Hey guys and gals,
So if any of you have read any of my previous posts, you know I'm in a very long term relationship (10 years) and have struggled with Pre-E during most of it. I'm doing a lot of work with a sexologist, and a lot of self work (edging, RK's, regular kegals, breathing exercises), however intimacy with my better half is here and there lately, some due to the fact that we're both a bit nervous starting all over again (we have gone long periods of time without having sex due to my lack of performance and the tension it has caused as I have let it go on a long time)
My question to is this: Is it normal that I come really fast after we haven't been intimate in a few weeks? Can I make any progress if we only have sex once or twice a week? I don't want to force the issue, but I feel like nothing is going to progress unless we can at least do 3-5 times a week. Am I crazy? Am I asking too much?
Please give honest opinions, as I need some please.
As an aside - please know that my GF and I are VERY much still in love. I'm not delusional thinking this either - we have a very strong bond, are each others best friends, and lately have actually been falling in love with each other all over again. Don't haze me for sounding corny guys ;-)
So if any of you have read any of my previous posts, you know I'm in a very long term relationship (10 years) and have struggled with Pre-E during most of it. I'm doing a lot of work with a sexologist, and a lot of self work (edging, RK's, regular kegals, breathing exercises), however intimacy with my better half is here and there lately, some due to the fact that we're both a bit nervous starting all over again (we have gone long periods of time without having sex due to my lack of performance and the tension it has caused as I have let it go on a long time)
My question to is this: Is it normal that I come really fast after we haven't been intimate in a few weeks? Can I make any progress if we only have sex once or twice a week? I don't want to force the issue, but I feel like nothing is going to progress unless we can at least do 3-5 times a week. Am I crazy? Am I asking too much?
Please give honest opinions, as I need some please.
As an aside - please know that my GF and I are VERY much still in love. I'm not delusional thinking this either - we have a very strong bond, are each others best friends, and lately have actually been falling in love with each other all over again. Don't haze me for sounding corny guys ;-)
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