Situation:
My girl recently admitted to wanting to have sex with me. Now, I know I can hold her off on the sex for a bit, and I don't want to use numbing creams or anything, but I'm afraid that I might not satisfy her, or that I might only last a minute or two. I know the first step is not being intimidated or tense or anxious, or any of those emotions, and I try not to be, but I figured coming on here might help ease the stress. (Not that there's a lot of it, but it's a precaution.) I'm really trying to break the "Horny Teenager" stereotype, because I really don't just want to get off and be done, I actually want her to feel pleasure and be happy and satisfied. I'm not concered about the size of my penis, nor am I self conscious around her. When I masturbate, I often find myself rushing for no particular reason, and I'm afraid that I might have contracted some form of "Muscle Memory". I don't want to go as fast as I do when I masturbate, and just today I attempted Edging. I lasted about 20 or so minutes before I tensed up. I read that you shouldn't ejaculate while Edging, but if you never ejaculate, won't that cause some problems? Anyways, if anyone could tell me the quickest way to solve my problem, (And I know there's no "Quick-Fix" method to a problem like this, I just mean what would help me the most in a 2-3 week timeframe.) I would be extremely greatful.
Side-note: I inhale and exhale to relax my muscles, and I can go without flexing for a bit, but then it eventually becomes involentary and I can't help myself. If anyone could even provide me with some small tips to lasting longer I'd be extremely appreciative (Eg. Solving mathematical equations, thinking of anything BUT your penis, breathing excercises.) and sorry if any of this was hard to understand or was jumbled. I'm typing this up at 4am and I'm extremely tired.
Thanks for any help, again.
Edit: Also, for putting on a condom and everything, what's the best way to do it without being awkward? I mean, I can get them on fine, but how would you do it without killing the mood? One of my friends walked out of the room to do it, and his girlfriend has been laughing about it to me ever since. I don't want to end up like my friend. (And no, that's not a cover up to a personal problem or I'd include it in my summary. She always complains about her sex problems to me since I'm his friend and she thinks I'm going to "talk to him" about it.)
My girl recently admitted to wanting to have sex with me. Now, I know I can hold her off on the sex for a bit, and I don't want to use numbing creams or anything, but I'm afraid that I might not satisfy her, or that I might only last a minute or two. I know the first step is not being intimidated or tense or anxious, or any of those emotions, and I try not to be, but I figured coming on here might help ease the stress. (Not that there's a lot of it, but it's a precaution.) I'm really trying to break the "Horny Teenager" stereotype, because I really don't just want to get off and be done, I actually want her to feel pleasure and be happy and satisfied. I'm not concered about the size of my penis, nor am I self conscious around her. When I masturbate, I often find myself rushing for no particular reason, and I'm afraid that I might have contracted some form of "Muscle Memory". I don't want to go as fast as I do when I masturbate, and just today I attempted Edging. I lasted about 20 or so minutes before I tensed up. I read that you shouldn't ejaculate while Edging, but if you never ejaculate, won't that cause some problems? Anyways, if anyone could tell me the quickest way to solve my problem, (And I know there's no "Quick-Fix" method to a problem like this, I just mean what would help me the most in a 2-3 week timeframe.) I would be extremely greatful.
Side-note: I inhale and exhale to relax my muscles, and I can go without flexing for a bit, but then it eventually becomes involentary and I can't help myself. If anyone could even provide me with some small tips to lasting longer I'd be extremely appreciative (Eg. Solving mathematical equations, thinking of anything BUT your penis, breathing excercises.) and sorry if any of this was hard to understand or was jumbled. I'm typing this up at 4am and I'm extremely tired.
Thanks for any help, again.
Edit: Also, for putting on a condom and everything, what's the best way to do it without being awkward? I mean, I can get them on fine, but how would you do it without killing the mood? One of my friends walked out of the room to do it, and his girlfriend has been laughing about it to me ever since. I don't want to end up like my friend. (And no, that's not a cover up to a personal problem or I'd include it in my summary. She always complains about her sex problems to me since I'm his friend and she thinks I'm going to "talk to him" about it.)
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