Am i just edging/ballooning during sex or is it mmo/do???????????????????????????????

[JamesMonroe]

When I get close to ejaculation and I do a hard reverse kegel to stop ejaculation, am I having a DO or MMO or is it just a stop&start/edging/ballooning technique and reducing my arousal level before a potential ejaculation???? WHAT'S THE DIFFERENCE??? When you DO are you supposed to last a very long time after that? It seems like I'm just stopping for a while, recuperating and continuing but the PONRs get closer together. Sometimes it feels like an orgasm cuz it's so close to ejaculation. Sometimes I can go for a long time after and sometimes I can't. When I do it during easy positions I can keep going long after a PONR, but during doggie the feeling comes back almost instantly. I DON'T KNOW!!!! HELP!!!!

[Stamina Man]

What's a DO and MMO?

[Pegasus]

when i coach I go with the if it walks like a duck and quacks theory . What is it a duck! If it feels like an orgasm it is an orgasm.
The ponr can arrive quickly after a dry orgasm ,because you are allready aroused and you do not go into refrac period. Now there are a couple of ways to deal with this , the one I usually use, is to have another orgasm.

[mvergasioin]

I Have had one set of dry orgasms (within 10.minutes of each other) followed by another ponr right after and ejaculation. I have come close to these again in the last few days too. They walk like a duck and they are ducks and I think you have had ducks too. When My reverse kegel strength increases I will be doing it a lot more.

For Stamina Man: mmo is multiple male orgasm and DO is dry orgasm. Typically if you ejaculate you have one wet orgasm and you're done. You don't ejaculate with a dry orgasm, hence dry, but you certainly orgasm and can cum multiple times if you like.

[insight]

I've tried to hold a reverse kegel in order to prevent me from ejaculating, but instead it just comes out as if I'm forcing urine out. How do you prevent this?

[JamesMonroe]

I've tried to hold a reverse kegel in order to prevent me from ejaculating, but instead it just comes out as if I'm forcing urine out. How do you prevent this?

I pull out in time and perform a hard rev keg, causing a dry orgasm. Works every time. I only wait 5 seconds and keep going slowly at first. I noticed if u do reg or rev while penetrating, it causes ejac. Pull out and push out hard. If it doesnt work then maybe you are not good at rev kegels yet. rev and reg kegels during penetration cause an inflated penis head and sensitivity. Bad news. Need to pull out. Best thing to do during sex is keep relaxed by holding a very light reverse kegel. You get better with time.

[Pegasus]

Most guys find reg kegel an easier way to do dry O.

[spanky]

forgive me if I'm misunderstanding, but I thought DO came with spasms but no fluid, and what you're doing JamesMonroe is just staving it off and then hitting arousal control to try to keep it more at bay? Only saying 'cause I've got pretty close to DO with regular kegels and I get an awful lot of breathing room after that.

[JamesMonroe]

forgive me if I'm misunderstanding, but I thought DO came with spasms but no fluid, and what you're doing JamesMonroe is just staving it off and then hitting arousal control to try to keep it more at bay? Only saying 'cause I've got pretty close to DO with regular kegels and I get an awful lot of breathing room after that.

That's I'm trying to figure out. Maybe I'm just doing start and stop and with reverse kegels to stop right before ejac. Whatever the case may be... I've been lasting an average of 45 minutes lately of hard,fast, hot porn sex so i must be doing something right. Haha. I honestly think it's frequent sex, sex 2-3 times a day, reverse kegels, no regular kegels, and lots of new confidence and great training. Patience, and time is key. Our body and mind takes a while to learn new routines. I don't even balloon or edge or masturbate at all anymore and I'm getting better and better w real sex every day. Regular kegels cause me pre-cum and Ejaculation almost instantly btw.

[mvergasioin]

forgive me if I'm misunderstanding, but I thought DO came with spasms but no fluid, and what you're doing JamesMonroe is just staving it off and then hitting arousal control to try to keep it more at bay? Only saying 'cause I've got pretty close to DO with regular kegels and I get an awful lot of breathing room after that.

The spasms are held at bay /moderated to prevent the semen from being forced out. As the physiological spasms are moderated there is a wave of intense sensation which is the dry orgasm. Arousal then tends to go down a little below real ponr and then typically increases with continued stimulation. Then the same cycle thing typically repeats if you choose or your control is sufficient.


Yeah James seems to be staving it off, but he is also choosing to allow himself to do a regular ejaculation when he is ready to do so. Am I reflecting your experiences correctly James?

My hypothesis about your "breathing room" is that you are using your kegels and other techniques to keep arousal down until you are ready to approach ponr again.

I'm still trying to figure out whether regular or reverse kegels are better for me to prevent a wet ejaculation and have a dry one instead. My limited experience with DO occurred with use of a series of quick regular kegels, but several guys here are successfully using reverse kegels. I need to do more experimentation and practice to get a better idea of what works for me.