Masturbation and pornografie.

[CrocodileLion Member Find all posts View Profile Close CrocodileLion]

2 Questions that I need to have answered before i continue my training.

Q1: Should i be using porn when masturbating to make my ejaculation less repsonsive?
-If not do i keep my erection up? with visualising now and then?

Q2: Should i be using porn when masturbating to learn to control arousel?

Q3: How should i masturbate(train) to make my ejaculation nervous system less responsive?

Thank you

[VIPER Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close VIPER]

Q1) Answer = It is highly recognised here in the PE community that masturbating to porn is a big NO. As for keeping it up ...focus on the physical sensations and using the mind. Avoid external stimuli!
Q2) Answer = Same as #1, porn is not educational in anyway, shape or form.
Q3) Answer = This is where stamina exercises come in and why they're important. If you have not done so already have read up on Kegels, Edging and Ballooning. This is how you learn to deal with the sensations and delay the PONR.

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

Q1) Answer = It is highly recognised here in the PE community that masturbating to porn is a big NO. As for keeping it up ...focus on the physical sensations and using the mind. Avoid external stimuli!
Q2) Answer = Same as #1, porn is not educational in anyway, shape or form.
Q3) Answer = This is where stamina exercises come in and why they're important. If you have not done so already have read up on Kegels, Edging and Ballooning. This is how you learn to deal with the sensations and delay the PONR.

Thumbs up. Great answer.

[ThomasJohnThomas Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ThomasJohnThomas]

As I see it, porn is ok every once in a while, but not every day or every other day. Being reliant on porn for arousel is not good and can reduce your EQ. I watched porn almost everyday for a long time, when I quit or cut back a great deal, some months back, I grew about half a centimeter. I belive the "fakest" porn fucks you up the most Just my thoughts.

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

As I see it, porn is ok every once in a while, but not every day or every other day. Being reliant on porn for arousel is not good and can reduce your EQ. I watched porn almost everyday for a long time, when I quit or cut back a great deal, some months back, I grew about half a centimeter. I belive the "fakest" porn fucks you up the most Just my thoughts.

It can also cause Prem Ejac. Read my posts.

[VIPER Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close VIPER]

Thumbs up. Great answer.

Thank you

[adiavroxos Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close adiavroxos]

If you want to watch porn then do it. But DO NOT even touch yourself or masturbate with or after it. If I watch some then I get really aroused down there and start to burn like hell. I edge/ballon for about 30' with absolutely no external help to keep it up or arouse myself. I just focus on what I feel and it feels great to keep myself aroused for that long. The sensation is great by itself. If you want to think of something to help you, then think of that your hand is actually your girlfriend's vagina and that right now you are both enjoying the best sex of your lives. That way you will also learn to get aroused by natural women and normal sex, not by porn stars and their fake screaming.

[adiavroxos Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close adiavroxos]

It can also cause Prem Ejac. Read my posts.

That's why I'm here. All these years of watching porn everytime I masturbate and just going for ejaculation as fast as possible so I get on with the rest of the day finally took their toll. :/

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

That's why I'm here. All these years of watching porn everytime I masturbate and just going for ejaculation as fast as possible so I get on with the rest of the day finally took their toll. :/

That's what gave me prem ejac too. Same thing and I had no gf for a whole year and I did it WITHOUT lube. Big no no. also I was doing regular kegels the whole time and sitting on a hard chair putting pressure on the prostate. It is the best way to get prem ejac, but all these kids in here still think yanking it to porn is "great training". Haha. WRONG!!!!!
Watching porn and NOT touching yourself to lower arousal is great training.

[maximus1986 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close maximus1986]

Ive been trying to quit PMO altogether, but not going well. Your saying i can watch porn, and masterbate but not at the same time, and this will cure prem ejac problems and sort out arousal levels?

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

Ive been trying to quit PMO altogether, but not going well. Your saying i can watch porn, and masterbate but not at the same time, and this will cure prem ejac problems and sort out arousal levels?

Yes... thats what i mean.... BUT its PART of the solution. You also have to do lots of other things like certain exercises outside of sex and certain routines and practices and exercises WITH your sex partner. Keep reading. NEVER masturbate to porn. Watch it but dont touch yoursekf. When you do masturbate ALWAYS use lube and dont sit on a hard surface. do more reverse kegels than regular kegels.