as possible. It will leave u way more satisfied and happy.
Interesting side note: After my strong orgasms through sex, I get a second wind 15 minutes later which results in a massive erection that is harder than the initial one that throbs so hard it almost hurts. I haven't experienced that in so long, perhaps my nerves are becoming repaired after a year of over masturbation.
What do you guys think?
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