So confused! =(

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OK guys so iv had a very bad "quick masturbation" addiction lets say and iv decided to give that up , because i didn't realize the consequences it gave. i stopped masturbating all together since like a week ago and i tried edging and i couldn't even edge couldnt stop the orgasam at all i felt like i just wanted to explode all over the whole neighborhood (big explosion) is this normal? is my body getting used to or its getting confused why i'm not masturbating? is this a good thing or a bad thing. by the way i never had this much urge to explode before ever. help me out guys thanks a lot.

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I had exactly the same issue as you did when I first started edging... It will only get better don't worry, even though I'm not fully cured yet, I'm so much better... Just stay calm and breathe there's no rush, patience is key here. I started off without looking at porn and edging, this helped a lot... Just use your imagination.

I can now go nearly 50mins edging on just thoughts but only 7-8mins with porn, so I'm working on that..

So start without porn! And go from there... Beleive me, it's curable

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thanks buddy if i need help ill be sure to turn to you!

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OK guys so iv had a very bad "quick masturbation" addiction lets say and iv decided to give that up , because i didn't realize the consequences it gave. i stopped masturbating all together since like a week ago and i tried edging and i couldn't even edge couldnt stop the orgasam at all i felt like i just wanted to explode all over the whole neighborhood (big explosion) is this normal? is my body getting used to or its getting confused why i'm not masturbating? is this a good thing or a bad thing. by the way i never had this much urge to explode before ever. help me out guys thanks a lot.

You have to re-educate your body and your mind, it can take some time, so enjoy the process of learning. Slow down, vary up your strokes, and work on stopping. A key to beating quick masturbation and enhancing your sessions is to learn your stages of arousal, at first you may have to stroke to 70% and stop, but as you learn more about your stages of arousal you can get closer and closer while still keeping control. The good news is this is a very pleasurable process, just be patient and enjoy yourself :P